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writes:I am married, for 10 years and I have been a stay at home mom for the last 6 years. I recently started going back to school and working. What I am going through right now is I am attracted to another guy at my work and I'm trying real hard to fight it. He doesn't know and of course, neither does my husband. I'm really scared about my feelings and I just need some advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): I am married with a child too going through this right now with an attraction with a previous co-worker that I recently bumped into regained contact with and can't stop thinking about this man not sexually though but just how good he smells and how he looks and its driving me crazy. But everyday when I pick up the phone to dial his # I ask myself is it worth it over an attraction and my son will be bought up in single parent household if my husband finds out. BUt I know it is hard because it is very hard for me to deal with. But all I can say of how I am dealing with it is by asking myself is worth it. If you say yes then your husband is not the one and need to reevualate your marriage
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (8 October 2007):
 If your marriage is important to you you will continue to fight it. I wont be worth losing your husband for some guy that may or may not like you. Try this. Everytime you start to think about the other guy, Think about your husband and how much you love him and how much he means to you. That should help slove your problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): Tommy7 is so right. We all have fantasies but never act on them. The damage you will cause will have ripples that will go on forever. What will you achieve? He may fancy you in return, he may not. Put 100% into your own marriage and view this guy as a good looking bit of eye candy that never leaves the shop window!!!
take care
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (8 October 2007):
It is OK to be attracted and have fantasies so long as you don't act on them. Keep it in your head.
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