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36-40,
anonymous
writes: i'v known this guy for a year now we are more friend then any thing. I have really strong feelings for him, from when we met we have always kissed and cuddled and things you do when your into someone but he has alwAys told he didnt wont a girlfriend.At first i was happy with that, then i started to fall for him! I always had it in the back of my head that we would end up being together, but then he told me he has got back with one of his ex girlfriend!!! It hurt but i still really wonted to be his friend and he wonted that too, but every time we see each other we still kiss and stuff, i really dont no what to do. I know i should end things but every time i go to do it i bottle out and things carry on. I havent felt this way about anyone before, he messes me about. i only see him once a week, we dont really go out an do any thing so why have i fallen for him and how do i keep myself away from him and just get over it....?? HELP!!??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): Get away from him... tell him you refuse to kiss a man who has a girlfriend... you don't want to be the 'other woman'... there are better guys out there... ones who don't cheat on their girlfriends.
It's obvious he is not interested in you romantically... if he wanted you as a girlfriend he would have made a move by now. He's probably just using you because you're easy to get- you kiss him even though he says you two have no future as a couple... you're not "the one" for him. He's not "the one" for you. Move along quickly and let him know that the kissing is over!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): Leave this man alone!!! I agree with Tommy7. Why would you want a man who is cheating on his girlfriend? He's a loser. Get rid of him.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (8 October 2007):
Why would you want a guy who is cheating on his gf? Stop, he's easy for you for a reason. Spend some quality time looking for a quality guy.
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