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writes: ok theres this one guy that im really scared of. he supposedly likes and he always calls me sexy and hot. it makes me feel nervous and i tell him to stop. he bugs me alot and tries to make me feel guilty that i dont want to go out with him. you cant blame me. i always try to tell him to stop but he wont listen. should i ignore him? what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (8 October 2007):
 i get that a lot when im at work i just tell them to f**k off it they try anything else but if it gets worse i go to his superviser or mine they normally leave me a lone. its annoying but you have to be firm even if its not in work tell someone else to tell him stright.
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reader, Midge +, writes (8 October 2007):
 It depends where you are that this person does this to you. If its at work, I suggest you ask him nicely to stop saying things like that to you because it makes you uncomfortable. If that doesnt work, I suggest getting someone that is slightly higher in the authority chain to have a brief chat with him about his actions. 90% of the time it does work.
If its at school or somewhere else, I would suggest that you try and make sure that you arent alone with this person if at all possible.
I used to work with a guy that made me feel totally uncomfortable and I just wanted to get out when he was there. He used to call me darling, hotlips and such things, so you can imagine it wasnt something I wanted to hear. Also, he used to tell me what he wanted to do to me in the bedroom. I used to just constantly bring up my boyfriend in conversation. He obviously didnt want to hear about him, so I found our conversations very short and too the point. Eventually he left me alone all together.
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX  +, writes (8 October 2007):
 Ignore him. If he continues to bug you, tell him to buzz off. If that doesn't work, get a male friend to tell him to leave you alone. If that doenst work go to an adult. Adults are there for a reason.
Be Safe,
XxAngelDust89xX
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