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I want us to be more than friends - what can I do?

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Question - (8 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2007)
A male age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I think I am falling for a good friend. They don't know I feel this way but I know they don't feel the same way. I don't want to tell them because it could ruin our relationship as friends and she will proberbly shoot me down. I don't know what to do and it's annoying me so much. usually when I like someone I can talk to them but I never know what to say when I'm around her. I would prefer to have her as a friend then nothing at all but I want us to be much more. What could I possibly do?

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A female reader, rachy-baby-helps United Kingdom +, writes (8 October 2007):

rachy-baby-helps agony auntIf you don't think that she feels the same, then don't say anything, but let her get to know you as if you were her boyfriend (not physical).

Try pretending that she is someone else, this could enable you to talk more freely.

Just act like yoursel and if she likes you, there will be some signs:

more eye contact

standing closer to you

talking abot more personal things

Good Luck :-)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

look, at your age you go through mny phases, im not a lot older myself. build it up gradually, ie, invite to the cinemea with your friends, then just you. if she likes you then shell do it, if not then maybe youre not right for eachother

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