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anonymous
writes: i like this one guy alot. i always have the urge to talk to him and be with him. but when i picture him as my boyfriend it seems kinda weird. idk if he seems like the kind of person that would be a boyfriend because hes kinda a dork which is exactly why i love him. he doesnt care wat ppl think about him. idk if its because i only want him as a friend. i really really confused because im always thinking about him. oh and one more thing. we always joke around, laugh and have so much fun together. if he noes i like him or if hes my boyfriend will that change? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (8 October 2007):
Sounds to me like he could be a good bf for you.
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (8 October 2007):
If he is a true friend your feelings about him should have no effect on your current relationship. Personally, I think he should be flattered. I would wait until you are sure of where you stand abotu him before letting your feelings abotu him show. Once you have decided, i tihkn the best way for you to convey your feelings would be through casual, mildly discreet flirting, if you decide to pursue him. When you are, joking around, and he says something to make you laugh lay your hand on his arm (to "steady yourself") and jude his reaction. or you can give him casual hug and jokingly tell him, "you know your gonna make some girl a freat boyfriend" or something along those lines and se what he does. Base all of your moves on time place his mood and such. if he doesnt react in a way that incorages you, back off and try again. all he can do is say no.
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