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female
age
36-40,
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writes:hi am just staying over my boyfriends.we are both 21, been together for a year now. i diacovered he is checking out gay porn and gay sites to meet gay men and have sex.i didn't mean to pry but it was there!i thought we had a pretty spicy sex life, we enjoy plain boring sunday sex, drunked sex, role play and dressing up... i work for ann summers for godsake!!what do i make of that? is it a boy thing or is he gay? i never thought he could be! then again am shocked! i love him we are planning a future together. shall i face him with that or casually ask him?where do i go from here?am actually thinking of suggestung a threesome...i do not want that to affect our relationship..help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): You need to talk to him and find out for yourself. Some blokes are intrigued by looking on these sites but nothing is meant by it. He could be just curious. I wouldnt suggest any threesomes because people get hurt and nothing but bad usually comes from these things. I personally think they are just for fantasy and should be left there. Talk to him.
take care
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reader, AmyJeffx +, writes (8 October 2007):
well try and talk to him about it
gay sex might turn him on, might not make him gay
he might be bi
but please bring this up you dont want lies ruinin your relationship
amy
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reader, BlueEyedAngel  +, writes (8 October 2007):
 Ok start off by suggesting a thresome with a guy and see how he reacts. If he is all up for it then casually work your way to the question about the web site. Tell him it is ok to tell you anything he wants to talk about , but you defintly need to know the truth. Good luck and if you want to talk privatly you can email me
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