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female
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30-35,
*oftballplaya
writes:ok, well my life is so confusing right now lol. me and my ex broke up about 2 weeks ago. i really did like him and bla bla bla so on and so on. well he new girlfriend. i have gym with her so i kno who she is and vice versa. well me and my ex stayed friends but we didnt talk after the break up (it just kinda left things on a good note and not a hateful ending) well i hadnt talked to him since they started dating and my phone rings! its him but i didnt answer cause i knew it was odd of him to call so i imagined it was her. it was cuase i texted him and she siad it was her and she told me not to ever f****ng call or txt him again!!!. my question is why would she initiate problems with me?? i had no intention of contacting him for a while. Do you think my ex might have said something good about me that pissed her off?? i have no idea whats going on with them but apparently now they are done, if that helps any lol they ended 3 days after she did this to me (which i find funny)anyways ill take any advice xoxo
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reader, rcn +, writes (8 October 2007):
 Exercising her control.
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (8 October 2007):
softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question and i didnt contact him until she called me, which i saw no reasone for, we hadnt talked in a while so again, what is the point in telling me not to contact someone who i had no intention in contacting!?
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (8 October 2007):
softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i mean i do want him back in a way, but id rather him be happy even if hes not with me. i wished them the best eventhough i cant stand her as well. i havent talked to him since before they got together, cause i kno my boundaries and i didnt want to cross lines while they were together. thats all.
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reader, rcn +, writes (8 October 2007):
It's her jealousy. She's with him now, you were with him, you contacting him posses a possible threat to what she's trying to accomplish. It's the fear of you going back to the ex while she's with him.
He may have broken it off because she didn't have the right to dictate who he talks too or sends text messages too. It could also be viewed as her trying to control his behaviors which young men don't like to be controlled much.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (8 October 2007):
You are way too interested in you ex and his gf. Is your goal to get him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): she probably feels threatened since you don't absolutely hate each other's guts and she might assume you 2 still do like each other and might get back together. there isn't much you can do except don't encourage her at all, i wouldn't reply to the texts or anything.
if they're over now then she probably won't bother you again since there's no relationship with him to be potentially ruined by you.
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