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How can I get my performance under control?

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Question - (8 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, *-TOWN 815 writes:

i never used to cum fast and now i cum way too fast its really affecting my relationship with my girl. i know its not her because her body is amazing and sex with her is great. but now she rarly wants to have sex and i know its because of my performance.what can i do over something i have no control over.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

a couple of tips: never doubt yourself, if your g/f is getting annoyed then may be you should talk to her let her no that its really not her its something that needs to be resolved together. Another tip: there are tips for men in regards to premature ejactulation see your doc for safer techniques ( if you wanna be naughty seek advise about viagra they say once you cum your still hard which means you can satisfy her as well but its not for regular use). You have nothing to worry about relax take your time go to your doctors there might be under rooted issues, like stress depression, anything!!! BUT TALK TO HER FIRST!!!!!

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A female reader, nikiem United States +, writes (8 October 2007):

nikiem agony auntok i'm a girl who loves to have sex my b/f always cums before i do but i love it when he cums i feel like i am doing something right but i use to not feel like that even though u cum first u always have a finger or tongue u can use

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

a mature relationship can not be soley based on sex. i belive if she does truly love you there are other variations that you can use, to lengthen the period during the horizontal samba. talk to her about this, let her know it worries you, she could possibly advise you, and by getting her view points. If she is at all not up to working things out, then mate maybe she isnt into you as much as you think. Either way just get your point across.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

Ok, from a chicks perspective, im sure shes just upset cos u come and shes left all worked up from what has happened. (she hasnt come) So, my advice to you is, give her alot of foreplay, work her uo a lot, have sex, and after you have come, do things to her that will make her come. Just explain to her thats what youre gonna do first, so that she actually lets you get started.

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