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*lade633
writes:me (17) and my ex girlfriend (15) broke up after 9 mouths and 1 fall out 2 weeks before she split up with me. i foght about spending time with each other. i said to spend one day with her for a specail day but she told me that she whats to go ou with friends instead. i said ok she can go out but phne me if you are going to be longer then she said she would just so im not worried. she not phone me and so 8 hours instead of one like she told me. the next day we agreed to for get about wanted happend. that was are first fell out. over the few days before she want out she was having a go at me saying that i never let her with friends but she never asked me can she go out so how can i stop her???the two days after she when out she tells me that she wants to break up with me so i told her why dont we have a week apart and forget about it long and carry on like nomal she ok thats probly what i need bit of space. i said ok then but phone me if you what to talk.the next time i here something from her so 3 days after we agreed on taking a week apart and she said that she wants to slpit up with me again so i asked a mate to talk to her because i was in a real state she told him that she wants to talk to me and sort things out but i have to wait and phone her the next dayso i waited ten she told me that it so over and that she dosent love me no more.my mate toke the phone from me and starting having ago at her and hung the phone up. i waited 2 days to see if she could phone me back or try and contract me but nothing so i go and see anther mate. i told him everything that has happened and he told me to phone her back once more. so i did but there was no answer. later that night i was round the said mates house and she phoned me back.i told her that i loved her and that im crazy about her my mate asked to have a word with her and she told him that she wants to talk and sort things out like she did my anther mate a few days before but again i have to wait until later today to phone her backlater that night i find out that she has deleted her bebo, and changed her msn address.a threed mate got it for me. i was dieing to know what she had on her emails, i knoew that it there was something that i had to see on there.so i changed it ( i knew stat off want her password saw) and intheir i saw that she had a few emails froma guy that has been asking he out while we were going out.the emails said that they were going out and that she has done something to him ( do not say what) and that he wants to have sex with herthis broken my heart even more that it was already.my question is is their anything that i can do???(i know that their is something that i can do their has to be something i can do)baring in mind that phoned me back AFTER saying that she dosent love meand told to of my mates that she wants to sort things out with me
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 October 2007):
 Blade633, don't even try to win her back. You don't deserve to be cheated on. The time she supposedly spent with her friends may well be time she spent with this other guy. And, she's avoiding you. But, most of all, she has alraedy said you're over. I know you're in pain, but, don't try. She doesn't want it, and she's not worth it. I know what I'm talking about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): Hi Hunny,
I can see how broken hearted you are by reading your question, I am sorry this has happened, from what you have written it seems she has made her mind up these e-mails that your talking about were sent during your relationship I hope im right there?
She has spoken to 2 of your friends and from experience what she will say to them is maybe not what she will say to you, she does not want to get into a argument with your mates so she will say whatever to calm the situation down hun, Ive seen this before.
I no you love her but if she has been seeing someone before you broke up even though she is young do you want this worry and heartache in your life over and over again.
I understand you want her back love, Its very hard when you love someone so much and they say they dont love you anymore it cuts as deep as if it were a knife and I can really understand your pain, You just have to take one day at a time and see how you go love its not going to get better in one day or week, You must keep busy even though you wont feel like it.
And if you do get to talk to her see how things go from there ok hun, Unfortunatly these things canot be rushed or changed sometimes, So if you need a chat then message me, you take care WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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