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Update to my last question

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Question - (8 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *aelicgurl2479 writes:

This is an update to my last question...

I just talked to him and after a very long, kinda weird conversation, i found out we both feel the same way. We both have wondered if the other person is "the one" and we both feel very frightened of that idea for some reason. he says that he doesnt know why hes scared because i am "the coolest most amazing girl hes ever met". i dont know what im scared of either, what do you think this irrational fear is? we both also said that the other is suprisingly, not what we expected looks wise. (meaning like i always preferred tall dark and handsome, and he is 2" shorter than me, and blonde lol) he also said that he has often thought of me as "a viable option even though i live over 3000 miles away." (yes, he uses big words lol) i know its not possible for us to be together now, but what do you think? what are the odds? and what do you think that this irrational fear could be? ( btw, were both 18 and in college)

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A female reader, gaelicgurl2479 United States +, writes (8 March 2008):

gaelicgurl2479 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

gaelicgurl2479 agony auntWe got married on February 14. :) Thank you to everyone who helped. :)

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (8 October 2007):

Odds are below 50% because you are so physically apart. But the odd ore not immpossible. What's the harm in trying?

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A female reader, XxAngelDust89xX United States +, writes (8 October 2007):

XxAngelDust89xX agony auntYou know you can add your own comments to your own questions the same way you give advice on other peoples questions. It makes it easier for people to give advice on questions you have updated!!

Click on the link at the top of the page that says "your questions", click on the question you want to add the update to, and scroll to the bottom of the page and add your update.

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