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Friends for 12 years, and now we're developing stronger feelings. Anybody else experienced this?

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Question - (8 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

We are friends since 12 years ago. We started developing strong feelings for each other last year. I am involved with a friend we both know and love. We live in separate countries so when he comes visit he stays with us. He came visit us last Christmas with some friends. We would be in a room all together and we would look at each other by chance...we could not take our eyes off of each other's for seconds, even if we wanted to, and it felt as if everybody else in the room desapeared, just the 2 of us... during this mutual extended gaze I would feel as if I was seeing his soul and his heart and how much he loves me and as if he was seeing the same in me. It happened several times during 10 days every day. It was like we wanted to tell each other how we felt but we couldn't with words so we did it through our eyes? Weird but amazing! I can say I know now for certain how he feels and I know he knows now, it was so obvious for the two of us...anybody has ever experienced this?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

Yes I have, and if you're not happy in your relationship end it & tell this guy how you feel about him.

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A female reader, hotty United Kingdom +, writes (8 October 2007):

hi there, i have experienced this. i was married but recently we both called it a day. a mutual friend of ours that we have known for about 10 yrs was out at the same time i was celebrating my new found freedom. a one night stand happened between us, which admittedly was awkward at first, but i did have feelings for this man before i got married. to cut a long story short the one night stand happened a year ago and we've been together since, i even met his parents over the weekend. the only bit of advice i can give you is to make sure you end your current relationship before starting a new be it with your friend or someone new, but you do need to talk to this person to make sure his feelings towards you are genuine and not just lust, but you also need to find out if your current relationship is going anywhere first.goodluck.x

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