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Who do I choose? My friend or my first crush?

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Question - (8 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2007)
A male South Africa age 36-40, *hetz writes:

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Well, I haven't quite told the whole story. It's a bit complicated, but I'll try to make it easy to understand. There's also another girl i like. Yes, there's two girls I like, the one mentioned in my previous question and the one I'm about to mention. lets call the girl i like in my previous post jill, and the one i'm gonna mention, ann...right, well, i used to like ann since the ifth grade, and i know for a fact that she ha a huge crush on me, but only found out after we stopped seeing each other. we went to different high schools so we never saw each other for about five years. she got over me, but I haven't gotten over her as yet. last year, by luck, I managed to get her phone number, and I easily befriended her. soon, I told her I liked her. this was all happening before i met jill. ann sort of knew i liked her and decided to give me a chance with her. well, we haven't been going out exactly, but we did keep in touch a lot. she kinda got fed up that i didn't visit her at all, so she decided to just stick to being friends. I haven't gotten over her as yet, because i had a crush on her for almost eight years now. and when she sees that I'm in love on my facebook she sort of gets jealous, in my opinion. And when i ask her whether she still likes me, she tells me no. I also sometimes ignore her completely, making her frustrated. I really dunno what to do. I like Jill a lot, but i like ann just as much as jill. What do I do?

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A female reader, ladysuzanna Canada +, writes (16 October 2007):

ladysuzanna agony auntanswer liking someone and loving them there a big difference seems to me each of these girls have a little bit of what you like you can like them both but you can only have one if you plan a life so go with your heart becomes your going to hurt one you may lose both and most guys like one at a time good luck

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (9 October 2007):

Are you guys up to a threesome?

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