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writes:I was seeing this guy for 3 months - we slpit 2 weeks ago. At first it was a casual thing but then we started seein each other more and more. I began to fall for him and wanted more commitment and I think this scared him as he finished things. The thing is, Im so upset becaushe is such nice looking boy, gorgeous, everyone fancies him and he has a nice personality. I know we cant get back together - Ive tried textin him but he never replies. I cant stop thinking about how we had sex and its tearing me apart. Im dreading seeing him with another girl and think I may have to move to another town, because I get hurt easily and I know this woud hurt me. I seen him out on Friday night and my friend said he was staring at me - I thought he might call the next day to make it up but he didnt. How can I get over him? I even think Im beginning to stalk him as I find myself driving the long way home from work now as it goes past his house. Please dont advise me to make contact with him and sort things out as Ive tried this and he doesnt respond which makes me look desperate. I just need some good tips on getting a man out of your head x
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (9 October 2007):
By realizing you were just a knoch on his bedpost. You were being taken avantage of. He uses his looks to use women and you fell for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): i too went out with someone for less than 4 months, we were both falling in love but he just turned round and stopped it, i think possibly because he was scared he would be the one to get hurt. that was a year ago this week and upto about a month ago it still hurt. for weeks i felt raw and depressed but everyday got better and when i look back i wish i had sorted myself out sooner. when lads see someone who doesnt idolise them anymore they are immediately drawn back, its the chase they are after. i spoke to him on good terms and told him how pathetic he is for seeing girl after girl and for some reason was all over me again! somewhere though i found the courage to say enough is enough and i wasnt going through that again and i can honestly say ive never felt better! people comment on how much better i look and its all come from being confident at being the one who said no. so my suggestion is to let him see you move on, get back on good terms with him. he will be back and when he does you will also find that actually life without him aint that bad after all! x
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