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writes:my boyfriend says he loves me and says he sees a future with me but doesnt call me much and shows little affection and care.what should i do?and what could be the problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help.i think i now know what to do.its obvious its best i move on.i really appreciate your help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): If your boyfriend did not love you, he definitley would not say that he sees a future with you. He has taken a huge step in telling you this. You should have a talk with him and ask him if he really does love you. Show him affection and show that you care about him, and maybe this will encourage him to do it back, if he thinks it is what you enjoy. Tell him that it is bothering you and make sure you let him know that he is loved. You will probably find that he either does not want to show too much affection towards you as he may not know how much you want from him, or that he doesnt realize it bothers you. Either way, you have to talk to him.
Hope this helps
Louise x
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (8 October 2007):
What is he doing with the time when you're apart. Unless there is a real good reason, I say move on.
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (8 October 2007):
 Actions speak louder than words. You need to sit down with your man and let him know how you feel. If he continues to be,shall we say, aloof, then I belive it would be best for you to move on.
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reader, Asexy +, writes (8 October 2007):
 A guy who wants to be with you is going to make time to be with you. He's basically giving other things in life a higher priority. If he treats you this badly now, it will only get worse later. Decide what treatment you will accept (your standard) then don't let anyone go against that. You're worth better treatment than you're getting.
Don't just leave him, though. Let him know that although you love him, you won't allow him to take you for granted. He can either decide that you're important to him and treat you that way, or you can agree to break, so that you can find the guy that will treat you well. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): Talk to him and ask him outright just what is going on. Let him know that it is bothering you and you dont want it to carry on. If he cared for you more in the past then ask him why he doesnt do these things now. Tell him how you feel. Do you do little things for him? Maybe buy him a little gift. Make his special meal or just do something that he likes, it is a two way street.
Take care
xx
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