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writes:My boyfriend is moving in with me, therefore some of his stuff is already here.... like his computer. Last weekend i borrowed him my camera to take pictures at his job site. Today, I went on his computer to watch a movie and looked in his picture folder and found that along with the pictures he took with me, there were nude pictures of himself????????????? How do I approach him about this without starting a fight????
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 There is only one reason I can think of that your boyfriend has nude pics of himself. It's not for his benefit because he could look in a mirror.
It's to show or send to someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am afraid he is sending them to someone else... he borrowed my camera to take pictures at his job ... the pictures from my camera are downloaded in his computer and the naked ones were just took... but there is no pictures of the job on there???????? Why would he do that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): I have naked pictures of myself on my computer... it's just fun to do! I am not sure what the problem is- are you afraid that someone else has been taking pictures of him or that he is sending them to someone else? Just ask him about it, you don't have to be mean or accusatory, just make a joke about it, make it light and funny. I'm not really sure what the problem is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advise! I just wish I knew how to bring up the conversation!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advise! I just wish I knew how to bring up the conversation!!!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (9 October 2007):
 It sounds relatively harmless. Though you might want to have a discussion with him , discreetly say that you accidentally found them. He will probably be embarrassed but as you are living together now is the time for you to encourage him to be open with you about his sexual preferences/fetishes.
If you are not comfortable with his answer only you are able to decide whether the relationship is worth continuing.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (9 October 2007):
 truthly i dont see this as a problem. He took them of himself, not another girl, and he has every right to take pictures of himself naked or not. And they are on his PC.
So i dont see it as a problem really, maybe its different but nothing wrong.
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