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writes:Hi dearcupid, just hoping you could help me out with this situation...The brief story is that i recieved a letter in one of my classes...It basically was asking me out, for a trip to cinema! However, i am quite confused as to whether its serious or if they're just having a laugh...and by 'they' i mean this boy's mates, who gave me the note! But this isn't the only thing that concerns me...I aren't exactly popular with the boys and haven't ever had a boyfriend! I'm also quite shy. The note also left a mobile number for me to contact if interested and mentioned for me not to tell anyone - Though i did tell one of my mates! I know i can trust her with this! She wont go blabbing about it because she's just the best!!!Anyway the purpose of this post is to ask your opinions on whether you think the note is real or fake! And more importantly what i should do about it! I'd prefer not comfront him about it...incase its not true and i humiliate myself! However, He has spoken to me in the past and seems rather friendly towards me...Any tips on how i can find out for sure if he really does like me? xx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (8 October 2007):
 If you dont want to confront him or call him text him,but dont put who you are so if it isnt who its supposed to be then you will be ok, or if you think he has your number get a friend to do it, but if you have talked before then its probably genuine he is just shy, take a chance on this being real, let us know what happens
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reader, rcn  +, writes (8 October 2007):
 call the number. save your humility if it's done correctly. just say "i got this note from you." wait for him to answer and display what he wants and doesn't want. if it's a prank at your expense. you can the simply say "i don't know what you are pulling, but I was calling to regretfully decline this offer."
Stop viewing yourself as not popular. I'm going to fill you in on a secret coming from my old experience. We too had girls that weren't popular in school, shy, underdeveloped from the popular ones. We made fun of them, I know I was a bad boy, but immature. There was one that I ran into when I was in my mid 20's, I really wanted to ask her out, but couldn't because in school I wasn't nice, and I know she'd remember that about me. This non popular school girl developed into an absolutely gorgeous adult. So don't view it as being unpopular, it just may not be your time to shine.
Many of the girls who were real popular are now huge, 3-4 kids and a couple of divorces. I'd much rather have your future than some of theirs.
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