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Within 3 weeks he told me he was falling for me and I slept with him. Since then he only tells me he loves me when he is drunk. Why?

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Question - (8 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2008)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend and i are together 7 months now. he told me within 3 weeks that he was falling for me and i slept with him. since then he only tells me he loves me when he is drunk. he is very practical and im very idealistic so im not sure if we are a good match. im quite a romantic and he isnt.. and anytime i say i love him, be it in a text or in reality, he dosnt say it back. Do you think he loves me? we're both quite shy but he has had 3 previous girlfriends long term who he fell for in like 3 months.... im so confused as to where this is going. please hhelp.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008):

He ...can only love you when he is drunk....because he wants "sex"...I,m sure the other three found out that he was a Mister True Blue, so they moved on....Love him or leave him hun..thats all there is to it. because he will never be true as long as he is drinking....Sorry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

he loves you, he just fails to show it when hes sober. hes afriad of getting embarassed. thats all there is to it really, but then again, its either that or nothing at all. he may not love you, in which case you should move on.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (8 October 2007):

rcn agony auntThat boy sure does fall fast. You're confused because your asking the wrong people. There's not enough history listed in your question to accurately give you possibilities. You need to sit down with him and find out what he's feeling and how he views his behavior.

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