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writes:Hi, for the last few months I have liked this guy. Two weeks ago he broke up with his girlfriend. Me and this guy have always been close as something happened between me and him when he was still with his girlfriend (not a good idea I know). Now they have broken up we decided we wanted to meet up, just to catch up and maybe give things another go and see what happens. But we couldnt... his friends had a go at him saying he shouldn't be meeting up with me and he listened to them even though he did want to meet up with me. Now we have to wait a few weeks to meet up until they back off a bit and I don't know what to do. I've already waited 2 months :( what should I do? I don't understand what any of this has to do with his friends? please help.
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reader, Maryann6873  +, writes (10 November 2007):
His friends percieve something negative about you. Something you've said in front of them, or maybe you came onto him while he was with his girlfriend and they were good friends to ward him away from you if that was the case. Do you really want to be a re-bound? Right now he thinks, great, I just broke up with my girlfriend, now there's this other girl. That means I can forget about whatsherface and not come to peace with my feelings. When you move too quickly from one relationship to the next, you will end up cheating on that person (usually with your ex).
You should wait until he's ready.
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