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writes:I fancy my mate but she doesn't like me i n the same way. She's bi but she wants to be single. Is there anything i can do to change her mind? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): Just let her be herself, you cannot change a person just because you want that person to be the way you want them to be. If they dont feel the same way about you then you cannot change that either. Just be yourself and you will attract the right person in time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): Hunny,
You cant change another persons mind, And im sure if you are friends she will be worried that this may ruin your friendship.
So if this girls mind is made up I would think about keeping the friendship, I say this as I have a very good friend who is gay and she wanted to be with me for years but I stuck to my word and still valued her friendship that I really didnt want to loose it, Telling her that she would find someone much better suited than I, Ok women are attractive but im a mans woman at heart. Now she is in a lovely relationship and im truely happy for her and we are still really close mates hunny...True friendship is few and far between
Take care with love mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): don't try. Let her go and if she enjoy you she'll come back. By holding on you're just going to push her further away.
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