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writes:i recently got involved with a man i met through a friend.he was great always texing calling coming to see me.then when we finally slept together, which was a let down, he would text me asking when he could come back down, and when would i have a free house, then all of a sudden stopped no texts, no phone calls no nothing and when i text or call theres no reply.i dont know what ive done wrong but i really liked this guy and i thought he liked me.but i feel like ive been used.ihope someone can help me.....
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (9 November 2007):
You never seem to realise this.Always play safe and avoid feeling used like you are.Even before you knew where things were heading you had already slept with him.I'm sure he got what he wanted and began aksing for more and the moment he saw you are not giving him some more got bored and left.Forget about him and move on.
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reader, Benjo +, writes (9 November 2007):
I'm sorry this has happened to you but the truth is, many guys do this. I don't know why, maybe they have low self esteem or are just plain immature. The fact is this guy isn't the person whom you thought he was, in actual fact if you got to know the real him you probably wouldn't like him at all.Just take the positive from the situation, learn from your exoerience and next time you meet someone you will be better prepared to judge who they really are, making it easier to find someone you really do like.Oh and you didn't do anything wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): Sounds like he got what he wanted and is either no longer interested or is involved or breaking up with someone else, he isn't ready to date you, back off and forget about him, if he looks you up later then that is a bonus, maybe.
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reader, iwillhelp  +, writes (9 November 2007):
 Hey girl i have been there and done that am 19 and i know what ur going through to be honest he just wanted to have sex with you let it go and stay strong try to be smart about all this i feel for you if you want to talk email
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