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writes:ok about 2 years ago some people i never know came up for my moms birthday i was 18 and this girl was 16 i thought she was cute and i somewhat liked her at the time she left when the party was over. 2 years went by and about 2 weeks ago i saw her and we started talking. after talking and going on a date and sleepet together. we both like eachother a lot. she makes me happy. well about 4 days ago i fined out she is my 3rd cousin once removed. i do not know what to do we both know this info NOW not then when it all happen. i like her a lot she likes me also, but should i stay with her, brake it off, i do not know i am lost on this can someone help i am not a freek or anything we did not know about any of this as people in my famliy are not to close (fight with a lot and disown the rest)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone that is what i was thinking all a long but i just need to here it from someone other then myself. The last thing i wanted to do is to go to my friends as they might look at me diff. i will talk to my mom first as i know that it will not get to anyone that i do not want to know yet. if anyone wats to answer on this still fell free to.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (9 November 2007):
 Check with your family, see what they think of the relationship. But hey it's not like she's your sister! but I don't blame you being freaked out, so would I
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (9 November 2007):
Wow.You really are caught up.However,i woul also not make such a big fuss about it especially that she's really not your close relative or sister.I would advise you to talk to your mum and her parents and find out how the rest of the family would react if you continued.In our culture such a relationship is taboo but i kno peps that side wont make a meal out of it so don't worry too much but talk your mum.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): Don't worry - there's nothing illegal or immoral about your relationship. It's not like she's your sister!
Carry on as you've already been doing and enjoy!
Phil
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