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*ust_mee
writes: Can someone tell me some tips about making love to a Turkish man? Things that are particular about them. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, fishdish +, writes (11 November 2007):
in that case i'd just ask him what is important to him, what he likes, so that you know what is appropriate given the cultural/religious background--which i still doubt will come into play much, but that's because I don't think of sex and spirituality mixing much in my mind.
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reader, just_mee +, writes (10 November 2007):
just_mee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am not searching for rules, but you know i think relligion is very important for them and they would not like/do certain things, i am asking for someone that had encountered porblems, i am not asking for rules that apply to all Turks. And i would never ask him "what Turks like or not", i know eveey person is unique and has a different way of feeeling/doing/being. Anyway, thank you.
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reader, Maryann6873 +, writes (10 November 2007):
Agreed. You will hurt his feelings if you did this. Everyone has a different idea of what they enjoy during sex. Everyone and every culture has their own ideas. Just because they are a different ethinicity doesn't mean that they don't enjoy certain techniques that you are I enjoy.
The only way to know what he enjoys is to ask him what he likes, but not 'so, what does a Turkish man enjoy during sex?' I'd walk away if I were him.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (9 November 2007):
you really shouldn't base your sex technique on stereotype - race ethnicity nationality- it would suck if you saidd something like yea i did that cause i heard you turks like that sorta thing, way to look at the individual you're trying to take care of. attend to his needs as a man and as an individual, not as a Turk.
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