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writes:I was hoping some girls out there could help me with a little problem that is almost ruining my relationship. Is it wrong for a women to watch porn on her own? My boyfriend, of 3 years came by my flat one night after work, and i was horny so i put on a dvd and was having a great time, but when he came in he started shouting that what i was doing was wrong and that only guys should watch porn. We're watched it together and that really turned him on, i just don't get why he would be so upset about me watching it. Any idea's? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): OK, I have a question for you ladies. As you can see, I have agreed with all of you in my post below. We have all said that it is OK for women to watch porn, either alone or with their partner. Now let's look at this post about men watching porn.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-men-need-porn.html
Why is it that nearly every woman who posted thinks that it is completely wrong for men to watch porn? Why is there this double standard between these 2 posts? Alright, I know that there are other double standards, but that's not the point. Since nearly all of the women on the other post posted anonymously, I have no idea if some of you changed your tunes when asked the other question, but I suspect that you are NOT the ones who have posted on the other question. What do you ladies think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): lol, nothing is wrong with watching porn by yourself and masturbating. i do it all the time, and i can reassure you that it is completely normal.
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reader, A Cappella  +, writes (9 November 2007):
 "What's good for the goose is good for the gander." Seriously, his double standard is ridiculous. If it's okay for him, it's okay for you. Period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): OK, a male perspective. NO, there is nothing wrong with you watching porn by yourself. Men and women both have the same desires and fantasies. I don't know why he is so upset, except for what some of the women have said.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (9 November 2007):
 I think Maddierose had a good idea... perhaps he was a little defensive of his masculinity. I also think that maybe your boyfriend was just really shocked to SEE a woman watching porn, as most men only THINK that it's a guy thing. I think your boyfriend was just surprised.
It is SO SO SO SO SO okay for women to watch porn. Porn is for everyone!! It is no big deal that you were watching porn. Tons of women watch porn (including me), so you are totally normal and more than fine.
Enjoy, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, siren1 +, writes (9 November 2007):
 Hi i dont see a problem with watching porn on your own why should it just be men that can, ask him why its a problem its not like your going out and doing it its on a screen so theres no harm as far as am concerned so if i was you i would carry on if it makes you happy when hes not around, so you go for it your not doing anything wrong!
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