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writes:I dont get this, after my husband cheated on me.I gave him the divorce papers and then he started to beg me to not break up. Why things like this happen? I don't get why would you cheat and then when the person you are is leaving you beg them to stay. Why?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (10 November 2007):
 Hi
I agree with Richard. He didnt think past the thrill.
Its down to you now if you forgive him, or try to, and manage to salvage this marriage. Its a tough decision.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (10 November 2007):
 Sorry to hear what happened. My opinion is that people don't think of the consequences when they cheat. They only think about "getting away with it." When they get caught they then regret their actions - or more accurately they regret getting caught.
The choice is now yours. The power is in your hands. You do have the oportunity to reconsider and set new terms if you so wish. Good luck.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (10 November 2007):
 It sounds like he now realizes he screwed up and has had a chance to assess the situation and is now in a panic.
He probably took you for granted and is now realizing the weight of the consequences. Doc
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