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writes:Hello i have been in my first relation for about a month now. I like my girlfriend but i like her friends too. I think i may have feeling fors one but i like my girlfriendShould i break up with my girl friend and just end this guilt?'.'.'.I need help with relationships too '.'.'. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): You are way too young to be in a steady relationship anyway. Just enjoy life and stop whittling about being with just one person. Life is much too short and you should be out there enjoying it not getting too settled down with one person.
take care
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reader, kenny  +, writes (9 November 2007):
 At your age its perfectly normal to fancy lots of different people, and come in and out of relationships. If you really do like this other girl then the correct thing to do here would be to finish it with your current girlfriend. If you feel its just a five minute crush thing then just let it ride out, the feelings will eventually die down over time.
Good luck
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reader, MollyR07 +, writes (9 November 2007):
Being attracted to other people is human nature. Don't feel guilty about it unless you find yourself acting out these feelings by flirting with her friends or other girls.
There are several reasons why you could be feeling this way. Maybe its simply hormones, or maybe you're scared to commit... that you're missing out on other opportunities to meet and see new people.
If you feel like that, maybe you should just stay single for a while. But if you really like this girl or you meet someone else you have strong feelings for, try a relationship. But know that if you DO decide to continue a relationship with anyone, you will have to really commit yourself and accept that relationships are HARD WORK. If you truthfully tell her you want to be with her, train yourself to be happy with the person you've found; show her how much you respect and care about her by having the self-discipline to not lust after other girls.
It just sounds to me like you're young and want to see what all is out there before you make any major decisions; and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. I'm in that situation right now myself.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (9 November 2007):
 Hi
Dont ne hasty and end the relationship. You probably just have feelings for her but they would pass soon. You are likely to have feelings for more then one person as you are still young. Just try and sirt out your feelings. I dont think it would be right for you to end the relationship you are in now to start one with her friend,that would be harsh.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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