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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love World of Warcraft but want a girlfriend and don't want to turn into a geek!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im a 15 year old boy who is desperate for a girlfriend. But the thing is i play on world of warcraft ALOT (online game). And i dont want to turn into a geek which i think the girls think i am. I love the game but i really want a girlfirend! please help!... (59 words)

She cheated on me... How do I move on!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My life story is very strange, I need a help..i was madly in love with my girlfriend, its been two months now i broke up with her the reason was she cheated on me by having an affair with some other guy..more than 10 people told me that she was doing it for over last 8 months, ... (223 words)

How should I ask her out for a date? People at work say I should keep things simple e.g. "hi"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I let this girl know I was interested in her and we had a group date. I found out that she was just getting over someone afterward and that she was depressed. She called me a few days later and told me that she was afraid it seemed like she was pushi9ng me away put she didnt ... (153 words)

I believe two of my (new) friends who stayed over had sex on my bed! Should I tell my wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is away for work for an extended period. As we usually keep ourselves to ourselves, this makes her absence particularly difficult. I really don't have that many friends, I moved here about two years ago and it's been all work and family, really. Anyway, my que... (288 words)

We're on a cooling down period... should I contact him or wait to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my partner for 7 weeks, but i feel he has been distant with me although he still sees me, the other day i asked if he wanted to finish, we agreed to a cooling down period, i am worried that he may not contact me, should i contact him or wait to hear from him?... (59 words)

Is there a nice way to let this guy down who I met at school reunion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

- Hi, sorry this would be a bit long, but am in a confusing situiation and I was wondering if u could help...well am turning 23, and about 10 days ago I went out to a small school reunion and there was this guy from school whom I didnt know at school time, we had a small ... (412 words)

How can I get over my ex boyfriend? Cut off all contact?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, im finding it very hard to get over my ex-boyfriend. We split up about a month ago. I was very much inlove with him so i was devastated when he broke up with me. he didnt really give me any valid reasons so it was very hard to accept it. After a while, i picked ... (319 words)

... or do they just get sticky fingers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - do guys get turned on when fingering a girl?... (9 words)

Could I be a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bestfriend were having a sleep over at her house the other night. she is bisexual, and i have been confused on if im straight, or if im lesbian. ok so we were sleeping on her bed. and we ended up talking about experimenting. so we ended up kissing and making out, ... (176 words)

He joined a dogging website and uploaded a photo of his erect "thing"... all while I'm having chemo

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner of 9 months regularly looks at porn on the internet. I have accepted this. I have just discovered that last week he joined a 'dogging' website and even uploaded a photo of his erect penis! I am currently receiving treatment for breast cancer and he is supportive. I ... (119 words)

He proposed, I said yes... but worried it's too soon to get this serious!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

- I need a little advice here, me and my boyfriend ( who are both 17) have been together 2 and a half months and a week or so ago he proposed to me and i said yes, but im not sure if its too soon to get this serious. im not having doubts and i love him and i want this. but im ... (109 words)

Her parents have banned us from seeing each other (even as friends!)... is there anything I can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6345 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok this will be long but i NEED help. so around january i met a girl we immediatly had this huge connection so a few weeks down the road she gets asked out by one of her friends thats shes known for years. as im sure you can guess i was heart broken but what was i gonna do. ... (356 words)

Why do people think being a virgin at 20 is a problem? IS it a problem??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a problem, its a question! But why do so many people think that being 20 and a virgin such a big problem?? And why do all the teenagers think they have to have sex at like 14, 15??... (40 words)

Should I have sex before I'm married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I need help from all the other Christians!! I have a problem and it is really worrying me. I am a Christian and I really want to wait until I am married to have sex, but, I am worried that I will be tempted. And I want to do the right thing by my Religion and do the right ... (81 words)

How do I stop over analyzing my online relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

- Hi! I've been talking with a guy online for about 7 months now...recently he had to move to Japan for work, and I knew I wouldn't hear from him for about 10 days until he got a phone and got settled there... I've become very close to him, dispite the fact that we've never met ... (182 words)

'm just not the type anybody falls in love with. I'm getting old and terrified of dying alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What people don't seem to realize, is the importance of having other people in your life, boosting your confidence and making you feel better about yourself. It would be perfect to have somebody who loves and cares about you. Even gorgeous women, who were never short of ... (212 words)

Not sure if he just wants me for sex or rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i'm 15 and there is a lad i really like, he keeps asking me to sleep over his, but he said he wants to have sex with me. he says he is a virign, and so am i. but we are both even going out together. i asked him out and he reply, 'can u stay over monday night?' i put answer ... (132 words)

Something inside me keeps pushing me to pursue other women, especially when I'm drunk.... why can't I be content?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been with many women this year and can't seem to settle with any one of them. Have recently started dating this girl and I'm trying really hard to be faithful. But something inside me keeps pushing me to pursue other women especially when I'm drunk. Being with a ... (82 words)

How can I move on from the guy I fell in love with in Africa?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, Please help. I have recently split up with my boyfriend and went travelling to Africa for 3 weeks, on my second day i met a great man and we fell in love, unfortunatly he has a partner and two children which he would leave for me. We spent most of the 3 weeks together... (169 words)

I'm torn between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6345 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - When i first started college i was instantly attracted to one of my lab instructors. apparently he liked me too, he mentioned later when we started hanging out that he wrote in his journal that i was the first person he wanted to meet. Anyways one day he walked with me to a ... (657 words)

Should I keep my private habits... private?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age - I routinely look at porn and masturbate to it. I have a craving to share this with my girlfriend, but I'm embarassed to. I'm tired of this "secret life". Ladies, do you think I should share this private info?... (43 words)

She's telling everyone I have genital warts! (it was meant to be secret)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F) - Have you ever told your friend a secret like a BIG secret because you THOUGHT you could trust her even if you guys got in a big fight? Well, I told her i found out i had HPV and now she is telling everyone "did you know she had HPV which is genital warts eww" I don't see how ... (114 words)

Our sexual appetites are so different and OH's taste puts me off... and now I've met my online guy for the 1st time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm desperate and have no real friends to turn to and really need others opinions, hence me joining this site. I've been with my husband for 11 years now, married nearly five, we have 2 great kids and a lovely house. Along with this we have the usual debts and problems wit... (376 words)

I'm married to a man who loves me endlessly and yet I feel so uncertain about my life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do i feel so incomplete...I am married to a man who loves me endlessly and yet i feel so uncertain about my life. I feel terrible for the way i feel. I ve never mentioned this to anyone but its really driving me crazy..i am really unhappy in terms of my life can anyone help ... (57 words)

I'm 24 and married... how do I become friends with this guy I like without either of us thinking the other wants more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am 24 and have been married for just under 1 year i love my husband to bits and cant imagine being with out him. but there is a guy i would like to be friends with he works round the corner from our house and he always smiles and says hi. i would really like to become ... (132 words)

On one hand, I like him and miss his company, on the other hand I find his cold and insensitive side hurtful. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I ended a 12 year old relationship less than 2 month ago. Started going out with this guy a month ago. When we are together he is fine, and he is good in bed, so thats not a problem. I have huge issues with his communication though. He rarely calls me, mostly emails me. When... (187 words)

Feeling down and like I'll never meet Mr. Right...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5859 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like im never going to find my mr right, ive not as much had a kiss in months off any bloke let alone anything else. i really like this guy from my gym but am unsure as to whats going on, all started well with friendly teasing, then he went quiet on me, but i often find ... (187 words)

I'm so in love with a married man I work with... !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Like many others, I am in total love with a man in which i work with. He has a child who is disabled and a wife. When i'm with him, it's like a dream! I feel guilty to ask him for more time with him because of his child, who needs alot of care and time. I hate feeling this ... (291 words)

He thinks I'm 35... I'm actually 52 and insecure about my age, scared to burst his bubble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

- I am feeling very insecure about my age. I am seeing a wonderful, fun, intelligent, caring guy who thinks I'm 35 becaue I look 35 and I haven't really tried to burst his bubble.(He's 52 and I'm 47). His last girlfriend was 23 so it's hard to follow in the footsteps of someone ... (246 words)

I fancy him but maybe he's already taken by the pretty girl at work? Do I still have a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

- Hello, I'm an 18 year old female and my problem is this: I've started a new job (at a supermarket) and there's this really fit guy that I like. Lets call him John. My sister (Claire) works here too and she knows him. I asked her if John has a girlfriend and she said she doesn't ... (259 words)

Feel self conscious about my 30aa chest! Would going on the pill help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

5 August 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend lost our viginity to each other recently and have only had sex twice together and he said to me you dont like me touching your front do you and its because ive never taken my top off in front of him due to having 30aa bra size which basically means i feel ... (108 words)

Be honest... do men like larger women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - please help! do men honestly like larger women? im confused, im a bigger girl myself and seem to have no problem in finding guys who just want to be friends but nothing more? ... (33 words)

I just can't seem to make my husband happy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I just can't seem to make my husband happy. We moved a million miles from our hometown a year ago because he wanted to. I quit my high paying job to stay at home with the kids and left my family behind. My family doesn't feel welcome to visit because of his attitude with ... (206 words)

Confused whether my ex still loves me or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6345 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and I ex broke up almost two months now. I still love him dearly. But I'm confused on weather he still loves me or not. He call me but not like that. when he doo call he always talks about who is responsible for our break up. He just a type of guy that act hard in front of ... (163 words)

Is there any way to make yourself orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there any way to make yourself orgasm? i never have at least i dont believe so. i usually fake it for my boyfriend. but is there anything that can actually make it happen?... (34 words)

During arousal I rarely get wet. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. im wondering if i have a problem or not. im not sure. when my boyfriend and i start doing anything sexually i get aroused of course. but i rarely get wet and it doesnt last very long. he is amazing and if feels great, but after a couple mins the feeling goes away. and im ... (86 words)

We hooked up while he had a gf. Now they have split so how do I get him to like me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I was a freshmen last year and I hung out with alot of the senior guys ..One Night after a football game me and my friend went out to a party and I got really really wasted and did stuff with one of the guys there .. we hung out like 4 more times after that going to the ... (185 words)

I'm married but still like this guy from work..do I change jobs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I married but I fear I have fallen in love with a guy who was not married at that time, but is now when he has known it , I need help... I know its too late to do anything all this has been a non verbal communication between us I do not have any support he has support..... (162 words)

The affectionate guy I knew once, has gone. And i want him back! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some help, ive just turned 17 and im with a guy who i love with all my heart. i have been with him for 2 1/2 years and we both lost our virginities to each other. my mum is very ill with huntingtons disease and he has supported and helped me through this very difficult ... (171 words)

I go driving, she is in the passenger seat, I go to bed, she is next to me... how do I get my ex out of my head?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I get my Ex out of my head? Hello everyone. It has been a year and a half since my ex and I broke up and I can not get her out of my head. I go driving, she is in the passenger seat, I go to bed, she is next to me. We were together for a long time (Ten Years). No... (92 words)

Does this guy want me back or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - PLease can anyone give me their advice on my dilemma... Me and my ex have now been split up for 2 months. Th reason we split was because we drifted apart and were having arguments, and then to top it off he found messages on my phone from someone else I met on a hen weekend... (245 words)

Don't have problems with erections usually, but when I'm with my girl and fiddling with a condom I get a floppy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. i am 17 years old and i have a problem..every time me and my girl try to have sex, i can't seem to hold an erection...or sometimes even get it up.the other day i got it up, put on a condom and when i tried to put it in i lost my erection. i'm not gay, and don't have any ... (79 words)

Got asked out (in Tesco), got embarrased and told him I had a boyfriend, which I don't... now I regret it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was shopping in Tesco last week and was asked out by a lad.He was so polite and friendly but Im such a very shy person that I got embarrassed instantly and told him I had a boyfriend(even though I dont).Now I regret it so much and wish I had taken his number something.All I ... (108 words)

I sometimes think of him just as a friend. Does this I mean I don't love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over 8 months. and i've liked him a lot longer. even before we started dating again. and yes i love him. and he loves me. but we've been fighting alot latly. and sometimes when i'm around him i just feel as though hes a ... (101 words)

He barely talks to me, he smokes pot and would rather be with his friends. Does he not love me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend now have a long distance relationship. Ever since he came and visited me for three weeks, ever since he's gotten back all he does is barely talk to me. He hangs out with friends literally 24/7 and smokes pot all the time now. i only get to talk to him on the ... (173 words)

I finally met my online guy--but he didn't tell me he loved me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for two years now an dhe has been a nice guy so far..Actually we met on the internet...but we are from same country different states.We live far apart.He stays and studies in Europe...but we talk on the internet and on phone... He came Home late las... (340 words)

He doesn't care about me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a thing for this a guy that we hang-out with. We hang-out with a group of guys who just graduated from our highschool. i like him very much. and we have hooked up wiht him on and off. but he has a girlfriend who hes been with for a year and 3 monthes. he is always so ... (272 words)

He is living a double life, as a gay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Please direct me, i just found out my ex-husband is living a double life. He's living as a gay man in Las Vegas,but acting straight when he comes home to visit. We have a really good relationship,our families are very close,in fact I know his family has no idea he has a ... (112 words)

How do I convince Mom and Dad to let me be with my friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my name is jemma !! my mum and dad never lets me out with my friends and i am stook in the house nearly all day the only time she lets me out is to go up the shops !! and i get so bored and some times i feel i am not apart in this family because i am never ever allowed ... (128 words)

Without asking, how do i know?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - how do know if she wants to have sex without having to ask her?... (14 words)

What's the best reply?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - whats the best response to a guy that says "i love you"? if you are not sure you are ready to honestly say that back to him??... (27 words)

Couldn't we be just good friends..I miss that! Would that be foolish of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend dumped me 7 months ago after 5 years together. I think I've coped with it well and have finally come to terms that it's over. In fact I'm enjoying the time to myself and doing all the things I want to without having to worry about someone else's feelings. Even ... (158 words)

He blocked my car, threw my purse and phone on the floor and slammed doors... is my fiancee abusive?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

5 August 2007 (F) - Is my fiance abusive? Last night I was cooking fries in a oil pot thing and my friend called to give me directions to her house. So, I had taken half of the fries out, and left the others in but unplugged it. Well my fiance came in livid because the ones I took out weren't ... (258 words)

I thought he wanted to get back together, then I find out-he has a pregnant gf!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6346 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this my be a bit long but i really need peoples opinions. I went out with a guy a year and a bit ago,and was completly in love...i lost my virginity to him, anyway a week after he dumped me and went back to his ex girlfriend..i never spoke or saw him again so was have nev... (267 words)

I'm feeling insecure because of his porn habbits and his online buddy. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well I'm very insecure about myself and I'm 17. The other day I found that my boyfriends been watching porn and that really makes me feel bad about myself. I never even look at other boys in 'that way'. When I told him I knew he just denied it, we've been together for ove... (305 words)

Should I move on or keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - It will be 6 months since my boyfriend and I seperated after 5 years together. The last 2 years had been complicated as we moved to different ends of the country for work and personal reasons but always with the intention that this arrangement was only to be short term. This ... (219 words)

No period for 3 months! Am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't had my period for 3 months and i only just lost my virginity a couple of days ago. We had unprotected sex whats the chance of me being pregnant?... (31 words)

What's the chances of me being pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't had my period for 3 months and i only just lost my virginity a couple of days ago. We had unprotected sex whats the chance of me being pregnant?... (31 words)

He put money in my card, when i had already told him what i wanted.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - should i be upset when my fiance ,who was told 3 months ago what i would like, doesn't get me a birthday gift and pops the money inside my card to buy something myself? i'm feeling justified in being incredibly disappointed and upset am i wrong?... (46 words)

How do i tell him i'm a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I am quite apprehensive about telling my boyfriend of 3 months that I am virgin. He's quite an awkward guy, which is cute :) lol. I don't want him to feel under pressure when we have sex for the first time because he's "taking my virginity". How can I approach this si... (69 words)

How do you cope being apart from your partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you cope being apart from your partner? Ive started someone who lives a few hours away and I just want to be with him all the time (I know this isnt possible, as we both have jobs) I dont want to scare him off but telling him how I feel, I get the impression he is... (105 words)

My ex and I were good friends but now he's being distant all of a sudden. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

- Im upset because a boy who ive been out with 2 years ago. we broke up and then acted like a couple on and off still doing the things you would do when together we have so many memories together. Doing sexual things and now its all different he said he doesn't fancy me anymore ... (134 words)

Is he too clingy or is it that I just have commitment issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is starting to really annoy me. He phones and texts me ALL the time, and tells me he loves me and that i'm perfect and the hottest girl he has ever seen and stuff like that. It was really nice at first, but now i'm being put off a little bit and I don't want to ... (150 words)

I think I have OCD. Any advice for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

- im 14 and have OCD if i think of something from the past which was rude, wrong or bad i have to tell my mum otherwise it plays on my mind and i cant eat and i keep feeling guilty. e.g .. my mums boyfriend was standng up on the chair to fix a light bulb and i looked where his ... (156 words)

I have a blister on my vagina, what is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 14 years old and i am a virgin i have a little blister on my vagina but i have no idea what has caused it i recentley wet shaved my pubic hair and i think that might of caused it do i have herps !or a sti it causes me no problems and does not hert .can someone help me ... (69 words)

Whenever I initiate sex he shies away. It frustrates me and I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for close to two months. Lovely guy, know he likes me a lot, I like him a lot, issue is about sex. We have gone to do it a few times and each time it has not happened. First time he was uncomfortable because I am quite small and he didn't want to hurt ... (248 words)

I don't know whether it's a wind up, her messing about or she wants me to ask her out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently told a friend how I feel about her and she said she has feeling for me to... we took it to the next level and slept together but then she started bein funny with me the next day and said she feels guilty cause she has a boyfriend but this boyfriend lives 100 miles ... (177 words)

Should I try to be friends with him or let it pass?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 24 and have been married for nearly a year. I love my husband to bits and we are hoping soon to start a family but... there is a bloke who works in a shop on the next street who I walk past nearly everyday (I have to for work) and we always smile at each other or wave ... (172 words)

Do you think i should call him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 2 months (we are on good terms and 'friends'). He lives a few hours away from me. I ended it because it didn't seem like he cared about me, like when we first got together.. After the break up iv'e called a few times and he still really ... (142 words)

Can anybody help me get over this?

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5 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. *If you don't know my situation yet, consult my profile; I've written everything in the "about me" section* Today, I'm just wondering if there is anyway/anything that can help me start accepting that things are over? Because I really am struggling to ac... (388 words)

How do you tell if a guy is just flirting or is really interested in you?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age - There is a man who I come into regular contact with through business who I find I am becoming increasingly attracted to. He is younger than me and also quite shy. Lately he has been asking questions about my private life in a very careful way and I catch him looking at me A LOT ... (185 words)

I've left her 9 facebook comments! I don't want to seem over enthusiastic. Should I hold back?

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5 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok theres this girl right, she is nearly 16 and im not even 14 yet my b day is 27th of august, and ive been trying to get close with her like some ppl on this site hav been tellin me, but im afraid ive been talkin to her too much... i dont wanna luk over enthusiastic to get to ... (130 words)

Should I still ask him out given that I'm 19, he's 35?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm an 19 year old girl and I'm interested in dating someone who is 35. I think he likes me but I'm afraid that he'll say no if I ask him if he feels the same. I think this because of our age difference. Should I still ask?... (51 words)

He's a mate and I like him. How can I get him to like me back?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, there is this guy i really like, and sometimes i think he likes me back. Eg. he always tickels me in science class and i like feel like he is staring at me. But i asked one of his friends who he likes and they said someother girl!! Can you please give me some advice o... (98 words)

My husband-to-be has just told me that he may have another child with another woman on the way!

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and we are suppose to get married next year. His ex-wife called me and told me that he has another child with someone else. I asked him about it and he said he's not sure if its his and that he's having a test done in a month ... (99 words)

I'm concerned that my 2 year old niece has been abused and therefore masturbates when she goes to bed.

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My niece is 2 years old girl and whenever she goes to bed she puts her hand under her and humps the bed... kind of like mastubation. people always wonder why she does this and im not sure if she is being treated right. she is locked in the room sometimes all day with her dad ... (90 words)

I'm a confused male who is questioning his sexual orientation!

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5 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a confused male (20), who is questioning his sexual orientation. I guess there must be a million or more of these type of posts but I really don't know who to turn to about this. Basically my story is this, at the moment I consider myself as straight-confused. I find gi... (260 words)

Shall i tell her how i feel??

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5 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend, we have known each other for a couple years. When I saw her at school I had a crush, now that school was over I realized this and we met with a friend to see Pirates of the Carribean. She had fun. Since then we have gone to eat out and hang out more ... (163 words)

Am I immature or is he being dumb?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me here guys. OF course I'm 13 and so is my boyfrined. He thinks I'm inmature just beacseI don't want to have sex and becasue I watch cartoon network and disney channel everyday.Am I really inmature or is he just being dumb?... (46 words)

I love him, but my mom doesn't. Should I choose him or my family?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am totally in love. head over heels for this guy. there is a 7 year difference between us. my mother will not stand for it, and is trying to put him in jail because i am only 17. ive been with this guy {behind her back} for a year now, and I'm so close to being 18, but once ... (101 words)

I feel embarrassed because of my virginity

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I use to go out with a guy a long time ago for nearly a year. we broke up and then he went out with my best friend - which hurt me alot. Eventually they also broke up. By no means is he a great catch or anything but he continues to get girlfriend after girlfriend, whilst for me ... (200 words)

I've been in a long distance relationship for 8 months, and we'll be together soon, but I don't know if I can forget our problems

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5 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey my name is Andrew I have been apart from my gf for about 10 months now and I will be back in less then 8 weeks. The problem im having is the following: I love her and I want to stay with her forever but I dont know if I can just forget everything I was put through while I ... (109 words)

We dry humed and I was wearing a tampon... not sure if he came (woud I know??) but could I still be pregnant?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were dry humping and we were both naked. It was the second day of my period and I had a tampon in. I dont think he came (would i know??) but his penis was near my anus but never my vagina. What are the chances that I'm pregnant? My period was due yesterday ... (143 words)

What do guys find attractive in a girl?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this is to all you guys out there! Plz tell me what you find atractive in a girl and also in foreplay. What things can she do to make you go crazy!!!Well i appreciate your honest replies thank u all!... (40 words)

I wanted to still be friends with my ex, but now he won't respond to me

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago and we mutually expressed the desire to always remain friends. After breaking up, I expressed the need for some space and no contact so my feelings and thoughts could settle down. Now I have tried to call he doesn't answer; I've e-mailed ... (110 words)

It physically hurts my girlfriend when we have sex.

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5 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Cupid, Thanks for hearing out my question. I'm a 17 year old male from New York City, turning 18 soon. I met this girl three months ago and started going out with her a week later; I really connect and click with her. I was a virgin until recently, and it was the first time for... (288 words)

My boyfriend goes out on the weekend and leaves me alone with our baby

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Me an my boyfriend live together. We have an eight month old. He workd a 9-5 and i am almost done w/ college so i stay home w/ the baby accept for tue and thurs when i go to school. My boyfriend goes out every weekend fri, sat. Sometimes he does not answer his phone. Also ... (173 words)

We have been going out 8 months, but now he wants to have sex. Should I?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we really love each other we have a brilliant time and can talk about anything i cant imagine being with anyone else! latley he has brought up the question of sex i dont know if i should because we are both underage i dont ... (66 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me and I feel lost.

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I just split with my boyfriend tonight well he finished me. I’m 17 and have been going out with him since I was 14. He is a yr older than me and has been in love before but I haven’t. We lost our virginities together and I lost everything to him. It has always been an o... (323 words)

I really like this boy, but there is a problem. He is 4 years older then me. Is 4 years age difference too long?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this boy, but there is a problem. He is 4 years older then me. Is 4 years age difference too long?... (24 words)

What is the differnce between being in love, and loving someone?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the differnce between being in love, and loving someone?... (11 words)

Why do I keep thinking about them when their unobtainable now?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with this guy for about 3 months last May. He then moved to America and that was the last I heard. I became besotted and a bit obsessed and still look at his myspace every day which makes me feel like poo. Then I met another guy in October. I fell for him big time, ... (156 words)

I've started having a really smelly vaginal discharge.

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry this is really embarrassing and gross. I've started having a really smelly vaginal discharge. I'm not menstruating at the moment. It's quite embarrassing, sometimes I think other peopel might be able to smell it. What could it be??? I am sexually active but was ... (66 words)

I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him but now he doesn't care if he's with me, what does this mean?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him but now he doesn't care if he's with me, what does this mean?... (33 words)

I need some tips on going on top during sex. I'm really rubbish at it, just feel silly jumping up and down!!!

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Girlies I REALLY need your help. I know this is a bit personal but I need some tips on going on top during sex. I'm really rubbish at it, just feel silly jumping up and down!!! Every time I start on top my man rolls over and swaps places so I'm obviously doing something ... (74 words)

The guy she likes wants me. And the guy I really want, wants her!!!

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friends are big partiers. We party almost every night, with a group of guys who just graduated. We all have little flings with them, but recently me and my best friend got in a situation. The guy she likes wants me. And the guy I really want, wants her. We have no ... (63 words)

I recently went on holiday and he said he couldn't text me because its 50p per text!!

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my 2nd year of uni and have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. He's always really lovely etc however I recently went on holiday and he said he couldn't text me because its 50p per text!! He gives me hardly any attention either. Plus he waited 2 years before he ... (113 words)

I was asked out the other day by a 15 year old girl but I'm 23. Should I go?

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5 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all I'm a 23 year old male and was wondering if you could give me some help and or your opinion on what I should do. I was asked out the other day by a 15 year old girl. I have known her quite a while and get on really well with her. She is very nice but I don't know wha... (88 words)

Is happiness to be found or within ourselves? And if it's within in ourselves how the hell do you find it because I can't!

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is happiness to be found or within ourselves? And if it's within in ourselves how the hell do you find it because I can't! Any suggestions?... (28 words)

How can I be a better friend and person overall??

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I'm a crap mate to my mates and never have time for them at the moment. I feel like I only ever have time for myself, but that's how I feel!!!How can I be a better friend and person overall? x... (45 words)

Will there be a chance that I have a healthy, happy baby?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Today I just found out that I am pregnant. I am not sure how far along I am, since my period is extremely irregular. Doubts run through my mind when I think about keeping this baby because 1) I am a smoker, 2) I am taking Isoniazid (INH) for my TB and 3) A week ago I was on ... (96 words)

All I want is to be the clicky cheerleader girl with a big group of girl mates!!!

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello there. I'm 19 years old and normally quite confident. However I feel like all my friends have far better lives than me at the moment. I feel so lonely!!! They all have boyfriends or great groups of mates etc. I've only got a small group of mates and I wouldn't exactly ... (82 words)

I'm so crap with relationships, so insecure. Is this because my dad had affairs when I was younger?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so crap with relationships, so insecure. Is this because my dad had affairs when I was younger? However at the same time, I sometimes think I'm too good for guys, but other times in the same relationship, I feel like they are far too good for me!!! I try and drive them ... (109 words)

I'm not really a people person. I like my own space and I'm quite shy...

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm just a bit worried. I'm not really a people person. I like my own space and I'm quite shy. I'm living with 4 girls in September and am dreading it so much because I'm rubbish at talking to people and am quite messy etc!!! They might hate me,plus they are ... (83 words)

I don't know what's going on inside my craaazy head!! Think I might have some kind of personality disorder?

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello peeps. Need a bit of advice. I don't know what's going on inside my craaazy head!! Think I might have some kind of personality disorder? One minute I am so so happy and think I'm the luckiest girl alive, next minute I'm the most depressed person alive and feel there's ... (108 words)

I feel really low at this time of year as I have very few mates and very little money and so can't go on holiday.

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - heeeeeeeeey guys. I feel really low at this time of year as I have very few mates and very little money and so can't go on holiday. I booked a holiday to Ibiza but fell out with my friend so didn't end up going. Now I've seen everyone's pics and they all look like they are ... (91 words)

I feel so down lately. I feel really bad about myself, and feel I am rubbish at everything...

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey people, I really need your help. I feel so down lately. I feel really bad about myself, and feel I am rubbish at everything. There is not a lot I am good at at all plus I hate being around people - even family because it makes me feel uncomfortable because I think they ... (147 words)

My boyfriend has trouble with sex because of his weight and when I tried to help, he got angry

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has become quite overweight, mostly around his belly, and finds sex akward becaus of it. The weight is from prescription pills, and not his fault, and he cant stop the medication either, he has to take it for many more months. He gets frustrated and angry at ... (199 words)

I can't trust him and every time we go out he always looks at other women and he says he doesn't.

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5 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend we been together 4 years and got a daughter. He got caught a lot of times talking to other women on the phone, that's even after the baby was born. I still feel he does it, he claims he don't but I can't trust him and every time we go out he always looks ... (111 words)

How can I make sure she likes me enough to not be offended or say "I only like you as a friend" when I make a move?

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5 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I've known this girl for about four days now, were already getting along like we've known each other for ages, were both quite touchy feely when were hanging out. My problem is that I'm so madly attracted to her that I can't sleep very well etc, but I don't want to ask ... (91 words)