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writes:ok this will be long but i NEED help. so around january i met a girl we immediatly had this huge connection so a few weeks down the road she gets asked out by one of her friends thats shes known for years. as im sure you can guess i was heart broken but what was i gonna do.so i continued hanging out with her we became even closer until one day i admited that i really liked her she said she liked me aswell but didnt know what to do. so a few more weeks went by and she broke up with her boyfriend and when she told her parents they refused to give me a chance. she was devastated and her ex. boyfriend took advantage of that and they wound up getitng back together.her parents then went on to say that me and her couldnt even remain friends which made things much worse, but we continued to see each other in secret. several months have gone by and her boyfriend continually hurts her and she doesnt do anything about it and that sucks. a few days ago he refused to even hold her or look at her this made her very depressed and no matter what she did he wouldnt change his mind about it and said that nothing had changed.yesterday he said that hes worried that once school starts again me and her will get back together (he doesnt know we are still together) its and obvious lie as both myself and her best friend have said but she chooses to believe him.all the advice i have been given aswell as what my own head says to do is to just move on and let her make her own mistakes but i cant its just too heartless, and i cant just stand by and watch her get hurt.so my question is, is there anything i can do other than sit by and watch, leave her alone completely, or keep trying to help her?
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reader, ice knight  +, writes (9 August 2007):
the one thing that i could sugest is you having a go at the boyfreind or talking to da parents bout it ?? good luck m8
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reader, Tamara...x +, writes (6 August 2007):
Try and help her you need to tell her parent what her boyfriend is doing and how she feels talk to her boyfriends and ask why hes being off with her. she need you both you talk to her parents and ask even if you to can be friends cause she trapped in a relationship where she upset and sad and no one wasnt that for there daughter
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