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Archived questions from: 19 August, 2007 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I always helped her financially and this time when she asked me for money I couldn't help her since I had financial problems myself. So she decided to break up with me saying that she needed someone who could help her with her problems.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - PLEASE HELP AGE 21 WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 2 1/4 YEARS AND NOW SHE BROKE UP WITH ME. We had been together, soo happy and this was a serious relationship we were planning on buying a house end of year but before all that happened we broke up. We spent a lot of time together ... (349 words)

Should I hang around and hope he'll change his mind or start dating again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for about 16 months (we're both 17) then we split up recently. We've always argued a lot and have split up on countless occasions, only to get back together the next day or sooner. A few weeks ago I got sick of it and finished him, he was totally ... (318 words)

I am unable to let him go, why can't I move on and dump him? I want to but I can't go a day without texting or ringing him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a thirty year old single mother who has been dating a man for the past five years. He has cheated on me three times that I know of and I keep taking him back. I am unable to let him go, why can't I move on and dump him? I want to but I can't go a day without texting or ... (68 words)

Has he pulled me back towards him to try and hurt me because I pulled him through he courts so he'd leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 7 years and just gone through the courts to get my husband to leave me alone, now he has left the city I feel like I've made a huge mistake, he's still puts the words there he wants me back but when I responded positively he's totally backed off and now ... (88 words)

Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you paranoid?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Am I the only one that finds that dearcupid makes me paranoid reading about all the different questions people ask(cheating with bosses, having sex with brothers and sisters etc) Am I the only one or does anyone else feel that dearcupid makes you paranoid?... (45 words)

How can I spice up the action or revive this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Help me with my relationship... My girlfriend is getting bored and and I don't know what it is she wants, she just says she's bored but loves me still. How can I spice up the action or revive this relationship?... (41 words)

Scared she'll tell people about my circumcised penis!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old male and circumcised, me and my friend want to have sex for fun but im scared she will tell everyone about my penis please help?... (31 words)

I've had an attack of some sort of tummy bug, and I'm worried: my pill says that such things can make birth control ineffective!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had an attack of some sort of tummy bug, and I'm worried: my pill says that such things can make birth control ineffective!! What do I do to combat the possibility? My boyfriend and I are very active, and although while I'm sick of course I don't feel up to it, I know ... (71 words)

Is it normal for girls to go out by themselves to bars?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

19 August 2007 (F) - Is it normal for girls to go out by themselves to bars? My fiance travels a lot (some for business and most for fun). Whenever he travels he goes to bars by himself.... in fact, that's how he met me when he had a girlfriend. We never cheated though. Anyway, I just moved in with ... (172 words)

I'm a bit insecure about the ex girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a problem with my current relationship. I am always insecure and have been with most of my boyfriends, thing is, I have been with my current one nearly a year now. I have always been paranoid about his beautiful ex. I went to a festival last weekend with my ... (312 words)

I think i got married too young.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married really young. I am now 24, and have been married for a year. When I first met my wife, we really hit it off. I was actually looking for a roommate at the same time, and decided she would be a perfect fit. She ended up moving in within 2 weeks of meeting her. We ... (201 words)

I feel like she is being a cold hearted bitch and is tormenting these two people she claims she loves dearly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - SORRY THIS IS A LONG MESSAGE. well, my best friend is in a huge amount of drama with her boyfriend and the boy she supposedly "loves". This drama has been going on for a couple of years now. Pretty much the boy she loves is a boy she dated a couple years ago in middle school... (338 words)

Is it ok for me to date her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i'm 22 year old guy and i was wondering if it is ok to date a 16 year old girl. I'm really quite fond of her as i have been freinds with her family for many years, but i met her only a year ago.Though i did find her attractive, and she admitted she did too, we left it at ... (96 words)

His sister is being unreasonable.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Partner's sister being unreasonable after my baby died... I lost a baby to stillbirth in february, and had a hard time but coped with all usual routine activities very well..ie..home still clean, older children fed etc. In april, my partner's brother's wife got pregnant and... (299 words)

Did i make the wrong move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is she ignoring me? I recently have fallen for a girl and she is very interested in me. We went up to a marching band retreat in the mountains and really got to know each other. It's pretty obvious we both like each other in a more than friends way. But after ... (145 words)

We are living on seperate floors because we both have issues.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (?) - I have been living with my boyfriend since November but only gave up my apartment in May. We have been having more and more problems, we both are seeing therapists and psychiatrists and are on meds. I have severe anxiety and some depression. He had a very abusive childhood ... (350 words)

When a woman asks for space and time is this really what she needs or is it pretty much over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I need to know the truth I have made an honest mistake and me and my girlfriend are very understanding about it, but at the same time she has come up with other ideas in her head. She says that she needs a little space and time to think I am trying very had to give it to her ... (89 words)

Does anyone know how to get rid of cold sores really quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

- Does anyone know how to get rid of cold sores really quickly? I've never had them before, but I've got some spots along the edge of my lip and my mom says they look a bit like cold sores. They aren't tingling, but does anyone know how to get rid of them anyway? thank... (66 words)

Is it a good idea to jump into another relationship, even if you have been cheating with that person after being in a long term relationship? Are they any pros and cons.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex of 17 years split up. I have been to counselling and been keeping myself busy, doing things that I have never done before. She did not give me any closure and it was only when I turned up at her work place a few weeks later that I discovered that her new boyfriend was ... (126 words)

I do love her, just not as much as the other girl (who lives far away) and am worried that it is a mistake not marrying my number one choice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I need your advice. I love two women, one I love more than the other and think we are more compatible and she is my soul mate, but she is not available to fully commit to me. The other one is putting pressure on me to marry her and said that she will break it off if I don't. I ... (111 words)

I just feel so hurt that he felt he had to lie to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. A month before we started dating he had broken up with a girl he dated for 8 months. He had constantly told me what a horrible relationship they had and how she was mean to his daughter. At the beginning of our relationship ... (492 words)

She wants to stay friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all. I'm back from holiday with a rather dramatic turn of events, as usual. (I copied this from an update on another question. I just wanted a fresh point of view from the other aunts) On the 2nd day of my holiday, she text me, asking how I was and what the place was li... (456 words)

I am pregnant to him again an he's said he wants me to get rid of it, if I don't then he does not want anything to do with me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my Asian boyfriend for 3 years, in that 3 years he was made to get married by his dad. I've got 1 child to him and another to another man but he has brought her up as his own, now I am pregnant to him again an he's said he wants me to get rid of it, if I don't ... (106 words)

She says she is going to skip breakfast to lose weight.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

- My friend wants to loose weight but shes saying she is going to skip breakfast. But breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Please can some people comment on how important breakfast is so i can tell her... (40 words)

I can't stop thinking about him and it's wrong.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. I have recently been married and had an affair before being married with a friend of a friend. I became quite close to the guy but he lives a distance away and I see him rarely so nothing physical happened in recent years and I married my original partner of 10 ... (129 words)

Can you feel your G spot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship. Have been in a strong one for 3 years and we have regular sex but i dont feel any pleasure i havent even had a orgasm i want to feel that experience, and can you feel your g-spot because i have a lump its not painful or gets in the way or anything i just ... (66 words)

I know i should not because i'm only 11, but i want sex.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 11 and i have a boyfriend and once he asked me what it would be like to have sex and he said how come adults get to do it and we can't so i went to see porn because i wanted to understand it more and when i sore it it made me have a tingly feeling so i tried it WITH My ... (131 words)

Is it over or does she really just want space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

I worry that my best friend is ruining her life by being with an abusive boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend has been in a relationship for 2 years. Without getting into detail of their extremely rocky past, her and her boyfriend have again had some major issues of trust. However, their most recent argument resulted in throwing objects and my friend being thrown with ... (160 words)

My husband has had an affair with a girl nearly half my age... how can I trust him again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has had an affair with a girl nearly half my age. He says it's over and it was just because it boosted his self esteem to have wild sex with a uninhibited teen and he only wanted her for one thing. I never met her but she has been with my husband in hotels and I ... (296 words)

Guy number 1 or guy number 2... who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

- I've recently become single and am looking at my options for potential boyfriend's. The other night I went clubbing with some mates (despite believing that clubbing isn't the best way to start a serious relationship) and ran into a guy from my old work. He's a very conservat... (471 words)

My little sister is saying my boyfriend has touched her boobs and pubic area...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - All my life my family have been ruining my life and making things hard for me. I was with my boyfriend for 6 years and I have one baby and my family hate my boyfriend and they are always spliting us up. Now after 6 years my little sister is saying my boyfriend has touched her ... (116 words)

Why can't he tell me he loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i have been with my bf for a few years and we now live together. He no longer tells me he loves me, i know he does deep inside but he find it very hard to express himself. He find it's very hard to show any nice feeling towards me...but sex is great. Why ca... (74 words)

How can I delay climax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - yo uo.. Whenever me and my gf have sex .. i seem to cum quite a long time before i want to .. is there anything i can do to delay climax.. thank you... (34 words)

I wake up 6 hours later to a text from her saying it's over and it's the final time she says this... I'm destroyed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Will try to keep this short as I can... Started during summer of 8th-9th grade summer break. Met a girl online in a chat room thinking nothing of it other than friends. We ended up getting deeply, and I mean DEEPLY involved emotionally. Of course being young, which is what I ... (793 words)

My husband won't have anything to do with my parents.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Husband acts like my parents don't exist. We've been married 11 years and up until a few years ago my husband made an effort to get along with my parents. Then our marriage got into trouble and we separated for over a year. Since we got back together he acts like my parents ... (158 words)

What's the next step for me in my relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6220 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this girl for just over three weeks and we have really grown to love each other... I like her a lot and I want to take our relationship further but I don't know how far I should go... I can tell you she really loves me and I love her a lot. What shou... (76 words)

Everyone thinks i'm ugly.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This has been making me feel depressed for a long time. EVERYWHERE I go i hear people call me ugly even at school too. I hear it almost everyday. No one even notices me or even look at me. My sister, and parents think i'm not that pretty either. Especially my dad and sister s... (82 words)

Do you think my crush likes me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a female liking a male (: I met him 3 months back in a 5 days camp. He was taking me and my mates as kids as he's older than us. When he dropped his things, I would pick them up for him and he would just take it from me. 2 days later, I got a guy to pass me a stack of ... (430 words)

I want him back now, but i'm not sure if he wants that.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. I was dating this guy for three years. We broke up twice in the middle of the relationship, but fixed it. I have a problem that when things start getting hard and I start finding other guys attractive, I would break up. Well, I thought that I really liked this ... (178 words)

Could he go to jail for getting me pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 almost 16 and I'm pregnant but will be 16 before the babies born and my boyfriend is 21 will he go to jail even though I'll be 16 before the babies born? And say I didnt put his name on the birth certificate and later on I do, can they still send him to jail then even ... (66 words)

I'm attracted to older women.... why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 26 year and i like older woman then me i dont understand why this is happneing to me. i am more attracted to them in all manner. what is your advice how to come out of this. i dont have any girlfriend.... (51 words)

Why am i so bothered about his ex coming back, when we are just friends with benefits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try to make this brief. I cheated on my first love 2 years ago, he left me (as he should!) and swiftly got together with one of his very pretty friends. Over the past two years he had forgiven me, he has contacted me on and off, I NEVER contact him. EVER. For a year I ... (520 words)

I love him but i'm also scared of him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy who is so sweet and has big blue eyes and brown hair, but I'm scared cause he said he would kill me if I didn't show up o time for our next date. He then said he was joking, but I've seen him say that stuff to his friends like:Hey buddy throw the ball nect time ... (176 words)

Has anyone else been through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am so confused my x once again has stoped talking to me for no reason her x is a woman beater and I have always stood next to her when he was there she still talks to him but won't me I live 5 mins away from her and hate it I have tried every thing to be her but she treats ... (131 words)

Do you think we could get the feelings back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Can feelings be re-created? My partner and I split up earlier this year and I know he really wants to make another go of it with me - neither of us has seen anyone else since we split up. We didn't live together but were together for over 4 years. I do miss him but I'... (195 words)

My boyfriend is seeking gay encouters online!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We're both the same age and have gone through good time and bad. I am absolutely in love with him and can picture our future together, such as marriage, children, growing old together. A couple of months ago, I caught him ... (393 words)

How can I gain the confidence to let guys touch me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I gain the confidence to let guys touch me? Don't get me wrong, I have let them before, but I havent liked it much and been uncomfortable. I've never had to confidence to touch them either, they are always making the first move and I usually feel as though im being ... (155 words)

There was a burning sensation when he fingered me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend fingered me but when he stuck his finger in it was a burning sensation then it felt the same with two fingers just more burning is this normal or is it just cause its my first time?... (40 words)

Is it ok to be dating my cousin?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is my cousin, what do you think about that? We are in love, and I know people critize us, because its impossible, but when I am with him, I feel so good, so perfect. I mean I could date other guys and he could date other girls. But theres no guy like him, I love ... (66 words)

How do i tell my parents about my older women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I'm going out with a 25 year old woman and we love each other very much. How would I tell my parents about us without them freaking out or anything?... (33 words)

I don't have to worry if he just pulls out, do i?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok me and my boyfriend are attempting a quickie but we dont have time for a condom but if he pulls out we shouldnt worry right i understand preejaculation but has that ever really gotten someone pregnant?... (37 words)

She wont leave us alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My first boyfriend weve been going out for 8 months and my mom hates that were in love she keeps critiscizing us and if i have a headache " are you pregnant!!!!!??" or also like he said he doesnt like smoke she starts yelling at me that hes a druggie im dead serious this is ... (85 words)

Is this guy messing with me or do you think he likes me but has cold feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (M)

- Hey guys I need your help again, There's this guy that says he likes me a lot, my friend set me up with him and so far we aint met but we chat on MSN regularly. He says he loves me and cannot wait to meet me but we are supposed to have met up about 5 times already and he h... (190 words)

Do you think i might be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi Im 17 years old and i think im pregnant I have sore breasts, my period is a month late, my stomache hurts all the time,, i cant eat certain things, it sounds good then it hurts my stomache, im always tired... please help me if its possible that i am please let me kn... (67 words)

He dropped all of our plans and went to see his children.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

19 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year but he ws married before with 2 kids we have had plans this weekend his ex wife has jsut phoned an said that one of his kids is playing up and that he needed to be there so he has just dropped all our plans and drove the ... (79 words)