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female
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30-35,
*ybaybay
writes:I have a thing for this a guy that we hang-out with. We hang-out with a group of guys who just graduated from our highschool. i like him very much. and we have hooked up wiht him on and off. but he has a girlfriend who hes been with for a year and 3 monthes. he is always so mean to me lately speacailly around his friends. recently we went with him and our other friends on a road trip and i thought my feeelings were getting stronger and i thought he was feeling the same. but then once we stopped on the road trip at a house me and him were casually flirting like we always do. we kissed. then he was telling eveyrone right in front of me of how he didnt care we were just a hook-up nothing important. then he was tryin to hook-up with my best friend, right in front of me! and the guy my best friend liked was tryin to get with me. i was so pissed, i still am. then we went out to our friends house and once again the boys me and my friend wanted wanted the wrong girl, they were all over us, then once everyone was asleep the guy i wanted was trying to talk to me. i got so pissed, he kept asking me what was a matter i was like why do you care? he didnt say anything. then i went home.i couldnt deal wiht it. i dont know what to do becuz i do have strong feeelings for him but he doesnt care. Help?
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reader, penta +, writes (6 August 2007):
 eyeswideopen is giving great advice, as usual. These guys don't care -- they've been brutally honest about it. Not only that, but the guy you like also has a long-time girlfriend who he's treating badly. If on the outside chance you DID end up with him, he'd treat you as badly as he treats her.
Stop hanging with these jerks. Put lots of distance between you and them. With time your "strong feelings" will go away and you'll be ready to fall for someone who will treat you better. Don't settle for someone who's with someone else, or who doesn't see you as the only person he wants to be with -- you're worth more than that.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 August 2007):
 I think you and your friends need to hang out with guys your own age, these guys are looking for just one thing, and you girls will just get used, hurt, and tossed aside.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): i have been in ur situation, you need to tell him how you feel and remind him that he has a girlfriend and cant treat girls like this. try and back of from his and try not to flirt and if he talk short answers, if he asked whats wrong tell him dont let him get to you.x
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