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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: PLease can anyone give me their advice on my dilemma...Me and my ex have now been split up for 2 months. Th reason we split was because we drifted apart and were having arguments, and then to top it off he found messages on my phone from someone else I met on a hen weekend in blackpool.Even though i didnt cheat on him, I think he saw this as his perfect xcuse for us to split, and we did. He wouldnt speak to me for about 7 weeks.Anyways, I have just come back from Ibiza, and I put my photos on Myspace, and he seen them (me with another bloke) and rang me up crying. Saying he hates his life, and misses me.I met up with him last week, and he said he wants to try again but wants to take it slow, and "see" me for abit, just like courting again. We had a really good day, and the spark was there. But then I met him Tuesday night (the night before he jetted off to Ibiza himself) and he was distant with me.Do you think that he has realised he doesn't want me now? I'm waiting for him to come back off his hol so I can see what he wants to do. Do you think we can recover our relationship after all this? Please help. Many thanks xxx
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reader, blueberry +, writes (6 August 2007):
Time will tell and thats the hard part. waiting. maybe he was distant bc he was going away. he likes you but it sounds like u need to show u are trustworthy again.
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