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writes:Me and my boyfriend now have a long distance relationship. Ever since he came and visited me for three weeks, ever since he's gotten back all he does is barely talk to me. He hangs out with friends literally 24/7 and smokes pot all the time now. i only get to talk to him on the phone for about 5 minutes a day if that. He never calls me anymore,I have to call. Before he came to see me, he would call me the first thing when he woke up and he'd wanna talk to me for like 2 hours. Im just going crazy because Im sad that he never wants to talk to me anymore. We've been together for almost 2 years. He says he's been really busy lately, but all he does is smoke pot with his friends and he doesnt even really think about me or give me the time of day. I'm afraid he doesnt love me anymore and i dont know what to do. What can I do?
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (6 August 2007):
I would go out on a limb here and say you are right - he does not love you any more. He loves something a whole lot mor - His Stash of pot so to say. It sounds as if the stuff is rotting his brain away so he chooses to hang around with other like minded people who wish to do something similar. There are lots of other guys out there who don't do things like this who through whatever reason - mainly shyness with the opposite sex - do not have a girlfriend and would love the chance to have one and maybe have one just like you. You would be much better off looking out there for what you really want - a decent guy who is ready to treat you like a queen and respect you well - not some dopehead who chooses to wreck his brain above anything else in life.You really are better of with this out of your life.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (6 August 2007):
 It's time to move on. Love, live life and be happy.
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