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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it normal to smell a little "down there"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i know this maybe too much but... I am 15 and am a virgin. I am worried about "down there" as i smell a little. Is this usual in anyway???? Pleasse help, i am worried and feel so dirty!! x... (52 words)

We fell asleep together and now everyone is taking this the wrong way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well the prob is i have a very special friend and i love him to peices in a brother-sister sort of a way. Im 14 and he is 17 and iv know him all my life, with our families being so very close. A Little while ago though on tour, being the last night tonnes of people... (167 words)

How do I be cool and calm with guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the best ways to be cool and calm with guys you like? I need all the advice anyone could POSSIBLY get. Different methods and different ways to deal with butterflies. Thanks. Please post answers!!! xxx... (49 words)

How do I talk to a girl I have never met? Tips??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hello pls how may i talk to agirl i have never met before... (13 words)

Do guys hate their girlfriends having male friends, especially close male friends

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a quick question, out of curiosity... Do guys hate their girlfriends having male friends, especially close male friends? I've lost count of the amount of times I've had to reiterate to past boyfriends that I would never cheat and that other guys are just friends. ... (190 words)

I'm 15 and I crave sex all the time! How do I stop feeling like a slag?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

28 August 2007 (?) age 30-35 - how do i stop craving sex? every time i go to see a boy i feel the need to sleep with him. i always fee horny and kinky i always wanna have sex. im 15 so im not even old enough but i cant help it. i know ya probs think im a slag when you read this but i need help. i know its... (129 words)

My friends guy kissed me. I really like him. Shall i tell my friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi recently i kissed one of my friends boyfriends, i really like him and a couple of friends have told me he likes me more than his own girlfriend. he had made a pass at me a few times before this time and i rejected them, then finally i just gave in and kissed him back. Wh... (78 words)

I'm 15 and met a guy on holiday. I love him but he lives 9 hours away! How do we work this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I met an amazing guy on holiday - we've slept together and already said "i love you" to each other. Now I've come back home to England and I miss him so much...I want to be with him and am considering staying with him next time I visit (in 4 months). Problem is I'm only 15, I ... (88 words)

Is it fair that this little girl doesn't know the truth of why her Mom and Dad broke up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend's daughter who is 7 years old told me she wants to know why her mom and my boyfriend got separated. She doesn't understand why everyone keep telling her they will explain to her when she is 17-18. The truth is her mom had an affair with another guy and decided to ... (105 words)

My boyfriends little daughter wants to know why her parenst split. They have told her she will know when she is older. Do you think this is right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

Our friend is a liar, and a self harmer and we are at the end of our tether! Please advise..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay how can i put this, well one of my best friends is, lets say an attention seeker, but its getting quite serious she makes up stuff fo attention and now belives it herself. She used to self harm really badly but we got her to go an see a counsiler, and its mainly stopp... (367 words)

Me and my guy dont seem to do anything fun anymore! Any suggestions???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

- I told my boyfriend we never have any fun outing anymore. All we do is sit at home and he’s on his computer and I’m on my computer. I wanted to go to interesting places that I can have a memorable weekend. He agreed with me and said we’ll do something different this weekend. I ... (156 words)

Is this feeling I feel...love or lust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known a family friend for about 7 years and each year for 3 days we see each other for a religious event or if I'm lucky, weddings or special occasions. He has came to my house and gets on with my family. For some reason we always gaze into each other eyes for a very ... (187 words)

I'm 28 and a virgin. Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't wait for someone special?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I´m a 28 yrs old female virgin too (seems that are a lot of us around here). In my case, it havent´t happened for lack of opportunity. I´ve been always been too "right". With my first boyfriend, when I was about to do, he dumped me. Then never had a serious relation... (164 words)

I fell over whilst out and have done damage to my leg. Should I be worried about it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was out on friday, and fell over while walking i got two seperate cuts on my leg one being worse than the other. it feel on a sharp object and got two puncture marks. i left it and came home. It is now tuesday, my knee has swollen up, the veins around it are more prononce... (92 words)

I was drunk and stoned he took advantage last night what should i do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i was drunk and stoned he took advantage last night what should i do... (14 words)

My boyfriends little girl sees me as a threat. I dont want to come between her and her dad. Any advice please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend of 2 years has a 7 years old daughter. She is from his previous marriage that his wife ran off with another guy. The daughter is now living with the mom who just had a new born baby. I’m in good relationship with my boyfriend’s daughter. I was talking to her one ... (236 words)

I've been dating her for 4 months now, but she has cooled off. I dont know if I was too smothering? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age - Hello. I've been dating this girl for about 4 months. We have a lot of activities in common. Both Gemini - if that matters. From the beginning I really liked her a lot and have fallen in love with her. About 2 weeks ago she wanted to end the romantic relationship as she said ... (155 words)

When he jokes with me he he really wanting me to to do stuff, but afraid to come right out and ask?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my question is kind of embarrassing but here goes i was dating a man last year and during that time we would engage in oral sex we have since then broke up but remain friends im still very attracted to him and think about him all the time but he is dating someone else i think ... (153 words)

Me and my bloke split 2 months ago, he's already met someone new and now i've gone and annoyed his mate. I've got to work with them both! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

- I hope someone can help me out here as I am in such a mess. I know I will get through this but it is hard all the same. My boyfriend and I split two months ago and there has been no contact. I called him a couple of days ago to ask if we could meet to iron out our diff... (258 words)

I met a guy at the weekend, we got on well, now I've heard nothing!??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met a guy at the weekend in the local disco, I got chatting to him and we ended up kissing. We danced and kissed all night in the disco and swapped numbers at the end of the night. He text when he got home to let me know he was home and asked was I home ok.. I text back... (211 words)

My boyfriend keeps blowing me out for his best mate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me are 16, weve been going out 4.5 months, we argue, but its only because of silly things, he keeps doing things to start off arguements, such as planning on seeing me then texting me last minuite saying he'd rather see his best friend, he spends almost every ... (169 words)

I'm 14, went through depression and self-harm. I've feelings for a boy my age now, please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and i feel down. Until about month ago i went through 7 months of depression i turn to self harm. I lost my mates at school and got into fights every day at school, i try to walk away as i do not look for trouble it finds me. With self harm thing i told my mum and ... (238 words)

My girlfriends parents are trying to come between us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My gf/s parents are trying to seperate us (after almost 11 months together) because I have had a few minor traffic violations in the past. last being in 1994 and they act like they are all high society and people will think bad things if they ever find out about such. We are ... (95 words)

Is she dating someone else or is it just hormones?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a pregnant ex girlfriend who may be seeing someone else. She won't even discuss us or getting back together. She just says it's over and I need to get used to the fact. Is it just hormones? Most of my guy friends think she has someone else and that is why she may be ... (186 words)

My step dad has drug problems and i cant face going back to school!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ive been on here before but in december of 2006 my stepfather became violent(yelling at everyone)and i was a sophmore in high school but since december he has been constantly mad and sneaky he has a drug problem serious drug problem...it has affected us soo much since ther... (171 words)

Is he behaving like this because i hurt him or is he jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been hooking up with this guy for a year with him not wanting a relationship...we've been through ups and downs and he always came back to me. but recently he saw me at a bar dancing with a guy and text me sayin how much hotter he was then that guy...then when i text him ... (189 words)

Is she using me to get over her ex????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for a couple of months now but have known her for years. The problem is one of her ex's. I was friends with her when they first broke up (5 years ago) and she was absolutley devestated, since then she's had a few relationships which ... (244 words)

Worried she's developing feelings for me, as I don't reciprocate and she'd feel rejected! I'm her best mate.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay i'm 16 and one of my closest friends is only 14. I have known her most of my life and we have always ben very very close and she always comes to me when she has a problem. However recently she has just broken up with her boyfriend, and is still recovering quite... (197 words)

I told him he will get his things back when he returns the money he owes me; we're separated and I still love him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i broke up 3 months ago... After being together for 7 years. Since we broke up i lent him $400 and has not paid me back and he won't take my calls, well i took some stuff of his from his place and i told him he will get them back when he pays me back. I have t... (134 words)

My hubby's jealousy has gotten worse since knowing about my affair 6 years ago; I'm afraid to leave him, as he'd kill me and my potential lover...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has always been really jealous. He's always wanting to fight with me and other people if I even talk to another guy. But it has gotten worse since he found out that I cheated on him with his best friend six years ago. We had not seen his best friend in 6 six years! ... (155 words)

What do you think about affairs?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What do you guys think about affairs? Esp when someone has one when only in the first few years of their relationship. Does this mean generally they are unhappy, missing something? And if so once the affair has started and even stopped, will that person ever be happy in the ... (84 words)

I'm 17 and friends with a 14 year old girl. Others are saying this is wrong. What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - okay well im 17 and there's a kid who is very special to me (lets call her hannah) well she is 14 going on 15. I've known her since the day she was born and our families are very close. I have grown up with her and always looked out for her like an older brother. We have b... (334 words)

He had an affair and I feel low, I'm also pregnant. I dont know anyone where we live...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Things have not been good through my life I have been made to feel lower than everyone else by bullies at school, work and my partner has not been nice. He has now had an affair and my esteem is at the lowest. I have no friends my husband and children have been my life. I have... (183 words)

How can i deal with friends that dont return my calls or visits, without it sounding like a big deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age - do you feel slighted if you visit and phone others, but they dont reciprocate. what is the best reponse to this situation? should you reduce the frequency of your contact...accept that they dont value friendship as much as they do yours, or should you pull them up on it as... (206 words)

I get bored with guys after a few months, could I be gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I am really confused about sex. I am 30 years old, so I guess this is kind of strange to still be confused. I am attracted to men, and enjoy sex and get really turned on in the beginning of a relationship (even just at the thought of it), but after around 4 or 5 months I get ... (190 words)

If he doesnt see me he seems upset, Yet says he Isn't ready for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months. We have alot in common, have a good time together in every way, and see each other at least once a week. If I dont see him he seems upset, but yet he says he isnt looking for a relationship. I am 29 and he is 38 divorced with ... (103 words)

I've been paired for a project with a guy in my class. He fancies me but i dont fancy him. How do i let him down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 14 and i go to a secondry school. well the thing is i found out a boy in a few of my classes likes me and well to put it bluntly i dont like him back but i dont want to hurt his feelings and he practically admitted he liked me in front of me which made it worse, his friend ... (118 words)

My friend has been in rehab and doesn't seem to want to talk t me anymore. Is that normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Do people get depressed and not really want to interact with others when they are trying to sober up? My friend is an alcoholic and she went to rehab and she's trying to stay sober, but I haven't heard from her and she used to call me a lot. I saw her last weekend at ... (154 words)

Do you think my teacher fancies me????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Does my tutor fancy me? Right now I'm in school, one of my subjects is tech design. I have this male teacher whos like 25 26ish. I spend loads of time in the tech rooms in my free lessons so i spend loads of time with him. A month or two ago was the prom which he was a... (856 words)

My boyfriend hates other guys looking at me and chases them. Yeh HE can look at other women????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my boyfriend look at other women but he goes crazy if another man looks at me. He's even followed guys home to confront them. I asked him what's the difference in him looking at another girls and another guys looking at me?I dress very appropriately, I don't wear ... (94 words)

My boyfriend wants to lose his virginity to me, but I dont want to be known as the 'bad first'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and lost my virginty along time ago in the not the best circumstance , my boyf is 19 and is stil a virgin, it took him courage to tell me this and i respect it , now he says hes ready to loose it , but ive never been in this situtation before , i dont want to be known ... (92 words)

My girlfriend is jealous of my female friend. How can i deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - okay well iv know this girl (lets call her lucy) from when i was little, shes only 14 and im 18. iv always been like a big brother to her an looked after her, messed around etc. and she always comes to me when she has a problem. the thing is i also have a gf of 2yrs and were... (271 words)

I just feel 'not bothered' about socialising at the moment. This is not like me normally. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - WHY WHY WHY?! Why do i want to be alone right now? I have lots of oppotunities to go and see friends but i just feel "not bothered" This feeling has been around for about a week now. I just want to be ALONE. It's not like me. Pleasee Pleasse help me!! ... (62 words)

My dad has just died and my guy has finished with me, I cant stop crying. Help me out please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me, in the early hours of Friday morning my fiance finished with me, reason being that he simply doesnt feel the same anymore. We have been together almost 3 years, engaged for almost 1 - he proposed on christmas morning. The year has been a very difficult one fo... (331 words)

I'm having trouble getting an erection. I dont want to use pills for it. Anyone have any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am looking for some advice, and this is kinda personal, so I am staying anonymous. Lately, I have been having some trouble when it comes to being intimate with a girl. At times it is difficult for me to "get it up" or so to speak. I have no problem masturbating, but when ... (137 words)

I want my ex back and she said she still loves me but I haven't heard from her for nine days. Why????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - okay so me an my ex broke up back in march '07 we were together for 2.5 years, why we broke up is not important, just that I want her back. We went out on date last Sunday, the date went really well, but at the end of the night when we went back to her apartment she got real... (149 words)

I think I've upset the guy I've been seeing. Do I try and talk to him or assume we have split?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just graduated and my boyfriend has a year left. We have only been dating 2 months. He returned to school and I am going back in a few weeks to start grad school, since we have only been dating a few months I never told him this was for sure, he kinda just found out when I ... (148 words)

We're in a long distance relationship but she rarely tells me she loves me. Am I expecting too much??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 35 and my g/f is 33 and we have been in a long distance relationship for 9 months now. We see each other when we can and I am foolishly in love with her. One of the aspects that I struggle with is that she very very rarely expresses her feelings ... the last time she to... (126 words)

My wife has a low sex drive. How can we deal with this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I am married and have been in a relationship with my wife for over 10 years (married 2000). We are both around 40 and have a 3 year old boy and 5 year old girl. We have a problem where my wife has a low libido and is unwilling or unable to try and solve the p... (348 words)

My guy can be verbully abusive, and has been txting someone else. Am I heading for an abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, just alittle reassurance needer here please. My bf and i have been together for 11 months. Two months ago i foun out that he was smsing another girl and she was smsing him back (she was from his past)When i confronted him, he told me that he did it but he regretted it (as ... (497 words)

My ex just split from his girlfriend after she cheated on him, he wants me back. What should i do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Right my Ex boyfriend is in the army and he had a habbit of picking me up and putting me down when he felt like it. We split in December last year (just gone) and he was going to propose to me on new years. We dated for 3 and a half years. However after splitting with me a ... (167 words)

I've been having an affair with an attached girl, I want her to leave him, can her relationship survive with him??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Just after some different opinions bout me problem. I know its bad but been having an affair wiv a girl whos got a boyfriend of three years. It was both emotional and sexual and quite highly charged. We became v close through it. Think it started from mutual attraction and i ... (560 words)

My husband left for no reason! He's very thin and I'm worried about his health. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am in quiet a dilemma. i have been happily married for 13 years. Three months ago, my husband walked out for no reason. We had had no argument,disagreement or anything. All his clothes, underwear and everything is still at the house. He is still going to work and I ha... (173 words)

I'm worried that having braces may have discolored my teeth!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well i had braces for 18months now, and am getting them taken off next week. Im a bit woried tho that i might have lots of stains on my teeth from where the braces were/weren't. so i was wondering if anyone had any tips on how to whiten my teeth and remove stains cheaply. ... (62 words)

She's w/ someone, but likes me back - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - There is a girl i like who has started seeing someone recently. Turns out she actually likes me back. What can i do seeing she has started seeing someone else? I dont want to chase her away from this other guy as i wouldnt like that happening to me. Does anyone have any advi... (63 words)

He was open about personal things - does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy, i'm 15 and he's 17. The only problem is i'm not sure if he likes me. We haven't known eachother very long but he's told me stuff about his family which sounds like it's hard for him too chat bout. What should I do to find out if he likes me and how do I ... (76 words)

My guy of 3 years slept with another girl - several times! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we have a child together, he works away alot, I found out a month ago he has been unfaithfull to me several times when working away, and slept with another girl. we seperated, he now wants be back, saying sorry etc, you dont no you ... (78 words)

After he climaxed, he wasn't in the mood anymore - what can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Well me and my boyfriend were going to have sex last night and I thought I would jack him off and then we would have some fun and then f*ck. Well after I jacked him off about 5 minutes later he wasnt in the mood anymore. Does that mean he isnt into me anymore and Idont ... (118 words)

How can I end my relationship with the married man I'm seeing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

- I have been seeing a married man for the past 11 months, at first it was going out for drinks and clubbing. He is working in my town and soon his job will be over. He stays here all week and goes home at weekends, which recently is becoming less and less. Whenever I don't ... (259 words)

I feel so bad for ending it with my ex - he is completely devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just come through what has to be the worst few days of my life. i broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months knowing that the spark or excitement had never really existed between us. i know i will miss him but i can see that there's someone better out there for both of us. ... (163 words)

I made rules about when me and my bf should contact each other - but he skipped his turn to contact me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey.. Ok so my boyfriend n me have been together for 6 months, and the first 5 months were just amazing. he was doing all the chasing just like i wanted! until that stopped. i mean, he was always the one calling n texting me first, always initiating communication. t... (385 words)

Every now and then I feel like I still love my jerky ex boyfriend! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i went out with this guy for 2 years and i truely thought it was love. anyways he constantly would lie and hurt me, one night it got too much and about 2 months later i started going out with a guy ive known my whole life and we have always had a thing for each other. ... (123 words)

I've cheated on him 4 times but feel so guilty. Should i tell him??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Please can you help me. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and love him very much, we talk about getting married and having children. However last year I cheated on him 4 times. Even now I cant explain why I did it; I lost both my grandparents and had pro... (176 words)

We've been friends a year now and i still like him, But he now has a girlfriend. I cant stop thinking about him..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well theres this guy i really like hes 16 (im 14) and we used to be pretty close and went away on tour together with the band, he used to flirt with me an hint to me quite a lot but i didnt say anything to him not thinking its genuine. just before we left coach to go home ... (241 words)

My parents dont like my boyfriend and now he wants to break up with me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'e been with my boyfriend for nearly 11 months. ive known him for like 6 years and we have always had a thing for each other. Anyways my parents always have loved him, but when we started going out they didnt like him and do everything they can to try break us up. They have... (116 words)

Me and my ex were going on holiday as mates, Now he's cancelled, I am so annoyed!! Should i be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I have recently split up from my bf and we were due to still go on a pre booked holiday next week. We had recently become long distance and he wasn't prepared to make any commitments over the next yr so it was supposed to be an amicable split, staying as friends, keeping in ... (415 words)

I'm having fantasies about rape advice please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. Well, I'm not sure if it's normal or not, but I've been have these fantasies that I was being raped, and I enjoyed it. I'm only 14 years of age, and I know I'm going through puberty and all. But is it normal to feel like wanting to get raped or molested?... (54 words)

Where are all the honest men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This question is for all the guys, male, testosterone driven individuals. I have had bad experiences in my life with boyfriends. I have had the cheaters, liars, players, you name it. My current boyfriend happens to be a big liar. I am loosing my hopes to find an honest guy. ... (117 words)

I'm 13 and he's 18 and has a girlfriend, should I tell him how I feel?

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28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I like this guy named Jesse. He is going into the US coast guard next month and I'll be here alone. I want to tell him how I feel, but he is 18 and I'm 13 plus he has a girlfriend. But he always seems to like me. In church he always gives me hugs and stares at me like ... (93 words)

Is he flirting with me or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright I'm not exactly sure if one of my co-workers is interested in me or not. There are some signs that I believe he is. Such as in one aspect of my job I put products back on the shelves when they are not wanted. Once he threw a pack of pads at me as I was walking away ... (138 words)

What's wrong with loving someone who is a bad person?

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28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What's wrong with loving someone who is a bad person?... (10 words)

Why can't I get over my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So I broke up with my boyfriend back in Febuary and we didn't talk again until this summer. Things started going really well and we started thinking about dating again. Or at least I did but he was acting like he wanted to date me again. So a few days ago we were talking ... (121 words)

Can any of you relate to me?

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28 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Some female advice please I'm a mid 30's guy and happily single. It's really great to have my own life and I'm really happy except for the lack of intimacy and female interaction. Right now its just not an option to be looking for a wife and I don't want a F'buddy either. ... (133 words)

I'm still in a fairly new relationship but he doesn't txt or call much anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Got to the point when must ask this. Im dating the guy for one month(from the previous question)and started well,going out, nice evenings spent together and so on... And now im more than confused. He used to send me a heap of SMS, phoning plenty of times.. at that moment i... (136 words)

Does he really want me or is in it for the phsycal side? How can I tell?

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28 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My probelm is as folows, this guy and i have been "dating" on and off for a few years now, the relationship tends to be physical although there is a connection, he just recently got out of a long term relationship and now wants me back (he actually broke up with her to be with ... (85 words)

Can't seem to stop looking through his e-mails, though my conscience bothers me as he's the best man I've known.

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28 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in love, and have been for 2 years. but I have serious trust issues, I even see a therapist about my turst issues. I recently learned my boyfriends email passwords and have been looking in his email and its making me crazy. I can't stop. I want to because mainly for ... (174 words)

I'm in love with my friend but I'm unsure how to proceed!

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28 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this problem. You see, I'm in love with this guy at my school. He's one of my good friends, and I'm quite certain he loves me back; after all, he looked all mad even though his best friend was only helping me carry some stuff! But for some reason kids at my schoo... (102 words)

I like me my friend, but he doesnt like me back

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28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - theres this guy. and he has been my bestfriend for years after years. and we have dated alot. but now i like him and he isnt interested in me. infact he got mad at me for liking him. what do i do. im in need of help.!!!!!!! D:... (48 words)

My partner wants me to move in, but I am worried his damage runs too deep

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been together for 7 months. We have a great relationship and he wants us to live together, but I'm having some reservations. You see, he was in a very painful break up with a woman he was engaged to marry. She cheated on him and took everything he had ... (180 words)

I have been with a married man for 6 years, am I wasting my time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been in a relationship with a married man for six years now. He and his wife were having probs when we met. Eventually he told her about us and she moved out of the house. After a year though she has now moved back in as the kids live there but I feel as if he is... (119 words)

Is it normal to not be able to orgasm with penetration only?

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28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married a month but have known my husband for 2 years. I cant orgasm with penetration on when he fingers me, is this normal? I have always assumed it is but then he gets upset with me and says its because all i want him to do is finger me and I dont "try" to orgasm ... (68 words)

The love of my life is married.

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28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please a man's point of view I have a situation that is forever nagging at me. The man i love is married. We were friends and dated before he got married. It did not work out because we were neither emotionally ready for a relationship. When he found out that i was... (260 words)

I hang out with a co-worker. Do you think he likes me as more than a friend?

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28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked the following question back on 6/25: I am 28 yrs old and have been working w/ my co-worker who is 40 yrs old for the past year. In this year we have gotten to know each other better and we often go out with 2 friends from work (our boss and his girlfriend). The firs... (305 words)

I'm happy in my relationship and a guy at uni is interested. Whats the best way to let him down gently?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

28 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I'm happily together with a very nice young man for nearly 3 years and I love him very much. At the moment he is working at the other end of town and I'm learning for exams at university, so we don't see eachother everyday. Last week I was learning till late and my friends ... (280 words)