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writes:Okay I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him but now he doesn't care if he's with me, what does this mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): To address a couple of the previous responses:
"Guys this age" are a huge group of normal human beings. It's as diverse as the differences between all the females out there.
Girls can find decent guys if they choose to. But many girls seem to feel that putting up with worthless guys is a price that's worth paying in order to get the guys who pursue them and seem the most "desirable." Everyone has a choice.
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reader, SumYungGuy +, writes (7 August 2007):
 All the women said everything I wanted to say already. Good stuff.
And don't forget that some BOYS at this age feel like they have got to take as many virginities as they can so they can be viewed as some sort of hero by his friends. Very sad this happened to you.
I wish more young teens would come to sites like these and ask about having sex for the first time before doing it. I think if some of them heard the stories we could tell them, they might think twice before doing the deed.
hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): Sorry to say this, hunni, but it sounds like your man only had one thing on his mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): You know, this kind of question makes me very sad...you are under the age of 15 and already have given your virginity away to a boy that did not love you, and lost respect for you when you gave him the very thing he asked for and pretended to want you as a girlfriend to get it.
Guys this age have pretty much one thing on their mind and they will say and or do just about anything to get a girl to give it to them, but funny thing is, they really lose respect for the girl, which does not seem fair, but the thing is, you did someting to try and hold onto him, he knows it, and doesn't want to give that to you, a relationship, he is too young to know how to be a good boyfriend, and if he does want to be someone's boyfriend, he will respect her and wait to have sex until the time is right.
I am sorry this happened to you, but I hope you will learn from your mistakes...sex does not make a boy love you, in fact it can be away of avoiding intimacy and a real relationship....all pretty hard to wrap your head around....but here is the thing, listen to your head before you listen to your heart.
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reader, crazyone +, writes (5 August 2007):
 I hate to say this but this happened to my friend before.Maybe that's all he ever wanted.Guys can do anything and everything just to get what they want out of girls untill we get it.Sorry to tell you.
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