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I can't seem to get him to reach orgasam...

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ok, I am 23 years old and have been dating a wonderful 24 year old guy for about 4 months. Our relationship is wonderful there is only one problem... I can't seem to get him to reach orgasam... He always has to pull out and manually finish himself off. I've tried oral, hand... (331 words

He says I am a nut case...

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13 August 2007 (F age - My partner of 6 years had 2 flings, the second resulting in him wanting me to move out of our home and move her in. He has bought me out of the property but my stuff is still there waiting to be put into storage. I went round our old home tonight as arranged, to talk about wh... (236 words

I love my girlfriend but I'm not sure whether or not she loves me, she says she does but I'm not sure, or maybe I just have trust issues?

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13 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I love my girlfriend but I'm not sure whether or not she loves me, she says she does but I'm not sure, or maybe I just have trust issues? I don't know what to do, I've blown too many relationships off before because of this feeling and I've regretted it all but if she doesn't ... (68 words

I've been seeing a guy for about a year now. He has no sex drive whatsoever.

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been seeing a guy for about a year now. He has no sex drive whatsoever. We've had sex a few times that's it. He likes to kiss me and that's where it stops. Is there anything I can do?... (44 words

I recently dumped my boyfriend of 2 and a half years I'm finding it very difficult as I love him so much!

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm new to the site! I recently dumped my boyfriend of 2 and a half years I'm finding it very difficult as I love him so much! We both agreed that we could do with some time apart and we are meeting in another month to see where things lie! We will either get back ... (198 words

My boyfriend always talks about his ex partners or people he's slept with and it really upsets me.

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend always talks about his ex partners or people he's slept with, he makes it a subject and it really upsets me. We've been together a year and I don't want to leave him because I love him. I've told him to stop talking about it but he never does and he tells me its ... (66 words

When will I most likely get pregnant, just before my period or right after?

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - If I have sex right when my period stops will there be a bigger chance of me getting pregnant even if he wears a condom? When will I most likely get pregnant, just before my period or right after?... (40 words

He tells me that he loves me more than anything in this world but sometimes I feel like he doesn't really mean it and that he is not bothered about me.

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me any my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years now and he tells me that he loves me more than anything in this world but sometimes I feel like he doesn't really mean it and that he is not bothered about me. It has really been getting me down and I feel like giving u... (119 words

Is it normal not to bleed when you lose you virginity? I lost it to my boyfriend and I didn't bleed and now he thinks I didn't lose it to him!

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Is it normal not to bleed when you lose you virginity? I lost it to my boyfriend and I didn't bleed and now he thinks I didn't lose it to him!... (32 words

Will bandaging my stomach up to not look fat do anything bad to my body?

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well my family says I'm tubby, my brother says it the most. I hate it and started to bandage my stomach so I don't look fat. I do this all day and I leave it on when I go to sleep. Will bandaging my stomach up to not look fat do anything bad to my body? ... (56 words

Why has she not answered my text message?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

13 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - I recently asked a girl out on a date and we had a great night. We exchanged emails every day for a week, she then asked me out and had another great time. No kissing but laughing and loads in common. She went on holidays last Thursday and I sent her a text message. I've hear... (87 words

My boyfriend of 5 years has been calling chat lines!

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13 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 5 years has been calling chat lines. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have lived together for 4. A few years ago we broke up as he felt he needed to try other women and just be free from relationships. I found out a few weeks later after looking ... (179 words

My husband of 5 years has suddenly asked me to stick my finger up his butt while going down on him. Does this mean he is gay?

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My husband of 5 years has suddenly asked me to stick my finger up his butt while going down on him. Does this mean he is gay? Why does he want me to do this? I asked him won't this hurt you and he said your fingers aren't that big it will feel good.. So I am a little ... (81 words

What's right, what's wrong, the poor guy doesn't deserve any of this, but I can't pretend or stand it anymore!

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13 August 2007 (F age - He doesn't deserve the hurt he's going to get, married for 21 years, partner has always worked away, called home about twice a year, we have two children, lived alone, very little outside contact, bored lonely depressed, moved with his job ocasionally but never fitted in. Sold ... (209 words

I lost my fiance because he thinks I was a prostitute!

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I lost my fiance because he thinks I was a prostitute! Okay, so I had been with my fiance for about 11 months and loved him dearly. I had no money and couldn't find a job so I began giving erotic massages. There was no sex involved. I admitted to giving oral twice for a... (148 words

I'm taking my wife away for a dirty weekend soon and would like ideas...

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13 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Me and my wife are celebrating our anniversary next Saturday. I'm planning on taking her away for a dirty weekend. The kids are being looked after and the hotel is booked. We have been married for 7 years. I'd like some ideas of what we could do, I want to make this as ... (151 words

What does it mean when you ask a girl out, but she replys with ... a "I don't want to hurt you" comment?

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13 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - What does it mean when you ask a girl out, but she replys with ... a "I don't want to hurt you" comment?... (24 words

I've never been able to cum and no matter what I try different and how hard I try to cum I just can't.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am an 18 year old female and I've only been with 3 guys sexually but have had sex with those 3 guys a lot but I've never been able to cum and no matter what I try different and how hard I try to cum I just can't. Is somthing wrong with me? What do I do? ... (63 words

From a guy's perspective if you said you'd call a girl and forgot because you were working or watever is it innocent or are you just wasting the girls time?

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13 August 2007 (F - Okay, I had a feeling this guy liked me, and he called me but I never called back because I was busy, and then soon forgot. He then called again a few days later, but he called three times in a row, and left a message. I talked to him after those calls, and we planned to hang ... (219 words

Does anyone have any good tips on getting back together with your ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Does anyone have any good tips on getting back together with your ex? My ex broke up with me a couple of months ago. I know he broke up with me for his own reasons. He is really insecure, has a lot of debt, isn't confident in his job, etc. I want to give him the time and space ... (179 words

During the course of the night he said he loved me? Was that just pillow talk??

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I met a guy on a girlie weekend away, we spent the night together in my hotel room, however we left it that he would text me when we both got home, (we live within 5 miles of each other when at home). He duly text me on the Tuesday following the weekend. After that we text ... (357 words

She is more experienced then me but she doesn't know that as I lied and said I've done things in the past too,

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13 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hey guys I have a problem! Just wondering if you could help me, I keep wanting to ask my girlfriend about her past. I don't want to know what she's been up to before but I keep wanting to ask her, I duno why! She is more experienced then me but she doesn't know that as I ... (150 words

I'm jealous of his daughter.

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13 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - im stuck cos im so jealous of my boyfriend daughter who is 17. we are i a long distant relationship and am finding it hard.i just cant seen to exept her tho ive never met her eg he will by her a car wen she passes her test and i hate that as ive been needing a new one for ages ... (103 words

How do i confront her?

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my for boyfriend for one year starting today! My best friend used to date his brother, but he's moved on. She continues to come to his house though. I recently discovered that she brought a girl over to his house and was trying to hook her up with my man! He ... (65 words

Can you get pregnant even when using a condom?

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13 August 2007 (F - Can you get pregnant even if you always use a condom? What are the chances of becoming pregnant if the condom is used properly and doesn't split? I'm 3 weeks late and really need some advice. Thanks... (37 words

I still have feelings for him but am trying to get over him...

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - A month ago I split up with my first boyfriend of nearly 2 years because he kissed another girl. Two weeks after I asked him to meet me so that we could have a chat and see if we could be mates, that went well, he told me that he was going out with the girl which I found a ... (199 words

Is it possible to have a long term relationship? i'm beginning to wonder.

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13 August 2007 (F - Is there anyone who has been in a successful long-term relationship and is still very much in love? I've been visiting this website long enough to see that it seems like it's almost hopeless for men and women to stay together over the long haul. People are always falling in ... (104 words

How can women want to touch someone with a small penis?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

13 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Is it wierd to go from wee-man to Andre the Giant I have a serious problem, Im not a virgin but See i fear sleeping with women alot cause i have a terrible fear of being seen....well... soft. I have a very tiny thingthang when im soft but more then make up when im hard. I ... (99 words

Should I give it one last try or cut my losses and move on?

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Well hello there all, I'm just here looking for some advice on my relationship (if you can call it that). Where to start, My partner works away about six months out of the year, he comes home for a long weekend at the end of every month. While he is away he usually phones me a ... (250 words

Why do they talk to their ex's when they are supposed to be happy?

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13 August 2007 (F - Would anyone tell me(especially the guys out there), why would a guy that's dating someone else and is supposedly serious about her, be still talking to his ex? This is happening to me and its been going on now for four months. Plus, he's asking me questions about people I've ... (64 words

He has said to me that he loves me but sometimes feels like were trying to flog a dead horse with our relationship but is really bad at expressing why.

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I need help. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years we lived together for a year in my student house then I moved back in with my parents. We have split up many times and he has cheated on me in the past but always comes begging for forgiveness. He has said to me ... (128 words

I wish I knew what was going on in his head!

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago coz he snogged another girl, 2 weeks later we met up and talked about it so we could be mates, I found out that he was lying about a lot of stuff such as going out with the person he snogged and stuff. We had a mini argument about ... (130 words

How do i know what love is?

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - im 14 years old and ive been going out with my 15 year old boyfriend for 6 months now i think i love him but how do i know what love is and am i too young for love x?x ... (40 words

I've been seeing this guy for a year now and it's getting too pressuring. I want to have sex with him but it's against our morals.

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for a year now and it's getting too pressuring. I want to have sex with him but it's against our morals.... (26 words

He has increasingly gotten rude, if the house isn't clean enough, he gets angry and he has gotten rude with my kids...

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, I have 2 kids (ages 12 and 9) he has 1 kid (age 11) I have pretty much loved him from the start. About a year ago I was forced to leave my house, and he suggested we live with him. I was floored, for 3 years prior we had ... (249 words

I have not come on yet, whats the problem?

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I was on the pill for about 2 months and it made me bleed for 2 weeks and then not for 2 weeks . . . so I quit taking them about 8 weeks ago . . .and still no period. 2 weeks ago, I took a pregnancy test and it was negative! Whats the problem?... (56 words

I'm in love with my second cousin...

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Every summer our family went to my grandma's place. I met my 2nd cousin there. We are not so close but I'm fallin' for him, I don't know why.. No one knows what I feel for him only me.. Then one day me and my mom went there to have a vacation. Then my 2nd cousin was there!! ... (191 words

I don't wanna lose friendship with him, does anybody know what I should do?

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Right okay me and my boyfriend split up about 3 months ago.. prior to this I had told him I loved him a few times.. (I didn't) well we broke up and stayed friends. Now I get a new boyfriend he screams and shouts at me so I turned round and said YOU KNOW WHAT, I HAVE NEV... (169 words

What if he decides he wants to be with a man?

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and everything has been awesome until we had a conversation yesterday about our pasts. About 7-8 years ago he had a threesome and had sex with a guy. We had a conversation a long time ago when he said he had curiosity about ... (194 words

I live in a town where everyone knows me, and i want to get the pill.

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey all. ply answer my question. its very important to me. k im 16. me and my bf are having sex. i want to use the pill. whats the posabilitys of getting pregnant with the morning after pill? where can i get it? i live in a small town where everybody knows me. thx for the ... (65 words

I don't like him, yet he was all over me.

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well theres this guy who has been trying to chat me up for a while, but Im realy not interessted as I hate his personality, and I like this other guy whos away atm but will be back in a few weeks. Anyway I met him with a couple of friends to go to the cinema and he kept putting ... (385 words

How do you deal with age gaps and long distance at the same time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

13 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi... I'm currently happily dating a 17 year old for almost a year now. We live in seperate states, and we've lived by phone and email for a long time now. My question goes out to the other older people in age gap relationship: How do you cope/deal/handle the fact that y... (141 words

A couple of months before we were okay, it just seems all of a sudden he's had enough and just wants the single life again. Why?

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years a couple of months told me that he wanted a break (whatever that means) at first I was shocked as I thought that we were ok with each other. We have a house together and just a couple of months before we bought a puppy (this I seen as a commit... (272 words

He wants to have sex, but i'm scared.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok i'm 13 and me and my bf who is 14 have been going out for 3 in a half months i love him with all my heart but he wants to have sex in La in 2 weeks i want to but im scared i dont want to get pregnant what do i do HELP!!!!! plez ... (63 words

She is going away, is it the end?

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13 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - She going to college! Is it doomed, for now? We have lived a long distance relationship b4, we have lived together for a few monthhs weve been together for almost 2 years. And were only 19 and 20 But shes going off to college. In another state but only about 3 hours away. Im... (139 words

Why didnt I just walk away???

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. He is wonderful and everything I have ever wanted. I have never been this content. This is why I am devastated and confused about my recent behaviour. An older male colleague of mine expressed some interest in me a while ago - he... (439 words

She has one friend who's a terrible influence!

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13 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - She has one friend who's a terrible influence! I am one of the few 20 yr old men who has found true love. Our relationship of 1.5 years has been more good then bad. we have done more then alot of people have done at our age lived together for 3 months lived apart in differe... (210 words

Because my parents hate my boyfriend's parents, they won't come to my wedding!!!

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi,my bf has asked me to get married in December but my parents feel i am too young,I am 19 and my bf is 30, so we decided to get engaged instead. I told my mum but noy my dad yet as i am scared to hear his negative response. My bf's parents are ok with the situation,it is only ... (177 words

I'm not sure whether I'm squirting or not?

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I have never cum with a boyfriend and when I have used sex toys I have what I thought was urinated at the end, and I don't know why that has happened to me therefore I've been weary whilst having sex because I didn't want this to happen think I would wee on them, and I t... (126 words

I lost 7 pounds on my diet thi week. My mate says that I'll now only lose 2 pounds at a time??

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13 August 2007 (F - Ive been on a diet for the last week and ive lost 7 pounds. Ive been eating correctly just healthier foods because i used to eat loads a day. Someone told me that next week if i continue to eat the same i will only loose 2 pounds. Why is this? ... (53 words

How do birth control pills work?

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - How do birth control pills work? And after how long can I start having sex without a condom after starting the pill? ... (26 words

I don't know if my ex still has feelings for me. Any help?

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13 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - I don't know if my ex still has feelings for me. My girlfriend and I seperated in February. We had been together for four years and lived together for two. Those four years are the happiest I have ever been. She was completely devoted to me and I was to her. We were so happy... (377 words

I had sex with my brother and I'm worried about being pregnant.

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I had sex with my brother I only started my period a month ago and I know your not even supposed to have produced eggs by this point but I'm worried and I don't want tests or to tell anyone. Please help.... (42 words

I forgave my friend for kissing the boy I've liked for two years. Now I found out she's been doing other things with him!

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - A few months back me and my "best mate" were at a friend's house, and the guy I'd liked for a year and half was there, she ended up kissing him right in front of me, like it wouldn't be painful for me. We were both quite drunk so when I got home I let her know how hurt I was. ... (258 words

When I mentioned hanging out with my mates, she said I don't love her anymore!

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13 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - i am 23, me and my girlfriend who is 20 have been spending the last week together, we dont live together at all yet anyway. but we have been together 24/7 for the last week and today i wanted to go see some friends, she flipped and claimed i dont love her or want her round etc ... (113 words

5 Minutes after I'd kissed him, his ex and him went to spend the night together!

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - every week i go to the pub with friends from work at my new job. i've started to get on really well with one of their flatmates and i really like him (im 20, hes 26). After the pub we always go back to someones house and this guy i like cuddles me and strokes my arm or hand and ... (264 words

Do girlfriends often want to break up after graduating from University?

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13 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - Do girlfriends often want to break up after graduating from University? She does after me supporting her financially and mentally for 4 yrs+. What shall I do?... (29 words

What do guys think of girls who make the first move?

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I need to know ..... what do guys think of girls who make the first move? Ive met someone I REALLY like, we exchanged numbers and have met up a few times. Each time, we get on great and theres a definite attraction between us. The only thing is, I feel like Im the one that ... (165 words

Do I have to show her my bad side to stop me seeming weak?

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13 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am not strictly in a relationship, but me and a girl are in love. Sounds stupid but I wont bore you with the details. I would say I treat her well, like nicely. We are always texting and I always compliment her and I did that alot (mostly in private) when i saw her (she lives ... (102 words

I just want to know if i should move on from my ex?..

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I dont really know where to start.... Basically i just want to know if i should move on from my ex?.. To cut a long story short; we went out for 18 months, we lived together, engaged etc, then i got a text from a guy in my past, i told this guy i wasnt interested... i didnt te... (574 words

I think he's bored of me. Am I being insecure?

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi There. I need advice on my relationship as after a year and a half together I am feeling terribly insecure in my relationship. My boyfriend of over a year and a half has never given me a reason to doubt that he is faithful and is very loving and caring. However lately I... (415 words

When my son tells his girlfriend that she can't have her way, she threatens to harm herself.

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13 August 2007 (F age - Hello, my nineteen year old son has a girlfriend. They have been dating for about 8 months, he away at University. Last term as he was preparing to go back she asked how 'can you choose university over me if you loved me you would stay'. Now she is planning to move to share a ... (154 words

My best mate doesn't take an interest in talking to me anymore since she's got with her bf.

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi I need some advice please. My best friend of almost 10years doesnt seem to open up to me anymore, or be all that interested in doing girls stuff together - since she started going out with her fella. They've been together for just over a year, and I have literally just fou... (272 words

At the time I thought it was for best that we broke up, but i think i still love him...

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do. i was seeing this guy for a few months on and off, and then eventually we became more serious, but our relationship as friends made it wierd for us, so it didn't last long. At the time I thought it was for best that we broke up, but i think i st... (213 words

Why can't I get pregnant???

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13 August 2007 (? age 30-35 - why cant i get pregnant!! me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for nearly 7 months and it just isnt happening it is cos im only 15 or is it just cos i cant have children. i really want one. me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and are now engag... (130 words

We're just talking for now but I'm a minor - should I stop talking to him?

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i'm a teenage girl that has fallen for a guy that's in his twenties. before people flip we're just friends online, for now. i know there is laws against guys talking to minors, but we're just talking at the moment, a little flirting every now and then but mainly talk. even ... (74 words

Do I make my move? Reading her emails, she doesn't seem sure about us!

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13 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - The situation is a little complex and hard to explain but I'll try my best to explain the essentials. I started going out with this girl knowing she was bisexual and into another girl. We had fun but after a few months, she broke up with me when she had a chance with the girl ... (183 words

Is being unemployed the reason behind my fiancee's behaviour?

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My ex-fiancé has a lousy sales job and he's very proud of it because he is self employed and doesn't have to wake up early to respond to a stupid boss. He has always been very involved in my professional life because I've been unemployed for a while and obviously because he ... (984 words

How can I tell if my hymen is broken?

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - how do I know if my haymen is broken or not? I do lots of horse back ridibg and sports but how do I really know?... (27 words

He sometimes mentions our age difference. What does that mean?

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im 18 and hes turning 25, we flirt and kiss so much but he just mentions age just a little. What does that mean? Like. i like him alot and he likes me alot and he also says he just dosent wanna get in to trouble...... (46 words

My friend told me that she had sex with my boyfriend while I was at work!

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13 August 2007 (? age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. The other day I broke up with him becuase I was kind of starting to think that he was cheating on me and i got my little sisters phone and started texting him on it like I was just some random girl...I pretended like his ... (557 words

Do I tell my boyfriend that I like him?

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - hay, i really want 2 know if i should tell me bff if i like him, we have know each other for about 4 or 5 years, and i don't want 2 mess up relationship with him, and on top of that, he lives in another city. What should i do????... (51 words

How do I handle an unwanted crush from a younger girl?

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13 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am a babysitter of three kids. Ages 6, 8, and 10. The 6 and 10 year olds are boys and the 8 year old is a girl. Now I'm a male and it seems this girl has a bit of a crush. How do I handle it? She undresses knowing i'm around and even goes skinny dipping when I am in or near ... (70 words

I told him my past and now he doesn't trust me and is hurt by it! What can I do?

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13 August 2007 (? age 36-40 - I've been with my boyf for a year. He's so sweet and loving and great most of the time (except when he gets mad). Everything was good until we discussed my past. I never had a boyf before. I had had a friends with benefits thing three years ago (i didn't know my boyf then) with ... (383 words

We started going out so her mate doesnt like her anymore! What do I do?

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13 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - im 14 and i met these 2 girls at a roadside service place on the motorway. they are both 14, i never even spoke to either of them and i left with both their numbers. they both kinda fancied me but i only liked one of them i texted her and now shes my gf. there is kind of a ... (124 words

Her family have been getting on her case about me!

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13 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Im 16 and ive been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. I love her like nothing else, but recently her family has been getting on her case about me, accusing me of only wanting sex and that ive had sex with her. (not true, still a virgin). I dont want to break up with her ... (81 words

I've been married to my husband for 30 years and I want out so bad that it makes me sick...

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13 August 2007 (F age - i have been married to my husband for 30 years and i want out so bad that it makes me sick. i tell him and it is as if he doesn't hear me. he just keeps tellig me what all he has done for me and how hard he has worked. forgettong that i have work through out the marriage and ... (201 words

I get violent and moody just before my period! Help!?

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13 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - heya im just wondering for help from either a proffesional or another girl that has something to help her. Before im due for my period i get really violent and moody and shout at everyone for no reason or for the slightest thing. I want to control my anger but cant find a... (67 words

I lost my virginity to my ex and it's made getting over her that much harder!

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13 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for nearly 2 months now, after she ended our relationship. Prior to being with her, I had dated seriously twice, and fooled around with both girls and occasionally other girls while I was single, but I had ne... (241 words

Why would a guy lie and say he wasn't a virgin when he was?

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey all, This isn't an urgent question or anything, I am just curious. When I first got with my boyfriend, we obviously talk about our past relationships, I told him how many guys I had been with, he told me how many girls he had been with. He said he'd slept with 2 girls, wh... (147 words

My husband has become very close to a woman at his work and it's ruining our marriage!

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13 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for 20 years and have been married for 13 1/2 years. My problem started about 15 months ago, when I found out that he is very close friends with a female at his work. He never told me about her, but later when I started asking alot of ... (398 words

Is this distance a sign of maturity or a lack of interest?

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13 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - i love spending time with my girlfriend, i wish we lived together, and she has expressed the same feeling with me. i understand that she needs her time with her family and i need time with my hobbies/activities. but when we first met we would text and talk almost the entire ... (127 words

I have been bitten by something for the past several nights!

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13 August 2007 (F age - Okay, This is really gross. I have been bitten by something for the past several nights. I have welts, the size of mosquito bites, that are itchy, but they ooze a little bit the size of a pin-prick at the top. I don't think it is bed-bugs, I have also slept in three differen... (166 words

Would you recommend I stay with him and try to fall back in love, or should I just throw in the towel, after 2 years?

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 years now. A year ago, he said some pretty hurtful things. He called me fat and ugly, and even worse than that. the next day he said he was stressed about school, and for some reason i forgave him. A few months later he told me ... (270 words

He doesn't listen when I speak, he interrupts, he says hurtful things and he says he doesn't need me or care if it ends... !

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13 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been with this guy three years next month, but he still does the same things he does now, not listening to me when I speak, interrupting when I speak, saying hurtful things and then apologizing for it, telling me he doesn't need me or care if the relationship ends. What ... (54 words

My ex girlfriend and her mates are going to try and ruin things with my new girlfriend and I by lying to her.

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13 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Me and My ex girlfriend have split up for about 3 weeks now and I dumped her because we started having arguments and we never really took off if you know what I mean? I had many people tell me she was cheating on me with work mates and so forth. Also my parents caught her ... (202 words

I've been involved with a married man for over a year, he says he's gonna leave, I just need to be patient.

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've been involved with a married man for over a year, he says he's gonna leave, I just need to be patient. I love him with everything in me and can't stand the thought of being without him, but I'm so tired of being alone. Am I being too impatient? What do I do?... (54 words

I'm not willing to give the guy up for a non-physical internet relationship no matter how much my heart bleeds everytime I talk to Alex.

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi. I used to never really have any friends and always stay at home on my computer. A total nerd (excuse the phrase) and I went out with a few guys on the net. It was meaningless till I met him - Alex. I know it was just over the internet but he made me smile and I looke... (204 words

I asked him if we could get back together as I am miserable without him. He is unwilling to do this, but still says he loves me and that he is fine with us just 'seeing' each other.

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13 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I split up with my first serious boyfriend a few months ago. However, we carried on sleeping together, talking everyday etc, basically carrying on as normal. Then he went travelling alone for a month, and on another holiday. During the time he was away, I was very depressed. ... (159 words

Why does she think I'll leave her?

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13 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - It's been 7 months into our relationship and dated only twice.... We both express our feelings (i.e. I love you) over 50 times a day through the mobile phone.... everything goes fine... but don't know sometimes she acts very weird... she says that I'll leave her... I have a ... (153 words

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