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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I go from wet to dry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem where i get really, really wet and aroused during foreplay but then as soon as my boyfriend trys to give me an orgasm i become very dry. it's really embarassing and i just don't know what to do. he thinks i just feel pressured because whenever we're just ... (117 words)

He promises that he'll divorce her, but he never does!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My bf and i have dated for the past 4 years. He is legally married with a kid. His "wife" is in Europe. They have been separated even before our relationship (she had to go back to Sweden and he stayed in Germany). He moved to US and thats when we started dating. ... (440 words)

I'm scared to tell my mom i'm pregnant!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my mom dont get along that well because she is so strict, but im pregnant and im scared to tell her,HELP!... (23 words)

He seems to change his feelings about me constantly! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, Hello Everyone!! Well here's my problem: Im 17 years old and my boy friend is 20 years old We have been together for abit over a year now We have been best friends for a long time for almost 2 and a half years. but when we were friends he would call me al... (523 words)

She says she has an orgasm but cannot cum? How do I help her to do this as well?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend tells me that when she masturbates, or when i finger her, she orgasms but isn't able to cum. As far as i was aware these two things were one and the same. how do i help her to cum as well? thanks... (44 words)

My bf and I have serious trust issues. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Can someone please help with my problems... My bf and I have been together for the past 3 and a half years. I could never really trust him because even at the beginning of our relationship, before we were so close, he lied about small stuff such as being home when ... (212 words)

What are the signs of an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i haven't had sex but my bf has fingered me and given me oral and i get a build up of energy when it feels amazing but i don't really know if i have had an orgasm. i have been with my bf for 15 months and it has bin a 'sexual' relationship(however without actual sex) for ... (122 words)

My mom's friend's son stares at my chest, what should I say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom's friend has a son. He is 3 years older than me. I see him a lot. Whenever I'm around him, I feel uncomfortable. He always stares at my chest. Should I say something to him? If so, what should I say?... (43 words)

My boyfriend is pulling the double-standard! Is it just an excuse to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just moved in with my boyfriend of 9 months and while I was at work one day he went through my "memory box" that i kept while i was in HS. It had somethings in it about my ex boyfriends like who i kissed, who i didnt, and so on...silly HS things. And he is really mad at m... (142 words)

What should I do about my boyfriend's friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I fancy my boyfriend ´s good friend. I dont like my boyfriend that much coz he doesnt pay attantion to me as he used to. I want to get closer to his friend but the problem is obvious. Shall i forget about it?... (43 words)

I did cheat on him but I want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for a year now a month ago we broke when he was told that i was cheating on him and i have tried talking to him but he keeps me off, the truth is that i cheated on him and i now feel i don't love this other guy its him that i want and i don't ... (102 words)

I don't want to mess up our friendship, but I like him as more than a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heey well iv been really close with this guy for absolutly ages and hes been one of my best friends for years, we always go into town together and mess about etc. and i love him to peices for it. but now im starting to think i might like him a bit more than a friend, and im s... (92 words)

After one night of smothering me with attention, my boyfriend hasn't contacted me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. On my 15th birthday my boyfriend was all over me and got really close to me and i can't say i didn't like it cause i did but the following mornin he left really early but said a few things that made me think he regreted his behavior. He pays me attention usually but not ... (99 words)

He tells me he just wants to be friends, after seeing me for 5 months!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'll try to make this as short as possible. I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now. We have been progressing slowly, but still progressing. We have talked about how we feel about each other, and the all of a sudden he tells me he doesn't want to be in a commit... (123 words)

Should I tell my friend about these rumors I heard about her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive found out something about my best friends boyfriend. They have been going out for about 2months. Not that long but they're both 17 and my friend says shes in love with him. I havent met him, the way shes describes him he sounds absolutly perfect. I have been very happy for ... (409 words)

We got engaged about 3 months ago and everything has gone down hill from then on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age - I have been with my partner now for 20 years and I have not regretted one minute of it. We got engaged about 3 months ago and everything has gone down hill from then on, she says I accuse her of seeing other men when I have only done this once. I love her with all my heart and ... (82 words)

Yes, it is very nice that he wanted to buy that for me but I don't agree with where he looked or what he look at.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I am curious if anybody else would have the same problem or if it is somehow reasonable that I thought this: My boyfriend and I had a conversation about web sites we visit (to see if we go to any porn sites etc). He said that he hasn't been going to any... (219 words)

Whenever I see him, I feel sick with nerves, and I feel sick when I hear the mention of his name and even when I see him in person or even think of him, is this normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've just recently met a guy I like a lot. The trouble is, whenever I see him, I feel sick with nerves, and I feel sick when I hear the mention of his name and even when I see him in person or even think of him, is this normal? I keep wretching and my stomach keeps going ov... (78 words)

For the first time at 28 I gave it up, I had sex with him , lost my virginity to him and now he not talking to me at all!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for a whole year, within that year we went through some rough times where he cheated a couple of times and then he stopped and silly me I remained in the relationship because all along I thought I was the problem because I wouldn't give it up. So to ... (96 words)

Everytime I have sex with my boyfriend and to the bathroom afterward, I have really painfully burning when I urinate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately, almost everytime I have sex with my boyfriend and to the bathroom afterward, I have really painfully burning when I urinate. The sex itself isn't painful. I do/I have trouble getting lubricated, but we usually take it really slow starting off so the lubrication isn'... (74 words)

I feel like a stuck record about this but it's really bugging me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I feel like a stuck record about this but it's really bugging me! I split with someone just over a month ago. Was a year long nightmare relationship. All is good, I can't stand the bloke. He rang Friday night trying to explain things 'cuz he loves me' I told him to get ... (440 words)

He brought up that I'm on dating sites - but why is he looking if we're going out together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age - I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years, we broke up 4 months ago, but 6 weeks ago he phoned me and asked me out, so we started going out again, while we were broke up I joined a dating agency, the other day he said to me how many dating sites was I on, as he had seen my ... (140 words)

What do you do when the person who you love, dream and care about is unavailable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Please tell me, what do you do when the person who you love, dream and care so much about, is unavailable and its unlikely for you to ever be with them cos they're already married and are quite older than yourself? I'm so depressed and i can't take my mind off him, i don't know ... (110 words)

If he's like this now how will he be after we're married?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my fiance is doing my head in. We are getting married in 3 weeks time, and there is still lots to do, and he just isn't doing anything!! I feel like I have done almost everything, and the things I ask him to do I end up doing myself anyway because he messes them up or doesnt d... (177 words)

We're getting married! But all of a sudden, I'm scared that I am making a huge mistake.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm due to be married in a few weeks time. Thing is, I don't know if I'm doing the right thing!! I really thought it was what I wanted, at first when he proposed out of the blue I was rather taken aback, and I did say yes because I couldnt exactly say No. I always wanted t... (264 words)

He doesnt turn me on anymore and I wonder if I am still in love with him. I have feelings for another man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having doubts about my relationship. We have been together for 6 years nearly and living together for 1 year. My boyfriend is the best anyone could ever wish for, he is kind and would do anything for me and I know he loves me so much but lately I have been wondering what ... (138 words)

Do you have to get rid of chlamydia in order to become pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i wanted to know if you have chlamydia which is an sti can you still get pregnant or do you have to get rid of it first... (27 words)

He said that he couldn't go out, but I think he's making up excuses!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday, i texted my crush (he likes me, too, he told me) that i wanted him to come to a movie with my friends and i. well two hours later (yeah ik!!) he finally texted back what time. So i told him then he said i have football. And i know he plays football cause I've been to ... (108 words)

I'm not sure what feelings I have for my husband but I don't think its love! I'm walking on eggshells, here, and feel trapped...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am going round in circles with my feelings. Some days I am millimetres from leaving my husband (of 13 years - no children) he knows what buttons to press but then I stay - security, familiarity, finances etc etc. I'm not sure what feelings I have for him but I don't think ... (720 words)

Anyone got tips on making hair grow faster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone out there have any tips on making hair grow faster. My hair is shoulder length and I feel like it has been that same legnth for 6 months. I want it to be at least to the middle of my back. Any advice?... (45 words)

I told my best friend that I have a crush on him and he said "well I'm not gay...what do you want me to do?" What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem!!...well I'm gay and I am madddly in love with my best friend...I've been knowing him since 05 and I've always had a little crush on him...when we got to sophmore year...we started hanging out every weekday...and thus we became best friends...I've always loved ... (242 words)

My husband was upset that an old fling of mine was also at my friend's wedding...so we left after 10 minutes! I'm annoyed and embarassed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 5 years. I met my husband in my final year at university over 7 years ago. After the first few months together, my husband asked the dreaded question about how many sexual partners I had before him. He knew I'd been in 3 relationships before him, but ... (450 words)

Our first week together we talked about marriage and kids. Now it's been 7 months and he still hasn't said he loves me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, im madly in love with my boyfriend of 7 months, when we got together i told him i was looking for a husband not just abit of fun, he was fine with this, our first weeks together we talked about our future, our wedding, our house, our children, everything and he said ... (162 words)

How do I get over my ex? Not even being intimate with other girls has worked!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having serious problems getting over someone. I feel like I am obsessed with the other person. We dated for 4 months and broke up 6 months ago. We were very intimate and I have never felt a connection to someone like that since my 1st which was 10 years ago. She made me ... (113 words)

My bf just said he's no longer going on holiday with us! We leave August 14. How can I make him change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, i dont know what to do. on the 14th august my family and i and also my boyfriend for nearly a year are going on holiday to florida, the other night he said he didnt want to come with me. i cant change his mind and dont no what to say to him. i was really looking ... (221 words)

I'm moving half way around the world - should I carry on a relationship with my wife or my mistress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - This question is long because it's very complicated (even though I've simplified it quite a bit). Three years ago, I fell in love with a European girl and moved to Europe to be with her. I gave up a lot to make the move and it really was a blow to my self-esteem. Ad... (284 words)

I think our relationship has gone past being f*ck buddies. Do I say something to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - 5 months ago me and a guy I work with agreed to be f*ck buddies as we both didnt want anything serious, now its confusing, I thought a f*ck buddy was just sex now and again but lately he has been phoning and texting me loads, I have met his friends, go round to his house and ... (166 words)

How do I handle my boyfriend's baby? Is the relationship worth going through this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend who I have been dating for four months and who I love has two young kids. The youngest is 8 month old. It is very hard for me to accept the baby for some reason. How do I handle being in this situation? And how do I know he is truly worth going through this?... (60 words)

This is my first relationship, so how do I know if I love him or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for about four months now and I love him, the problem is this is my first relationship ever and how do I know that what I am feeling is true love? I have never really been the type who wants to date around but how do I know for sure?... (60 words)

I have developed a close friendship with a teacher eight years my senior who is single and now that I am no longer his pupil, I would like to pursue a romantic relationship with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I graduated high school this year and am off to university. I have developed a close friendship with a teacher eight years my senior who is single and now that I am no longer his pupil, I would like to pursue a romantic relationship with him. Can anyone who has done this or ... (93 words)

How do I confront this yet again whithout him going in rages.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age - I've been with my partner for 5 years, in all that time he's been in touch with his ex wife. I've caught him out on many occasions texting other women, also I've found photos on his PC of other women. He promised me he would never do it again. I have now seen the same old ... (153 words)

I'm getting hair extensions and I've been told that 100 pieces of pre bonded individual hair is enough for a full head? Do you think this is right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm looking for some advice so I don't waste my money. I'm getting hair extensions and I've been told that 100 pieces of pre bonded individual hair is enough for a full head? Do you think this is right? Any help would be apreciated as soon as possible. much thanks xxxxx... (55 words)

Is she only trying to make me feel better? It's driving me mad thinking of her with some one else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I have been with this girl for ages to cut a long story short I want to know if it's possible that if a girl isn't comfortable during sex with men that she doesn't get any feeling, my girlfriend says the lads who she was with before were one night stands and she was drunk ... (83 words)

Okay I know this is probably one of many common situations for a woman with small breasts, but I'd like some advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there! Okay I know this is probably one of many common situations for a woman with small breasts, but I'd like some advice. I have very low self esteem and my boyfriend knows how much I want to change myself. (Not for anyone, but myself). I noticed a while ago how my... (370 words)

I don't want to split up with him but I don't know what to do, should I believe him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been going out with a lad for a few months when I found out he had been cheating on me. We split up for 6 months and then he asked me to go back out with him and that he was sorry for what he had done. I have now been going out with the same lad for 2 years where I di... (203 words)

I finally called, just to find out that he's back with his ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 1/2 weeks ago, (our anniversary is in about 20 more days) He did the whole not talking thing to me, and I couldn't bottle it in anymore that I wasn't over him, so I finally called, just to find out that he's back with his ex. I'm holding onto ... (84 words)

I have just discovered that my boyfriend has signed up for a dating site...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age - I have just discovered that my boyfriend has signed up for a dating site, when I asked him why he just said it was to have a look, I find this strange, we are both in our 40s. I can't really understand why he would want to do this?... (50 words)

He has told me straight why he has done it saying he doesn't let anyone close to him because he has been hurt before...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out that a lad who I have been texting and kissing has been having sex with a girl I know from the pub. When I asked him he admited it and just said that he is single but he wasnt trying to play me because he liked me. He asked me out on Thursday but I said no because ... (146 words)

Should I get back with my ex if he tells me he loves me and will make more effort this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex boyfriend for 1 year and 4 months before he dumped me saying he didn't love me anymore. This was about 3 months ago, we are still very good friends as I was not angry with him because he was honest with me about how he felt which is all I ever asked of him. I... (378 words)

I'm 22 and never had a relationship with a girl... how do I stop being so shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Am now 22 yrs old and i've never had any relationship with any girl not just because i dont have good looks.Actually i've good looks but because i feel very shy.Sometimes certain gals tell me that they,ve got feelings for me but i shy away.What can i do stop being shy.Its ... (60 words)

He treats me like his cook and cleaner! I love him very much but just don't seem to be getting anything back...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there i have been in a relationship for 2 yrs i met him as i had just split with my ex husband i have 2 children and he has 1 he is currently in the army and i only see him on weekends but when he comes home he totaly disregards me and it doesnt even seem as if im here its ... (150 words)

Totally in love with my girl of one year, except our relationship has a problem... she never (ever) wants sex and we've not yet made love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I've been with my girlfriend since the start of the year. I love her very much and she's everything I'd ever want in a partner. The only thing I'm unhappy with though, is our sex life (or lack thereof). She told me a long time ago that, before we met, she'd never had a boyf... (486 words)

How do I get passed the feelings I'm having?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I get passed the feelings I'm having? Everytime this one person gets mentioned (one of my girlfriend's exes, let's say Tim) I feel very low and get vivid imagages of the two of them together. This is due to my girlfriend who shared her past with me but gave far to much ... (185 words)

What's the point of remaining in a relationship that is never going to grow into something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My story is a little long, my major complaint is I don't believe in MEN anymore, or in my sense of judgement.. My ex boyfriend, I thought he was a real angel but he didn't treat me so great. Like I would always have to be the one to call him and set up dates, if I didn't c... (815 words)

What should I do? She said she needs time to sort her head out but I haven't heard from her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What shall I do?? I was with a girl who had just come out of a realtionship then jumped straight in one with me now she's finished with me, saying she needs time to think. Now she doesn't talk to me, doesn't text, doesn't ring or nothing. I know that I should just leave her ... (103 words)

I do love and care for my partner but how can I be sure he is 'the one' if I want to sleep with other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. We are very close and share everything - we have lived together for 2 years. However, when it comes to sex, I never initiate it with him as it often hurts as he is quite large... I even dread it to be honest. Recently, we ... (312 words)

I don't want to rush her but the bottom line is that I'm completely in love with this girl.. !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Last June I picked up the phone and called a friend I went to high school with. I literally hadn't seen or spoken to her for 12 years. We went out for drinks and since then we've been spending time together at least once a week (maybe a little less), having dinner together ... (492 words)

My my weight is causing me to be unhappy....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 14 years old and have always been happy with my weight, I don't know how much I weigh but I am starting to feel unhappy, this is causing me to make myself be sick and I am exercising lots, I want to wear baggy clothes as well. I have told 2 of my freinds about th... (74 words)

Is it normal to start liking other guys coz I haven't seen my boyfriend for 4 months.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal to start liking other guys coz I haven't seen my boyfriend for 4 months. I miss him and I really do love him very much. I didn't want to have to start liking other guys. I'm going to ree him in a month but I want to forget about the other guy. ... (55 words)

His friends take their girlfriends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is always going away with his mates for weekends every three or four weeks. Sometimes some of his mates take their girlfriends. When should I start putting my foot down and how do I talk to him about this and explain my feelings wihout it turning into an ... (53 words)

Can we make it last a long time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going with my boyfriend for a year and 1/2 (since I was about 2 turn 13) and I love him so much and I know he feels the same but I think I can only love him 50/50 percent because there's no promise that we'll be together for a long time. Is there any chances of us ma... (67 words)

She was my first love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - We met a year ago. She was (and still is) the only person outside my family who ever accepted me for I am. We quickly became very close friends. We would spend the whole day just enjoying each other's company. What we had was something special. I had never been happier. It ... (234 words)

He says that marriage would be a waste of time...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i've been with my partner for 8 years and we have 2 beautifull children, our relationship is great, the only issue we have is marriage, i despretley want to marry him as i feel it's about time we properly commit to eachother, this is a big issue for me as i feel that ... (105 words)

I know that boys "cum" sperm but do girls come? What is it? Confused!

This question has 57 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i was wondering, do girls cum? I thought only boys came because well its sperm but what is girl cum ? Do they cum during sex? If they do where does it go because the guys penis is up there i dont get it. Or is it only some girls who come? or do they just come rarely? I mean ... (80 words)

Not sure my partner is over his ex... I sometimes feel as if he doesn't even like me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 currently dating a man who has only had one relationship. He was with her for 5-6 years and they have a child together. So they have to stay in contact. I don't think he is over her. He never says "i love you" to me unless i say it first. I sometimes feel as if he ... (109 words)

How can I find out if a guy likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl and there's a guy in my sports team that I really like. I'm not sure if he likes me. I know that I should just ask him if he likes me but I'm scared he wont and our friendship will be really awkward. I just need to know if he likes me! What should I ... (63 words)

He has trouble staying hard during sex... but not oral.. why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - when i am having sex, i can give my guy oral sex and he gets erect, but when he penetrates me after a minute he goes soft, my question is why does this happen?... (34 words)

God, my parents and me... Who comes first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have a conflict in values with my parents who are very religious, whereas i am not. Please advice.... (19 words)

Is there any way for sex not to hurt the first time round?

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7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you break yourself in for sex the first time not to hurt?... (14 words)

He's gone and played the "open relationship" card!

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7 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend just talked me that it is ok to have sex outside of the relationship as long as you are not sharing any feeling with this other person. In other words, sex and love does not go together and having casual sex is ok. I replied by saying that it was not acceptable ... (123 words)

Now i'm about to date someone new, she wants me back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok listen this problem is starting to get annoying.... look i have made a huge mistake..... i am male of 15 but this happened when i was 13....a year and a half ago....anyway.... i like this woman alot and she liked me back.... well after awhile of the flirting..like a week or ... (599 words)

Do you think i deserve to be treated in this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - please help!!! my boyfriend is starting to be very controlling, for instance he always wants me to do what he says, listen to him, leave him be when he doesnt want me around and on top of that he is so mean to me. He talks to me like I am a little kid and says that when I learn ... (398 words)

What am i doing wrong?

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7 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I just wanted to know what you guys think I should do... I'm one of those guys who isn't very good looking, and isn't good with the girls, you know the type. The thing is I got to be really good friends with this girl, she's kind and caring and beautiful too, and I just s... (150 words)

I have a really mean boyfriend!

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7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really mean boyfriend. He keeps blaming me for everything. He's so paranoid and keeps calling me names and it's getting harder and harder to endure. He's really sweet when he's nice but he's really terrible on his bad days. And I come home everyday so tired abou... (175 words)

I'm Bi and married but I can only seem to orgasm when thinking about women. Opinions please??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm Bi married and am very attracted to women i have been in a lesbian relationship prior to meeting my now husband but when we are being intamite i find myself always thinking about women and i fantasize about being intamite w/them while i am being sexually active w/ my ... (86 words)

Do you think i could get him back?

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7 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been friends with a man for almost 9 years now. When we met, each of us was married with two kids. Obviously we were married to other people. I left my husband in 2002 due to an alcohol addiction. Throughout this time, "Greg" was my biggest supporter. I had become fr... (434 words)

I have not got any time for her anymore.

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7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like I don't want to be friends with my "best friend" anymore. When she calls, I don't want to talk to her. She's been really skanky lately, drinking to the point of having to go into emergency, taking pills, neglecting her 2 y/o daughter, having unprotected sex with ... (437 words)

I can't orgasm... is giving birth in the past the cause?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently bought a g-spot vibrating dildo and spent alot of time with it and can't seem to find my g-spot. i know i had one years ago but i could only feel it by being on top and also the guy had a curve to his penis and i have never felt this with anyone else and have had 2 ... (89 words)

I'm wondering, how long should an orgasm last... and other things about female twiddling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 17 and i feel like a loser for asking this but im not sure how to masterbate? Ive always been a late developer and felt embarssed about sex but now im ok with it and ive been masterbating for a few years but ive never once "cum". What am i doing wrong i do orgasam but its ... (137 words)

Slept with the ex... but he still wants space. Will we ever get back together?

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7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, ive got a problem that i could do with some advice about. My ex broke up with me about a month ago. I was madly inlove with him so i was distraught when it happened. It was all very sudden and his reasons were that he was worried about me going university and ... (394 words)

I think I'm a sex addict, how can I be sure?

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7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - do u think i am sex addict? lol i feel mad stupid sayin dat. but i think about sex like everyday, i masturbate at least once a week, i watch porn, and if i havent had sex longer den a month, i start goin crazy n want so much, sometimes i even cry because i need it, lol, and i ... (151 words)

My 'friend' is chasing my ex, am I wrong to be angry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Am i wrong to feel betrayed by a freind who has made a move on my ex boyfreind? i was with him a long time before we broke up 2 months ago and a good freind of mine and his has started telling him she luvs him, misses him all the time, and keeps going to see him. shes a bit of ... (125 words)

My ex partner is seeking a property settlement... !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Was in a 10 year relationship with my NOW Ex-partner as I agreed to finish his house off...However he has got a solicitor and asking alot more than agreed,Im really needing advice what can he claim for knowing that he got a first homers grant in 2003 saying that he was ... (76 words)

He said he was going to the bathroom but headed straight for the spare bed... why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i met a guy on holidays 6 years ago we are both 20 and weve kept in touch since (with his mum mostly...men cant be bothered with pens and paper!) 2 weeks ago i went up to see him again...cutting the long story short the first 2 days were great we really got along he took me ... (269 words)

He doesn't make noises when we have sex anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend never moans. He used to long time ago like 8 months ago when we just started talkin, but he used to moan jus from me kissin on his neck, now when i kiss on his neck he doesnt moan, but he does enjoy it a lot. And when we have sex he never moans. I feel like he is ... (120 words)

He's been so darned Fussy since we got engaged!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I just got engaged, and now he nitpicks over everything, does he want me to break it off?... (18 words)

Unsure if the good outweighs the bad with my boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i feel bad for even doing this. I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 and a half years but we have had our ups and downs. hes 3 years older than me and starting a full time job, while im still in college. we've gotten in huge fights before, kinda broken up and gotten ... (174 words)

Feeling in a mess with my life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im in abit of a mess with my life, all my life i have been with men thinking they were kind caring men but they have never been they all have hurt me and beaten me. now im with a guy now and its complicated because at one point i used to have feelings for him and i dnt ha... (135 words)

Do you think he still loves and cares for me or do you think that he never did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6315 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think he really love me and care? right i am 16 years old. he is the same. i knew him for about 8 months and we wouldve been goin out for like 7 and a half. We been on and off. And he is the first guy i TRULY loved, and he really showed me how to be loved, he was th... (582 words)

This question goes out to anyone out there who has taken care of aging parents.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age - Hi Readers, This question goes out to anyone out there who has taken care of aging parents. I have taken care of my husbands parents in the past and now, mine are in a downward spiral. My Dad went into a nursing home because he is not able to be left alone for a minute a... (453 words)

He says I'm "the one"... How can I believe him when he might have said all this before to another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost six months now. As with every relationship, there comes a time when the exs become a necessary discussion. Its been almost over a year since his previous relationship. Heres what he told me at first: He dated a woman in college wh... (475 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend about my drunken cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

7 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I got extrememly drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I do not even remember having sex with the guy, but he says we did, and I woke up naked so believe him. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 18 months and I have never done anything like this before! Should I tell ... (63 words)