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I finally met my online guy--but he didn't tell me he loved me?

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Question - (5 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2007)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been dating this guy for two years now an dhe has been a nice guy so far..Actually we met on the internet...but we are from same country different states.We live far apart.He stays and studies in Europe...but we talk on the internet and on phone...

He came Home late last year and that was when i got to see him for the first time...To me he is cool and he is everything i want from any man

But when he came he never bought me anything from Europe though he gave some little money before he left and i appreciate himfor that though the money was a token.

The problem is he doesnt like telling me "I LOVE YOU".and that makes me feel bad..When i confronted him with this he told me that it doesnt mean..that he loves me so much..but he pesters me about Sex..due to my background an dmy religion..i cant have premarital sex.i told him all this but he still insist..later on he said he wanted to see only body which i showed him on his recent visit and we had all the sex preambles..kissing an dso on but no sex..he later asked me to think about it that i wont be fair on his side.

I told him i cant but what baffles me is when we are together i sense his love is so much for me..but when he goes back to Europe..it as if am being deserted and he has got so many rules which i dont like but i cope with just because i love him.

I love him so much and i wouldnt want to lose him..but am always doubting him if he is meant for me..I am not sure if he really love whenever he is in Europe but when he comes home we are unseperable...but he never says he loves me except once in a while...

What do you think..?please help me...

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A male reader, DJ8433 United States +, writes (6 August 2007):

DJ8433 agony auntIf he can't say he loves you, then he probably doesn't. Pretty simple. Now the question for you is do you want to waste time with a man that doesn't love you. I wouldn't. There's too many more men in the world, you will be able to find one that loves you.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (6 August 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntsounds like he just wants ur body

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