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writes:Hey,I am quite apprehensive about telling my boyfriend of 3 months that I am virgin. He's quite an awkward guy, which is cute :) lol. I don't want him to feel under pressure when we have sex for the first time because he's "taking my virginity". How can I approach this situation with it still being fun and not awkward?Thanks xx Reply to this Question
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 If you trust him enough and you know he respects you enough, this shouldn't be a problem. If you tell him and he goes all weird on ya, he ain't worth it! If you tell him and he says "it's ok! We'll take ot slow and I'll make sure you're ok" then he's a keeper!
I think that sitting him down and talkin to him about it is you're best option. I'm sure if he's the decent guy you think he is, he'll be fine with it.
Take care xxx
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reader, advice 247 +, writes (5 August 2007):
 well if you think your bf cant except you as a virgan why are you going with him. if he loved you he would understand and be over the moon as there ant a many virgans around now days!
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reader, kenny +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of, and you should not feel arkward telling him that your his first.
To be honest he will more than likely think its a good thing. Wait till the mood is right before you tell him, like when you are both relaxed and snuggled up on the sofa maybe.
Good luck x
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