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I'm scared I might get pregnant, are my chances high?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My last period was July 11, 2007. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on July 18, 22, 23, and on the 27. I'm scared I might get pregnant, are my chances high?... (33 words

I also fear for my life, he has came very close to seriously injuring me in the past.

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years, he is thirty and I am 20. I am still growing up and I would prefer to do it alone but I love him and he has helped me immensely. We have a lot of problems, there has been abuse, but we do love each other, h... (120 words

She tells me she got walked home by the guy she was attracted to and then spent 2-1/2 hours talking to him before coming home. Her therapist says this is ok????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

2 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - My wife and I went to a dance and she asked me if it was ok if she danced with someone she was attracted to. She then went and spent 30 minutes up at the bar talking to 2 guys. I left (mad) and she came home at 4 in the morning told me she was at a party. 4 days later sh... (118 words

How the hell can you lose weight and look slim and also lose the man boobs?

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2 August 2007 (M - dear cupid This is a question for the ladies, "what do you lot think of a guy that has man boobs that are bait?" and I have another question to any male that was fat and lost it all, how the hell can you lose weight and look slim and also lose the man boobs? please ca... (81 words

I used to try and use a tampon and it hurt and I couldn't use it. But after my boyfriend fingered me I could use one. Is that normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok well I used to try and use a tampon and it hurt and I couldn't use it. But after my boyfriend fingered me I could use one. Is that normal? Because I don't think that is normal should I get checked out by the doctor?... (46 words

She gave some details to some relationships, now when we make love I get that picture of her and some other guy...

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2 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend opened up and told me of the 9 sexual encounters she had over a period of 9 years, two of which was from a long term relationships, but the others were to fill in the void and get even to the steady guys she had. She had sometimes been sleeping with 3 different ... (185 words

I want to know if I were to ask her out and she says no will it ruin my friendship with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

2 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have a female friend that I have liked since I met her, I want to know if I were to ask her out and she says no will it ruin my friendship with her?... (35 words

I just am trying to decide whether or not to throw in the towel and just cut my losses.

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and have been living together for a year and a half now. I'm starting to wonder why we are still together though. When we first started dating everything was so fun and so new...now we argue constantly and never do anything ... (186 words

I'm 13 and I kind jackoff 5 times a week, and I've noticed that I never cum...

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2 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - masturbation and another question...... yea I'm 13 and I kind jackoff 5 times a week, and I've noticed that I never cum. I think I did once but it was like a centimeter long and very hard and dry. I have been drinking water sooooo wat should I do? also my g/f ... (108 words

On one hand I'm afraid of ending things because we are so compatible. On the other, I'm afraid to stay in it and end up feeling like I "settled" in some way.

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy that I met on-line for about 11 months. We've seen each other at least once a month for a week at a time. He is in love with me. I am not. Because he is so wonderful I keep trying, but I think the problem is either a lack of chemistry/romance or my ... (110 words

I just wanted to know what are the differences between cheating in a relationship, going on the rebound and having a affair is.

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2 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - I just wanted to know what are the differences between cheating in a relationship, going on the rebound and having a affair is. Why do these types of relationships have a low probabilty of working out?... (36 words

I have been independent for a few months now but am finding it hard to find someone.

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2 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi I have been independent for a few months now and am finding it hard to find someone. After spending nearly a 2 year relationship with my ex girlfriend I don't really want to get into a serious relationship all I want is for a bit of fun at the moment. I'm not ugly or nothing ... (121 words

Why do I bleed down there?

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - ever time i masterbate i bleed and i cant cum why is this ? and also when me and my fiance have sex he cums but i cant i never have even thow i tell him i do i cant i have been with him and one other and they both couldnt make me cum or at least help me oral and reg sex hasnt ... (146 words

What do I do when my husband won't talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age - What do I do when my husband wont talk to me? It's been 3 days and I havent heard from or seen him. He leaves for work early in the morning and comes home late at night.He is sleeping in the spare bedroom. HE got mad at me for questioning him about visiting his son. I just ... (76 words

What should I do when I like a man 10 years older than me?

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2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i found out the other day that this lad likes me but there are big problems one he is 28 and i am 18 and another one is my mam wont allow it but he seems to realy like me and i like him too i have done for sometime, i dont know what to do, they say age is only a number and ... (87 words

Ever since we got back together he's been acting horribly!

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2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - The problem is my boyfriend. Weve been seeing for 1 year n a half. He treat me like a princess for the 1st year. We split up for a few weeks and wen we got back 2geva i started being really nice to him. Now he is being horrible. He does not want me to go out with him, he is ... (122 words

Is there a good chance that I'm pregnant?

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - okay i had sex 4 weeks ago and well i forgot to take my pill and he didnt wear a condom and i didnt notice i didnt take my pill intill a few days later but i havent thought about it much even thow i did think my sis was prego because i get sick and it all when she gets pregnate ... (293 words

36, still a virgin and have no desire for sex! Am I strange?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

2 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - I am 36 years old and still a virgin! I have never had any desire to have sex with anybody! I have never seen a real life woman naked (and have no desire to do so, and I am definitely not Gay!!!) Please can you tell me why people have a deisre for sex? I feel it is totally ... (188 words

My boyfriend's sex drive is decreasing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

2 August 2007 (F - I need some advice about my boyfriends ever-decreasing sex drive. He only wants to do it at weekends, I want to do it everyday. We only end up doing it when he wants to and I find this degrading, like he's using me when he wants it. Surely it should be when we both want it? ... (107 words

What can my army boyfriend do to help me?

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - i am pregnant and my boyfriend is in the army what can he do to help, he cant be with me at the moment, i tell him he doesnt need to do anything but he wntas to, what can he do?... (41 words

How and where can my mom find someone new?

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2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am very close to my family and love my mum even though she drives me crazy sometimes. She has just come out of a divorce with my dad. I am coping ok but they are not getting along at all and are always bitching about eachother to me. I want my mum to find someone. Som... (125 words

Is my long-distance friend interested in more than just being my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have a male friend who lives over 900 miles away. We've been on vacation together with our children. We speak to each other almost every day. He is usually the one who calls me first. We talk about everything. For the last year he has been going through a divorce which is ... (117 words

My ex is acting weird, and I don't know what to make of it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I broke up with my x boyfriend about 2 months ago due to the fac that i was become unhappy with the relationship and began to get bothered with the "close' friendship him and his girlfriends were having. We stopped the communication for about 2 weeks. I began to get private ... (275 words

I skipped a day on the pill! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've been on the pill for 4 years, and have never missed one until this morning. I am using it as a contraceptive and have had sex a couple of times a day for a few weeks. Do I need to take the morning after pill from the family planning clinic? And if so does this mean I have ... (75 words

Lately I have been having a lot fantasies and dreams of having a holiday romance...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Lately I have been having a lot fantasies and dreams of having a holiday romance, I have got my hopes up so much, but I know it won't happen. Why is this? Please tell me. I really want it. thnks X... (41 words

My boyfriend stays an hour away and I miss him so much that I want to start crying.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

2 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - My boyfriend stays an hour away and I miss him so much that I want to start crying. He is away for work and can see him in two days. He phoned me tonight and I almost started crying, but did not cause he will maybe think I'm just being stupid. What can I do? Thanks to all ... (66 words

He says I'm getting too clingy. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi My problem is my boyfriend! I have been seeing him a year and a half now. The first year was great, he treat me like a princess and really showed how much he loves me. We've been through a lot and over the last 2 months he has been not so nice. He always sounds unhappy,... (131 words

I feel like I'm stuck in a rut!!

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I feel like I'm stuck in a rut!! I just feel really unhappy!! These feelings come in waves though-one minute I will be fine and I will get up in the morning for work feeling okay, then 5 minutes later I feel really down and will think of any excuse not to go to work! I will... (223 words

How can I get a girl? I need a girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

2 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, my name is Daniel, I am 16 and live with my parents in Aberdeen, Scotland. I have no success with girls and it's just not happening for me. I have never had a girl friend, always rejection. I need a girl to love because I feel its my duty get one. I don't mean to sound ... (84 words

I married a married man!!!

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I married a married man. I know, I just dived right into it but I'm just distraught, I knew he was married but I couldnt help how I felt. We have so much in common and so much passion, we click in so many ways its unbelievable but the fact remains that he is married and has ... (282 words

3 days ago he sent me a text message saying that his son wants to move in with us when we buy our house, I told him that was ok, but he won't let me meet his son yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi I have been with my partner for over 2 years, he told me 3 months ago he has a 13 year old son, He works away, and I only get to see him once a week, and he is always with his work mate, 3 days ago he sent me a text message saying that his son wants to move in wit... (119 words

How do you end a relationship with a person who has made you her everything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

2 August 2007 (M - How do you end a relationship with a person who has made you her everything? I have fallen out of love with this woman, though we shared a number of years together and right now I fear she will commit suicide once she realizes what's happening. She has no friends, no family, ... (104 words

Well thanks for the advice I got it was great, I would just like a bit more help with the situation.

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2 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi I wrote up the other day here was my question, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-talk-to-my-daughter-to.html I suggest you read this other wise this question may not make much sense it's not very long so won't take much time. Well thanks for the advice I ... (279 words

My boyfriend and I broke up because we keep fighting but I want him back.

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, he loves me so much , I love him more, but we keep fighting, because he keeps picking on me a lot and he drives me crazy, I want him back, how?... (39 words

My friend is ruining her life and I don't know what to do about it. Should I ignore her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - This is a long one, but I'd really appreciate your help!! My friend of 13 years is spiralling out of control. We'll call her Amy. She's 24 and has an almost 3 year old daughter. She's a single mom, the dad is no where to be found. She wasn't like this a year ago but the past ... (617 words

Can he love me that much and still be that relentlessly cruel?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for five months. I hid my past relationships from him, because I didn't want him to think less of me. Last night, we fought on the phone for four hours. I finally told him the truth (I've kissed five boys, made out with 4, and "hands" w... (302 words

She made fun of my cousin and I felt it was bang out of order.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

2 August 2007 (M - A few days ago whilst out with friends [one of which is my cousin]. My girlfriend embarrassed me by making fun about my youngest cousin. As we were discussing family she brought up my youngest cousin and started dissing him by calling him a 't**t' and other names and how much ... (151 words

He's got a roving eye, he watches porn and he often doesn't get hard with me... !

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. In this time, he has consistantly had a roving eye. He denies this. I have been physically moved out of the way, for him to get a better view of another female. I can see him getting twitchy when he sees someone he fancies. On one ... (151 words

He blames me all the time for not being able to move on because the relationship isn't secure cause we keep fighting.

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been with a guy for almost 7 years (on and off). The other day he dropped me at his house while he went to the gym, then to his mom's for something to eat. Obviously I waited, just watching TV. When he came back (he had been about 2 and a half hours) he got a shower e... (429 words

What's wrong? Why am I irritated? Do I really love him? Or do I need space.

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2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have this boyfriend, that I've been going out with for almost a year. I love him so much, I really do. He's everything to me, but sometimes he gets on my nerves and I have no reason. I think sometimes he's maybe too clingy, he texts or calls me right when he wakes up. He ... (119 words

My boyfriend is a cross dresser and he's decided he may want to become a woman!

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm a lady with 3 kids, one is disabled. My partner lives in Guernsey and I'm from Bath and he's a cross dresser and I knew that we have been together for nearly 2 years and recently he's decided he may want to become a woman fully but he's not sure but he's confused. I feel ... (118 words

I know I should walk away from the old disasterous relationship but what if I get disappointed again.

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi I have major trust issues in my relationships due to a previous disappointing relationship. My ex and I are still friends and I really don't know why I want to keep the friendship since he was very horrid towards me. I have met someone wonderful (I think) but am so scare... (112 words

As a Soldier, how can I help my pregnant girlfriend when I'm not there?

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - my girlfriend is pregnant, i am in the army so i cant be with her all the time, how can i help her through the pregnancy when i am not there... (31 words

I'm having major problems with my ex at the moment, so much so that it has led to a breakdown in trust.

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2 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I'm having major problems with my ex at the moment, so much so that it has led to a breakdown in trust. We have a child and he has already proven to me that he will use him against me and now I am really worried that he may not bring him back after his access. He has Parenta... (234 words

So do I give up on our relationship or give in to his request (ultimatum)?

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. He has had about 6 sexual partners before me. He is my first love and I've been brought up to believe that sex before marriage is wrong. He always said he was okay with it but now nearly 2 years on he says its either have sex ... (113 words

He says it's him but could it be me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - i have started dating a guy, we have been sexual active for 4 months, he can only ejaculate via masterbation and sometimes looses his erection during intercourse. is the problem me, he says not.... (34 words

They're made for each other, but he may be in denial about his sexual orientation. Do they still go for it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6345 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi Guys Any views on any section will be greatly appreciated as there is so little help out there for being on the receiving end of a bi friends love when you are not them: * A's best friend is a guy and basically A and B are made for eachother * B is bi - he has ... (455 words

We always have to do what they want! What can we do?

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2 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - I am in a group of 4 friends. There is 1 particular person who always gets her own way, along with her "coff coff" best friend. We always do what they want and I am fed up with it. I feel as if I am the bottom of the group, like a reserved friend or something. It's almost like ... (106 words

Do girls enjoy giving oral sex?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

2 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Do girls actually like giving oral sex to guys or what? So many girls seem to have a real issue with it, like feeling subservient or degraded or something. But they don’t have any problem getting it!? What is all this double standards? I hate asking for “sex things” it ... (176 words

Older Girls! What do girls think of lumpy cum?

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2 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Older girls please! What do girls think about lumpy cum? I think it’s gross and it’s my own “stuff!” There’s always little lumps in my cum and I get so embarrassed about it. Apparently it’s perfectly normal from what I’ve read so I guess there’s nothing I can or even sh... (108 words

Do girls actually “like” giving oral sex to guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6311 days ago

2 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Do girls actually “like” giving oral sex to guys or what? So many girls seem to have a real issue with it, like feeling subservient or degraded or something. But they don’t have any problem getting it!? What is all this double standards? I hate asking for “sex things” it ... (178 words

Can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?

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2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - can you still snog a boy if you have braces on?... (11 words

My best mate has cheated on her bf so many times, I feel like I should tell him. Should I?

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2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My best friend of 15 years has been going out with this guy for 2 years almost. In that time she's cheated on him God knows how many times, last time I got her to tell him because I thought it wasn't fair on him and she did, but got mad at me telling me not to get involved. ... (113 words

Has anyone ever heard of a child getting kawasaki disease /mucocuteous lymph node syndrome twice?

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - has anyone ever heard of a child getting kawasaki disease /mucocuteous lymph node syndrome twice ... (15 words

I feel like i'm more of a taker than a giver!!

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2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I feel insecure and it makes me somewhat shy in my relationship. I can never initiate anything, it's always him that has to ask if we want to go out or him initiating a kiss. I don't want to be like this because i feel somewhat selfish, you know, being a bit a of a taker more ... (118 words

I can't keep my bfs - I seem to like them too much and scare them away.

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - i am really not good at keeping guys who like me. I always seem to like them way to much and scare them off i think. I try to play it cool but then end up texting them all the time, cos i really like them. there is a guy that likes me and i have been seeing him when i have been ... (130 words

My boyfriend doesn't come during sex any more

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2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months. The sex always seemed great to me..and at first he would cum. Now he never does. It's been almost 3 weeks since he came...I feel like I am doing something wrong. Please help?... (44 words

I don't love him like I used to; how can I dump him without hurting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i'm a sixteen year old girl and in a relationship that isn't exactly fair. i've been going out with this guy for seven months and for the first few months we argueed every week and quit talking. now he's constantly saying that there's no secrets in the relationship and ... (103 words

My ex is giving me majorly mixed signals, please help me figure him out!

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Mixed Signals!! DECODE!!! My ex boyfriend whom i still talk with everyday (its a long distance thing) says things that confuse me. Can you tell me what you think this all means: " You're hot. youre better looking than that girl. why would i care about her." " Dont call me so... (165 words

Can girls cover up their real feelings for whatever reason?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

2 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - If a girl likes you, can she cover up her true feelings for some reason, ie being scared of commitment maybe, or fear of the future?... (26 words

I'm obsessing over my ex even though nothing can happen because he's so far away, how can I stop?

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - How do i stop obsessing over my ex boyfriend? He told me he might be moving back to my city and ever since then i have been phoning him and chatting with him online everyday. he says he still likes me but there is nothing we can do unless he moves back to my city. Which is ... (79 words

My girlfriend is going on holiday with her ex; am I right to be unhappy about it?

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2 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, my fiance wants to go on holiday with her ex and I just aren't happy with the idea - surely it's not a normal thing to do? Thanks, Confused... (34 words

We want to do more than just make out but we're only 13; what can we do?

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2 August 2007 (? age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i really like each other and want to do more than kissing and pashing but we ae only 13. what can we do?... (26 words

I don't want to be with him because we always sweat the small stuff

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi friends... i have been in relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now and i love him so much and i know he loves me too but i want to let him go because we always fights on small reason, our taste are completely different,we always have different opinion. i am rea... (97 words

There are 2 sides to my girlfriend and I don't like one of them

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2 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Dear readers, I have currently split up with my fionce and we are just mates now. We work in the same work place as each other and mainly joke around and laugh around with each other. She wants to get back with me but i think she has a split personality, one minute shes nice ... (145 words

I keep having sexual thoughts about my ex boyfriend, what should I do about it?

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hey i am 22,please help me with this.... recently i broke up with my bf,but i am kind of suffering from sexual thoughts that keeps popping and i get wet.Though we just shared some kind of physical intimacy and never had sex. I just cannot get myself out of these thoughts for ... (77 words

I want us to continue just being 'friends with benefits' but I told him I'd like to see him a bit more, now I'm worried I scared him off

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been having casual sex with this guy for a couple of months now. This guy is involved with someone(he has a kid too). We both know where we stand in this situation. We're like friends with benefit relationship here. I definitely enjoy having sex with him but sometimes I ... (250 words

I fell for her but found out she's older than me and I'm not sure if we're related!

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2 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - okay i got a few problems on my mind...1st is about this girl...see i first saw her at my uncles house, my uncle was getting married and we were having a miniparty. she was there bcoz she was the brides sister...at that point i didnt feel anything for her...then in april was ... (285 words

What positions are good for anal sex?

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2 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - what positions are good for anal sex... (7 words

Will I ever get over the pain of his betrayal?

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2 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi aunts, I have posted a question on here previosly regardiung my husband sleeping with prostitutes. I appreciated all your answers. My question now is its been about 6 weeks since I found out and I still cry everyday. I am having trouble finding someone for councelling. ... (105 words

Is it true that Asian people stay at home until they find someone to marry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - my asian friend still lives at home with her parents is that a good thing? i am just wondering because she says that asian women or certain girls in general still live at home with there parents until they find some one to marry . is that really true or she doesn't want anybody ... (57 words

I signed up for a dating site and flirted with women, pretending to be one myself; was I cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

2 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - So i screwed up big with my girlfriend. Everything has been great with us and i've never been happy. This girl is amazing on so many levels and couldnt ever think of a better woman. But a couple months ago I was bored on the computer and ended up signing up for fling.com. I ... (162 words

A boy that I like wont play with me or anything

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I know I am fat, but why cant I get a boyfriend?

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - fat girl needing a man to date but why none have asked me ? i am a 24 year old fat woman who has had two problems most of her life not having guys ask me out and my weight by trying to loose it even though i gain more . it is bugging me . i tried exercise and eating right but ... (180 words

I am 14, how do I know if I am in love?

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2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 14 and i've had my boyfriend for a while now... but idk if its love... or if its true love. He broke up with me before and later he came back to me saying he had no reason for breaking up... well the question is... how do i know if its love?... (53 words

I have had sex 10 times, but have not had an orgasm

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2 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 1/8 and have an great relationship except sex. We have had sex over 10 times and neither have i had an orgrasm but he has them...the last time we had sex my boyfriend just kept trying to make me have an orgasm but i never came and he ... (71 words

We broke up, but I still really think we have a chance!

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My partner of 2 1/2 years left me unexpectedly... So i'm just writing this as i have been reading through other peoples questions and i can see i relate to alot of them right now, Me and my ex partner were like ying and yang or two peas in a pod, we were totally perfect ... (562 words

We are under so much stress! How can we keep from falling apart?

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I am engaged but fancy the married older woman I met on holiday

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Can you get pregnant from toilet paper with sperm on it?

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Can you get pregnant from sperm on toilet paper?

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Is it ok to masterbate at 11?

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2 August 2007 (M age 26-29 - im 11 and i dont think should masterbate beacuse my parents will freak out.and they dont know anything about masterbation at a early age.so what do i do!... (28 words

Is everybody online dating? I cant find anyone in the real world!

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I still love my ex!

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2 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am in love my exboyfriend that i dated 9 years ago. I am currently involved with my fiance' who i have a 4 year old boy with. My ex is married and just had a baby. We kept in contact with one another through the past 9 years. We occasionally see one another by communic... (169 words

After a year and a half he still wont introduce me to his daughter and wants our relationship to be secret

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2 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am separated and I met a man who is also separated. We have been seeing each other for a year and a half. When I first met him he explained that his ex can cause problems and so he wanted to keep things quiet about us. He further indicated he didn't want to introduce his ... (165 words

My husband didnt cum, even after hours

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My husband doesnt trust anyone, even me!

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How can I sexually please my girlfriend?

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Whats anal sex like for a woman?

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I have liked this guy forever, but he is dating my friend

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I sent my ex a short email. Do you think I ruined my chances of getting back together?

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2 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - After a month and a half of initiating no contact with my ex-girlfriend, I dropped her a short email today welcoming her back from a trip and asking her how things went. She had contacted me a few times via instant messenger since the breakup, but, as I said, I managed ... (105 words

He is so wonderful, so why does kissing him make me sick?

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2 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've finally met someone I can imagine spending the rest of my life with, we suit each other perfectly, our friends and families approve, he loves me, and I can feel myself coming to love him, but the problem is- I'm not attracted to him in the least sexually. However, I'm not ... (118 words

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