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writes:My life story is very strange, I need a help..i was madly in love with my girlfriend, its been two months now i broke up with her the reason was she cheated on me by having an affair with some other guy..more than 10 people told me that she was doing it for over last 8 months, but i never belived anyone they say love is blind untill i caught her with my own hands..The funny thing is she's still dening the fact that she cheated on me where as i proved her everything..I was so much in love with her that we were about to get engaged, planing to have kids with her..but what she did to me she will get it back...what goes around come back aornd.Now i feel so alone, and depressed all the time, hate girls, she calls me sometimes and say lets start again all fresh..but i dont to start all fresh as i know her she will do it again...my friend says "just play her the same way she played you but i cant do it, i am soo hurt..i have lost so much wait and smoking cigrates like hell''How shall i move on with my life ...what shall i do..
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Man, you know this girl doesn't love you or respect you. You have better things to do with yourself than being with her. Just make the firm decision to stay away from her no matter what, and your life will improve after some time.
Think of this as the light at the end of the tunnel: with every little step, you are getting to where you need to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): hey, i've been in a bit of a similar situation myself, my boyfriend cheated on me last week actually. So, first of all, don't hate women, what one person does doesn't account for a whole sex. Anyway, i think it's definitely best that you move on if she was cheating on you for such a long duration of time and still doesn't even fess up to it. I can't imagine how you'd rebuild trust in your relationship with her which is definitely a core part of a having a good relationship. Anyway, as for moving on, i know it's hard and you're going to feel like shit as you currently do but these things just take time. I don't think it's a good idea to play her as she played you, you're better than that and whilst it may seem like a good idea to put her through what she has to you, ultimately it won't make you feel any better. Revenge may seem like a nice concept but it rarely works out for people.You're young and there are plenty of decent girls out there, just hang in there. Go spend time with some mates, try and keep active so you can get your mind off things and make moving on easier. Just remember that these things take time and it's natural to feel like you are after getting out of a relationship, especially one which you had had so much hope for. Sorry, that's the best advice i can give you but i hope it helps a little :)
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