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writes:What is the differnce between being in love, and loving someone? Reply to this Question
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reader, old-Mac-donald  +, writes (5 August 2007):
Well when you have mastered the art of allowing.
Allowing others to be who they are.
Allowing yourself to be yourself
Love and Trust are one in the same .
If you have Trust and Care for them and you have grown in love and find yourself dreaming and thinking bout them always your in love, if you find yourself having jealousy thoughts with other people around your partner or interested in your partner which there always will be, and you can trust them not to cross that line you love them.
If you love them and find yourself thinking they will be with others you must work on yourself and trust and allow yourself to be in touch with who you are to Trust and love otherwise its impossible!
As for your question you cant make a good dission without knowing who you are and what you want in life and in a life time partner so its usually a learning step untill you learn it.
What is the difference between being in love and loving someone.
Being in love with some one is were no matter what they think or anyone else things you are totally happy with who u are and pure with your trust and love for yourself and you feel that this person is totally the person who is your soulmate and missing part inside you that makes you a better person,
Youy know they dont fill the space in your heart but build ontop of it.
If you feel like life is not worth living you have to realise your insecurites and lowselfestem and do some personal development to allow yourself to love.
Loving some one means you care for them and may have fallin out of love or not been able to be in love with them because the person and you where at differenet timings in your life or where not right with the innerselfs of eachother and what each other wanted in a life time partner.
what you think is love is not elevate and find , that loving someone for there faults and the little things that are not perfect are the things you cant live without , and how you care for them when they dont care for themselfs
or pick them up when there down , making them a better person with you.
and when there away from u knowing there thinking of u and having no doubt they will not be into anyone else and if they are its something u need to let go to find the right person who thinks like u
A
female
reader, L.O.V.E. +, writes (5 August 2007):
the difference between being in love and loving one.
loving one is like caring for your best friend.
being in love is the one you think about all the time,
the one you can't stop talking about.
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