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*arahbeth101
writes:Hey, there is this guy i really like, and sometimes i think he likes me back. Eg. he always tickels me in science class and i like feel like he is staring at me. But i asked one of his friends who he likes and they said someother girl!!Can you please give me some advice on how to get him to like me. Please don't tell me to like confront him cause if he dosen't like me it will ruin our friendship. I would really apreciate you help. thank U so muchSarah Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): Because if it's just a split second and you look away, that isn't sending the message loud enough. If you look for 3 whole secs. before looking away, it says something totally different than a quick glance. It says I like you. And he may like you and the other girl. Boys like variety.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 i agree with the eye contact thing.. honeslty it is the best subtle way of sayin i like u..
hope i helped =) x x x
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reader, kenny +, writes (5 August 2007):
 The reason you make eye contact is a flirtatious way of letting someone know in a subtle way that you have feelings for them.
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reader, sarahbeth101 +, writes (5 August 2007):
sarahbeth101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey those are all great answers. but i just have one more question, why do i have to make eye contact for a few secounds??
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reader, Lost in Translation  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Yeah I agree with Kenny, the whole holding eye contact for longer then a couple of seconds is a good way to tell if he thinks of you as more then a friend. Another couple of indications is when you walk together if he intentionally brushes his hand against your hand or sitting together if he sits that bit closer to you then a friend normally would are good signs of what he is thinking. With his friends tellling you he likes someone else, maybe he hasn't told them he likes you, could be that he likes you so much as a friend that he doesn't want to sabotage what you guys have already for what could turn out to be a bad idea! Why don't you test the waters and start talking about someone else you think is hot and ask him do you think you should let this other guy know? if he goes over the top in telling you NO WAY this guys a loser or whatever!! thats a good indication of how he feels about you.. But for the time being I'd wait and see what happens*
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reader, love-him +, writes (5 August 2007):
hey bbe, well to be honest i agree with kenny. I think you should continue being his friend and see what the future holds, because the only way you are gonna know now is by askin him, n that could end your friendship. I think you should stay close friends with him, and see if anything happens with this other girl.
I hope i helped & good luck,
Mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, kenny +, writes (5 August 2007):
The best thing to do is carry on being friends with him. Carry on like you have been, when he flirts with you in science flirt with him back, and make it fun. When he stares at you hold eye contact with for 6 or 7 seconds then smile and look away.
Just don't get to heavy and risk frightening him off. HAve fun and enjoy it and something good could materialise.
Just remember good things come to those who wait, so hang in there.
Good luck x
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