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Archived questions from: 21 August, 2007 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is the average age to lose your virginity?

This question has 275 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

- what is the average age to lose your virginity? it's just that i'm a 20 year old male and i haven't had sex ever. yet when someone asked when i lost my virginity and i said i hadn't they called me a weirdo. am i quite old not to have had sex?... (52 words)

Don't enjoy sex with my husband so should I meet this online guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married 8 months ago even though i knew i didn't really want to as i no i'm not totally in love with him. He's such a good man who is descent and loyal and adores me. I love his family and love being part of it, but since i got married i knew it was the wrong thing to do. ... (110 words)

My niece is dating my ex bf! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age - I have just split with my boyfriend of 2 yrs and I still love him but we just cant agree on so many topics. I chose to end the relationship. I have just heard that my niece who is also a close friend has now started to see him, this has caused all sorts of problems in my f... (114 words)

How do I convince her that we can still be friends even if we do split up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I currently really, really like this girl and she says she likes me but she isn't sure if we should go out because we are such close friends and if we split up we might not be friends anymore. How do I convince her that I will still be friends with her even if we go out ... (61 words)

Webcam Sex! My bf wants this and I'm not sure..any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Me and my boyfriend currently live a little way away from each other and at the moment our sex life is just cyber sex. He wants me to have webcam sex with him but i havent had much sexual experience and so am nervous about doing this. How do i tell him i dont want to with ... (80 words)

He came onto me one night! And now denies wanting a relationship..what's up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a male friend that used to go out with my ex-flat mate, i got to know him realy well through her and we were really close. i'd not seen him for over a year, we met up, went for a drink in his local, then he invited me in and we watched some tv. About half an hour later ... (308 words)

How can I tell if my man has cheated on me?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do i know or how can i tell if my man has cheated on me.. now i feel it in my heart very much! can u give me answers! ... (30 words)

How do I get over first time nerves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been together for a couple of weeks and today, she undid my trousers but i wasn't ready. i've never had a sexual experince and i panicked. i got scared she'd judge my penis when it was small. i know it's a superficial thought but i stopped. we love ... (73 words)

He's asked to marry me and although I love him I can't see us getting married until he stops being so hot headed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm with my boyfriend 4 years, and 2 of these we have spent living together. We love each other very much and do consider us to have a future together. The other night my boyfriend drunkenly told me he planned on popping the question soon, and although I was happy to hear this ... (269 words)

if he does not put his penis inside your vagina but still busts because we are just fooling around can you still become pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 16 year old who is not to sure about having sex and have questions about it - if he does not put his penis inside your vagina but still busts because we are just fooling around can you still become pregnant? ... (45 words)

Should I wait and let time tell me he loves me or should I just let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear cupid, I have a serious problem, Okay I met him almost two years ago, the first time I saw him I liked how he was, I didn't know him that well so I didn't think about him as something in my future, well then we had the chance to get to know each other and well w... (269 words)

Please help I need to decide whether to end it (but I don't know if I'm strong enough to do so).

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm the kinda girl who is always nice and wouldn't hurt anyone intentionally. My boyfriend can be very nice but when he wants to be he can be very hurtful say nasty things, hang up the phone on me, put me down by saying I can't do stuff etc. Sometime I see him as a bully. ... (158 words)

Not so much a question I suppose - more of a cry from the heart - even doing the right thing can hurt like hell.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Does knowing the answer help the heartache? In short, I'm married, she's married, both have kids and work together. Recently we told each other how we felt - head over heels in love - and have been meeting after work or at lunchtime - purely to talk - there's been nothing more ... (149 words)

My friend asked me on to visit on holiday and now is being wishy washy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

- Hi there. I really need some advice as I don't know how to go about this. Last Saturday, a very good friend of mine (we used to go out) invited me to come with her family and friends to their house in Cornwall. I thought great, I need a holiday and so took her up on it. Ho... (658 words)

My new guy is not quite divorced yet. Is it ok to date him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I need advice. I am currently seeing a really great guy who although he says he is seperated from his wife and at the point of divorce is still living in the house with her. He says they have separate rooms and he is always with me. I don't know whether i'm doin the ... (63 words)

My boyfriends sister wants to move in with us. He said ok, but I dont want her here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 2 months pregnant, and have a 4 month old at home. My boyfriend works, I am a stay at home mom. Last night, my b.f. got a call from his sister who lives 2 hours up north with her b.f. Something happened, she didn't say what but she was packing her things to move back out ... (437 words)

I want to dump my friend and she is not taking the hint

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have this friend that I have known for a yearish. And I see her quite a bit but I don't want to keep seeing her because I have other friends that I prefer to hang around with. She keeps calling me up and asking me if I want to hang out, and I just keep saying I'm busy. ... (106 words)

His ex is claiming he cheated on me with her, he says no. I dont know what to believe!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. A month before we started dating he had broken up with a girl he dated for 8 months. He had constantly told me what a horrible relationship they had and how she was mean to his daughter. At the beginning of our relationship ... (783 words)

Is it wrong to masterbate to help me get over him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im sixteen and am really confused. I always want to txt this guy friend of mine and i always want to fool around with him, but theres been some problems in the past and he wasnt very nice, and i know he'll probably hurt me again. So ive been trying to not talk to him or ... (148 words)

He is trying to work things out with his ex. Should I wait around?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - HELP. I work with a man who is in a relationship with his exwife. He tells me that he would love to date me, but needs to see if things will work out with his ex. He calls or texts me almost every day. He is in therapy right now to help with his relationship with his ex ... (98 words)

I want to leave my husband, but dont have a clue how to get started

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

- hi there.. i am in deep trouble again...i want to leave my husband but i do not know where to start or where to get help. i also have a child to consider as i am not willing to leave her with my husband. i want to start a new life possible far away from my husband and family. ... (76 words)

How can I trust my fiancee when she said she loved someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my fiancee admitted that she loved another guy, but now feels that it was a mistake. can i trust her and in forward with her?... (25 words)

My wife is bi and wants to explore women. I am ok with that, but have some fears.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hell All, I am a 28yr old Male from Michigan, I shall call myself "Travis". I recently have gotton married to "Anne" she is 26. Before we married she stated that she is BI-Curious and would like to explore her curiosity. Well after being married for a short time she brought... (285 words)

Should we break up before Uni? He wants to get serious and eventually married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years, we're both off to uni this october.. the problem is he wants to stay together, get serious and evetually get married. I want to have a break and have informed him of this.. I am only 18 and have so much left to do, I want to ... (120 words)

Are they really addicted or just being guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - When guys say that they are addicted to porn, is that REALLY that bad or are they just normal people being guys?... (22 words)

I cant get a date and have become addicted to porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

- Hey I have a problem. I'm 19 and a couple of times I have tried to ask girls out but they all say no when i ask if they want to go on a date with me. I always asked them questions, and was polite etc. but it hasn't worked for me and it has led me into a downward spiral of ... (139 words)

She finally left him and I want to know how to start dating without being insensitive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - The girl I've been interested in for the past four months told me yesterday that she's finally split up with the father of her kid. She had tried again with him after going out with me for a few weeks. It was so hard at first but I accepted her reasons for what she did. We've ... (208 words)

She broke up with me cause I WASNT jealous. I cant win!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Two weeks ago today my girlfriend broke up with me after 19months together. We wernt just boyfriend and girlfriend though. She was my best friend. There was nothing wrong with her, her problems with me were that i didnt get jealous (except for one person) and because i didnt ... (180 words)

He hasnt contacted me at all. Do you think he dumped me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i really need your help!my marrige broke up last year and since then iv met this lovly man iv been with him 5 months now and hes had to go away to work and comes back every weekend . now the first time he went he came stright back to me and we had the best time ever im ... (185 words)

She isnt sure if she wants me or her ex. How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently a girl that I have been friends with for three years told me she felt the same way as I had told her I felt for her. We had been dating for a few weeks when an ex (who more or less pushed her to me) who had been gone all summer called out of the blue and said "he'd ... (115 words)

I am getting ingrown hairs and shave bumps

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I recently gota gf and decided to start shaving my pubs (from what i gather girls my age prefer shaved). so anyways, i have a problem and i'm wondering if its normal... getting ingrown hairs. sounds nasty i know, but i'm wondering if this comes with the territory of ... (87 words)

Help me! I want to have sex with my own sister

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello i need advise i am 16 years old and i want to have sex with my sister she is realy attractive i dont know wat to do plz help... (30 words)

How can I get aquainted with a girl at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age - I am a 40 year old male and work with a 30 year old Asian female. She began being friendly but I was not sure how to respond because other co-workers were getting nosey. How can I reacquaint my self with this female? Row... (48 words)

His insecurities and controlling drove me away, but I really love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were together for 8 months... we were always together. Not only was he my best friend but the love of my life. The more time we spent, I noticed that he was insecure... I could see he needed someone to tell him often that they loved him etc. So I did. I spent ... (495 words)

Does a guy have to have feelings for a girl to sleep with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This is complicated, firstly i kissed a guy while with my long term partner of several years. My partner knew this guy and i felt guilty so told my partner i had done wrong but didnt say who with and decided it was best to finish the relationship. The guy i kissed had met a ... (250 words)

My boyfriend has all these online gay/bi friends and it bothers me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i just found out my boyfriend has some gay/bisexual "friends" back home in a popular website. I didnt even know he had a page until i saw him in my friend's list!! he didn't add me at first i would send requests and never accpet me! and gave me the excuse that he created ... (263 words)

I broke up with my guy after seeing the texts he was sending to a girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, I love him to death but there is just this huge problem I don't trust him and he’s told me that he doesn’t trust me either….. well yesterday we were spending time together and I was messing around with his phone an... (232 words)

My boyfriend cheated, but now he is back and I am confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all, I met the love of my life when i was 19. He was everything i had every dreamt about and much more. We were 2gether 3yrs when he went out 1 nite got drunk and slept with some1 else. He came straight home and told me wot he had done askin 4 4givness but i coundn't... (322 words)

I have been giving golden showers to a married guy, but now I want to stop

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 19 years old and have been seeing a married guy from work but not for sex really. He has been giving me lifts from work since I started about 7 months ago and we started calling for a drink on the way home. On a couple of occassions we talked about sex and fantasie... (154 words)

Need tips on moving on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

- Thank you to anyone who helps here. My boyfriend and I broke up because he lost interest, I think. but to spare my feelings he suggested that we remain friends. I was gutted and still pretty hurt. There has been no contact for a couple of months but I called him on his cell ... (149 words)

I cheat on my fiancee all the time, but its his fault cause he got me into computers

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am engaged to a wonderful man who i love,but i am addicted to cheating.It seems so easy,they are all available on the internet. He has almost caught me twice,but luckily i turned it around on him and now he has to prove to me that he`s not a cheat. He could be,i have to take ... (97 words)

My fiancee is using one on one sex lines. Is this considered cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi this is my second posting.Have now just found out that since october maybe before my partner has been using one on one sex lines and there are codes like 69955 and 69691 on them.I haven confronted him yet as he is at work.Please can someone tell me what i should do as i am ... (97 words)

Since I broke up with my girlfriend I havent had any sex and I feel I am missing out and the best time of my life is being ruined

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I came out of what I thought was a very serious relationship before summer. We were together for 2 1/2 years and had all these great plans. Breaking up ruined that. It's been nearly 3 months since we split now, and I still really miss. The entire summer is nearly over, and I ... (121 words)

My ex girlfriend seems jealous that I am going to meet someone new

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I've had a lack of help from people on this site with my questions recently, so I've decided to keep it as simple as possible: Last night, I told my ex long distance girlfriend of 2 years that I was meeting a girl on Thursday, as a friend. My ex broke things off 2 mon... (307 words)

When you get older and your hair turns grey, does the same happen to your pubic hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - This is just something i wondered out of curiousity, when you get older your hair turns grey, does the same happen to your pubic hair?... (25 words)

We had 3 accidental pregnancys and he didnt want any more kids. Now I am accidentally pregnant with #4.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I need advice..i have no one to talk to and i dont know what to do.I have 3 kids.Love them beyond anything.I was with my partner 6 mths when i got pregnant..it wasnt planned and i was taking the pill.But it seemed to all work out fine..number two came soon after..not a huge ... (428 words)

My Mom wont let me cut my hair!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am the girl whos mom wont let her cut her hair in a long bob i still havent spoke to her yet about my hair and she is perposely saying how many inches are you having off your hair and she said if i cut my hair short she will kill me (not litraly of course)and than she ... (99 words)

Ok, I am not 10-12, I am 26 years old. But I still need help with my partner cumming too fast!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok yesterday i wrote this 2 get advice i put anonymous but now ima put it so yall can see.. ne ways i am not 10-12 i am a 26 year old young lady.. tell me how i can edit my page.. thanx! And still do send me ur advice! Well..... this question is a bit upsetting to m... (176 words)

My 30 year old boyfriend can sometimes be immature... any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is 30 and I am 35. We have been together about 18 months. I am concerned because he is a very different person around his friends than he is with me. I know that we are all slightly different but he seems to use different language and becomes immature - boasting ... (291 words)

I'm 17 and want a baby!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. My name is Robyn and I'm 17. I've been going through a lot lately and I don't know what to do. All last year I was very ill and I thought at one point I was pregnant. When I found out I wasn't, I was devastated. I want a baby so much. My problem is that ... (203 words)

I am going out on my first date with a great girl. Any hints?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6332 days ago

21 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i just met this amazing girl she's smart sexy and we have everything in common and im really surprised that she wants to be my girlfriend so its obvious that she isn't superficial and we are going to go on a date but i don't know what to do on a date im only 15 and she is ... (85 words)