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41-50,
*il_mizz_cute07
writes:I feel like im never going to find my mr right, ive not as much had a kiss in months off any bloke let alone anything else. i really like this guy from my gym but am unsure as to whats going on, all started well with friendly teasing, then he went quiet on me, but i often find him looking at me which makes me think he's shy, but he wasnt like that before so y now? Ive got a lot going on at home at the moment, so im feeling rele low, works crap as ever, i just dont know what to do anymore, im lonely, sad and just want someone special to be there for me, to say its going to be ok, to hug me when i need comforting but feel like its never going to happen. Sometimes I can only see one way out of it, and thats going away from everything for a while, but as saying goes, u can run but ur problems are still there with you. someone help me plz.
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 I can't speak for others and I'm sure this is not the norm, but I can say that every single relationship I've been in started at a point in my life where I actively WASN'T looking for a guy. So what if Mr. Right hasn't turned out to be Mr. Right Now? You are young and have quite a while to find him. Stop worrying about boys for a bit and focus on your interests. Spend time with friends if you are feeling lonely.
That said...As far as the guy at the gym goes it's quite possible that he is interested but is too shy to go any further. This is the 21st century, so if you want to know one way or the other you as the woman can always make the next move yourself. Ask him if he'd like to go grab a cup of coffee (etc.) sometime, see what he says and does. This should give you a clue as to how he feels about you. Good luck =]
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