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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is the best way to get over someone and make them miss you at the same time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Whats the best way to get over someone whilst making them think about you! me and my bf been split up 2 months (im so gutted) A lot of people might say go out with friends etc but thats not convenient as i work unsociable hours.. I just wanna know how i can stop myself... (121 words)

Am I the only one who thinks that not having sex a lot isn't a problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I've been in a great relationship for 10 months now. At first the sex was great and very frequent, we have since moved in together and it has dropped to once or twice a month. For me it isn't really a problem because we have a strong loving relationship, it just seems to... (94 words)

Should I be worried that he didn't orgasm from my blowjob/handjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I gave the boy I liked a blowjob/handjob. It was for 10 minutes. And at the end he said, "That's good." and so i stopped. and he was kissing me and caressing me alot. I asked him if he orgasmed. and really quickly he said no. And i was like, "oh sorry". and he smiled and ... (112 words)

Everyone says I'm better off without him, but I wasn't perfect either, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've recently broken up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years becuase I found out for the third time that he was telling other girls that he loved them and wanted to be with them. He'd been lying to me for a long time and I found out by going through his email. I've sin... (242 words)

My gf is the most open gf I've ever had, and I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, If this doesn't make sense i'm sorry i just need toget it out and calm my nerves. I have been with my gf for about a month now and i really like her, its just when i am with her we are fine except she sometimes pushes her neck and shoulders on my lips i keep thin... (209 words)

Dreaming about a girl i know. does it mean anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 19 year old female and i dreamt that i was around a female who i know in real life and then she went off with a guy and i felt jealous then i think we did sexual things together.Then i felt emotional connection towards her.While i was waking up i might of felt happy and ... (131 words)

Any advice on getting my friend back together with her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I beg your pardon for interupting, but I am looking for some advice on behalf of a friend of mine. Her name is Charlotte, she has just recently turned 21 and she lives and works in Berkshire, England. She recently split with her ex lover in an age gap relationship... (340 words)

I'm worried that getting back with my husband will upset the life I've built for me and my son during his absense

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 years old, I have a little boy who is almost 2 and I am separated from my husband. He is a little younger than I am, and we have experienced many difficult times due to circumstance during the past six years. He has a sort of peter pan thing going on, and doesn't seem ... (299 words)

I've been with my boyfriend for three years, but I don't know if I can handle him deploying for the military

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - So i have a boyfriend who i have been with for 3 years now. he is in the army. when he first joined we really weren't together but when he came home from basic training we connected again. he was recentley deployed to iraq and will be home in january. I am rethinking him and ... (111 words)

He said he wants nothing serious, but now he's much more attentive, what does it mean?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6331 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked my boyfriend indirectly of course when we had been dating for three months where our relationship was going, he replied that he liked me, but was not sure if he wanted anything serious because he didnt know what he was going to do with his life or where he would be in ... (280 words)

I love him, but I'm not willing to lose it until we're married, now he's having physical problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, im 21 and im in a big relationship problem, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years and we are in love with eachother. the problem is that im a virgin and hes not and im not willing to lose it until i get married. He has not had sex for as long as ... (148 words)

It feels like i'm doing all the work.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfreind allways used to ring me up all the time and now he never does, i do most of the ringing, i dont really feel like i get to see him much. Am i being silly or is this quite serious i dont no what to do?... (48 words)

Is it a bad trait?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend always wants me to give him head. Is that a bad trait in a man?... (17 words)

Should i change myself for him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and fell for a friend of mine (23 years old). i just recently found out that he has feelings for me too. i have liked him for a long time and would really like for us to start a relationship together. the reason i fell for him in the first place was because he ... (164 words)

I gave the dog to my sis in the end, but i can't stop crying now.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I know this is madness but i guess i just wanted a moan. I posted a question a couple weeks ago about a 7 month old dog i had that trashed my home. She was only a puppy. Anyway my sis came to visit at the weekend and fell in love with her, my sis already has an 18 month ol... (302 words)

Is it normal for my partner to go on holiday with her father and our sons a regular basis without me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age - I am in love with a woman who at times is the highlight of my life. We have one son together and she has one son from a previous relationship. Is it normal for a woman to want to go away with her father and my sons on a regular basis( vacations, holidays etc.) and leave me ... (146 words)

I told him I found out about his sexual chats w/ other girls - now we don't trust each other!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I found chatting communication of my boyfriend and girls on the net. We just bought a house and talking about having kids. Those conversations, were recent and he was initiating them. To girls he chatted long time ago. Last year he had sexual conversation, and always ask to see ... (90 words)

My wife and I don't get along - would it be wrong to have sex with my ex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age - My wife cheated on me several times. We started to divorce but then we decided to give it another try. I must admit I hold onto a lot of resentment for all the lies and deciet along with her excuse that it was my fault she cheated. Things were good for a while, but she seems to ... (203 words)

Should I give my boyfriend oral and if I do, what are the health risks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I give my boyfriend oral and if I do, what are the health risks? The other week my boyfriend gave me oral and I think that it's only fair that I give him oral back but I don't know how to get into the mood and I want to know if there are any health risks. Thank... (66 words)

Is it actually starting to sink in with him what he might have lost?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I have been split up nearley 4 months now, he has moved on, we still have to contact each other because we have a baby of 8 months, it has been very hard. Anyway to cut a long story short, I have stopped contact with him for a few months, and we both agreed that... (255 words)

I don't want to tell them how embarrassed I feel about being bound and gagged. How do I get myself out of this funk?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, off to college in September, was enjoying a last carefree summer. Last Friday evening my boyfriend dropped me off at home around 10:00 after a date. He works nightshifts at a 24 hour supermarket. My parents were out for the evening and I walked in on a couple, man and ... (275 words)

Is a female orgasm the strong face scrunching/crippling feeling? What actually happens when you get that feeling...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this an orgasm? Is a female orgasm the strong face scrunching/crippling feeling? What actually happens when you get that feeling does the urging feeling just go when you hit the height, is there any evidence of an orgasm apart from that enjoyable crippling effect? Is fe... (63 words)

I'm missing out on so much coz I'm with someone but I don't want to leave my boyfriend coz he means so much...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well, me and my boyfriend of 4 months have had a really good relationship. The only thing that bothers me now is that other guys are noticing me too and are flirting with me and giving me compliments and stuff like that. There's one guy in particular, I've known hi... (317 words)

I have fallen for someone else, do I dump my boyfriend of 5 years?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, he treats me pretty bad, he relies on me for everything! I told him that I had had enough and wanted him to go! So he did but then came back and kept telling me he would change but the thing is I have really fallen for someone else ... (75 words)

Am I right to be worried about him moving in with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My boyfriend moved from another country to be with me 3 months ago. While he has been looking for a job etc he has been living with me and we get along so well. I'd like him to continue living with me but he feels it would be unfair to my flat mate. However last nig... (111 words)

Do I tell my ex I still love her dearly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I split up with my ex about 3 months ago and I still love her dearly, we still live together because we have a little boy together and we are still best friends. I have started seeing someone else but nothing serious and my ex asked me yesterday if I will move away with her and ... (63 words)

I feel like the passion is dead and do not want to make the mistake by getting married to a man I do not love.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 31, working as a senior management in a small company. He is 37 working in medical field We have been together for 4 months and have been friends for 6 months prior to our relationship. It was not the smoothest ride in the beginning as he was technically married for 7... (515 words)

Should I marry my fiance even although I am not in love with him?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been dating my fiance for 1 year and we have just got engaged. He is a very kind, caring and thoughtful guy and would do almost anything for me. I have never been out with anyone who has so wanted to take care of me and thinks of me. However, I do not love him. I... (414 words)

My boyfriend is very rough on me regarding sex, it hurts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have decided I'm sticking with my boyfriend, the only thing that I need help with is when me and my boyfriend have sex he is really rough and he hurts and he wants to do it all the time and I'm being serious, he wants it every day but if we do it every day it hurts even ... (86 words)

My ex is stalking me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i am 13 and i recently went out with someone in the same yr as me but i dumped him after 2 days. after i kissed him i knew we were'nt right, but now he won't leave me alone. he rings me and says who are you talking to? He even got jealous when i said i have a new bf who is 2 ... (161 words)

Should I go after my ex, or this new older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im soo confused latley. i split up with my long distance boyfriend a year ago and have been saying ever since that when i drive i am going to get him back because i think we split up because of the distance. i still love him and cant seem to get over him. on the other hand im ... (127 words)

He looks away when kissing me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age - What does it mean when my boyfriend looks away when kissing me. This happens when kissing me goodbye or just a quick kiss, not during an intimate moment.... (28 words)

He admitted he cheated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently my boyfriend and I decided to take a break after 5 years. And just the other night, while I was visiting, he dropped the biggest bomb on me. He confessed to have cheating on me with 2 different girls (that I was always suspicious of) for 3 months at the start of our ... (175 words)

Could the second unprotected intercourse cause me to be pregnant even though it was during a period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex and then went and got the morning after pill, and I was due for a period two weeks later and came on that period during more unprotected sex, could the second unprotected intercourse cause me to be pregnant even though it was during a period? ... (51 words)

Update- I dont think you can control what goes on in your heart so if its there she'll realise an finnish with him come find me right but prob not if she has me filling her emotional needs knowing i'm there???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, back again posted a long mssage about a love triangle ive been in as the other man based on first friendship gained over phone e-mail at work to flirting and meeting and massive mutual physical attraction attraction. Anyhow blew mine and her heads esp when shes in a ... (913 words)

16 and looking to loose weight. How do I do it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all. im a 16 year old girl and i weigh 101 kg. i really need to lose weight. i want to lose weight fast but not gain it again. anybody got some advice for me? i want to do this for myself. i cant stand being fat anymore. i want to dress sexy. thx for helping.... (57 words)

A relationship break???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend (well he broke up with me) but I don't want the relationsihp to be over. I'm just curious how many people have experienced break-ups and gotten back together successfully? I know it happens - I've seen it in my own family. Just cur... (63 words)

A relationship break???

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - A relationship break??? I have been dating this wonderful woman for 9 months now. We hit it off perfect and everything was going great. I can remember about 3 months into the relationship she could not wait for us to move in together, have kids and get married. We were truly ... (254 words)

Why do i feel insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my lover are agemates both 25yrs been together for 5yrs. why do i feel insecure? how can i get his attention?why is he not calling me often even to tell me if he got my letter?what should i do to make him call me? tho i recently met his mum for the first time is it that ... (70 words)

Any tips on how I can cope through a summer party?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

- I have been invited to a friend of mine's house for a summer country party in the beach which is quite cool but there are 3 things I do not like about going: 1. She has invited many people one of whom was ugly to me in the past and who I do not like very much, this guy s... (374 words)

Girlfriend cant handle the distance but says she still loves me, what should i do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a long distance relationship and have been for a year and a half now but my girlfriend said she can't be herself around me because everytime i see her its like we have to start all over again. she wants to leave me for another guy but says she still loves me what should ... (59 words)

How do I find out where I stand??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a best friend that I have been friends with for a very long time. He once made a move on me... long ago, but I reacted wrongly out of fear, and the fact of the matter is that I taught myself not to like him that way, because back then I felt It would be wrong... and to ... (283 words)

Do you think this could work out??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy over a year ago let's call him John, we really got on but I was in a relationship at the time. A few weeks later we broke up. About a month later I called John but he was in a relationship himself. They broke up fairly soon after and me and him met up... We got on r... (188 words)

My brother pins me down and I hate it!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i have asked many questions here and i no i haven't replied to as many as i could of but i have a question. "Is my brother sexually abusing me even if he is younger then me ? " My brother is 11 and i am 13 and he keeps pinning me to the floor and humps me ( with clothes o... (113 words)

He is texting another girl saying i do his head in!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my husband 6years now and married 2years and got a 1yr old daughter. Recently things haven't been good between us and I found messages on his phone from and to a girl who he works with saying how they missed and loved each other and how i was doing his head. He ... (67 words)

How can I get the cutest girl in the school to notice me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a really beutiful girl at school that i like but i'm not exactly the cutest guy in school. I'm already on the football team but she still doesn't notice me. What should I do?... (36 words)

My ex is seeing my best mate but says she still likes me, and I still like her. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex-girlfriend is going out with my best friend but she still likes me and I still kind of like her. What should I do?... (25 words)

I'm the only girl in my class who's single, and everyone else has a boyfriend so I feel a bit left out.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I may be wrong about this, but I think you may be able to help me. You see, I'm the only girl in my class who's single, and everyone else has a boyfriend so I feel a bit left out. Funny thing is, the guy I like is also single too and shows signs of interest for me, but he ... (72 words)

I'm on birth control but there was about two days in a row that I didn't take it. Could I get pregnant on those days I didn't take it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm on birth control but there was about two days in a row that I didn't take it. Could I get pregnant on those days I didn't take it and what is the likelihood that I can get pregnant on the pill. I'm always hearing stories about how women got pregnant on birth control.... (55 words)

How can I get things back to the way they were?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have a problem with my boyfriend, actually he fell out of love with me and he asked for space. The reason why he asked for that is because he's tired of understanding everything from me. He keeps on telling me that I changed since I got into work. It's true, so... (276 words)

I cum after I get into the girl and do about 4-5 pumps. It sucks. How can I last forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I cum after I get into the girl and do about 4-5 pumps. It sucks. How can I last forever?... (21 words)

I love her so much but I know I need to give her some space.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been getting used to not seeing my girl as often as before. I am bothered sometimes by the fact that I make every effort to see her. I mean sometimes it just feels like I really really want to see her but those feelings are going away everyday. She is awesome, she is so ... (261 words)

So how do I make him comfortable to express his true feelings without getting phobic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

- Simple question... How do I win my ex back?! He's got relationship and commitment phobia (according to his own words) we've been together for almost a year and we've been apart for almost a year as well, but we've been in contact now for about 2 months and everyday we just tal... (196 words)

I always seem to get attached so quickly in a relationship, why does this happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I get attached so easily either in relationships or even meeting a guy for the first night and developing feelings. I don't understand how it happens but is there anyway that I can become not so attached. I'm really starting to think that it might be the problem ... (63 words)

We are thinking of moving in with each other for conveniece purposes and we would love to give our daughter a "complete family".

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have been divorced from my ex husband for 8 years. Since then we have remained in each others lives either as friends or parents to our daughter. We have had many fights but have always forgiven one another. We have both had relationships that haven't worked o... (92 words)

If he has a kid then it changes things, why can't he be honest with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20, I had a boyfriend, were still 6 months in the relationship and I've learned to love him... it so happened that one day when we were in his uncle's house, I found something that I was never really sure of..... and it's killing me! I gave him everything. It was then ... (303 words)

We're both leaving for different countries soon, is it worth asking him if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6339 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for maybe more or five years now (we only see each other at church ), but we never really talked. Two years ago, I had to leave the country. When I came back for the summer, a whole bunch of us teenagers at church were playing truth or dare. When it was ... (257 words)

How do I stop having these feelings for my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

15 August 2007 (M) - Okay I'm 16 and my ex girlfriend is 15. We have been broken up for just over 6 months and she has been with her most recent boyfriend for those 6 months. She really likes him and says she loves him (we are very close friends still) and he sounds like a really nice guy, but ... (214 words)

All of a sudden she started to talk about the future and how things are going to change once she starts school.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

15 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half and am almost back from a one year long distance relationship. What is bothering me is that all of a sudden she started to talk about the future and how things are going to change once she starts school(LIVING WITH THREE ... (268 words)

My left side of the stomach seems to go a bit deeper than my right, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

15 August 2007 (M) - dear cupid, I don't want to make my own account so my friend let me use his one. I have a problem, my left side of the stomach seems to go a bit deeper than my right, this bit is under the ribcage bone under the chest. I would like to know do I need to go to the doctors t... (104 words)

I have been having sex with my boyfriend for 5 months now and have not once experienced an orgasm...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

15 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid... I have been having sex with my boyfriend for 5 months now and have not once experienced an orgasm. I'm 16 years of age so I'm not sure if this is normal or not. Please help... (38 words)