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writes:ive been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we really love each other we have a brilliant time and can talk about anything i cant imagine being with anyone else! latley he has brought up the question of sex i dont know if i should because we are both underage i dont know what to do! should i sleep with him or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, bovvalicious +, writes (6 August 2007):
 you wil know if you are ready to have sex with him. no one else can make your descisions for you. if you do decide to have sex just remember to use protection. and remember you can stay no at any time.
talk to him about things! like what he would do if you ended up pregnant. this should help you make the descision
good luck x hope you make the rite choice for you x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): hello,i understand what you are going through, do you know i 20 years old and i am still a virgin, i get pissed off so many times whenever my friends gist about how their boyfriends have "sex" with them, and then i say can't i just be like this girls...and a spirit speak to me and say "no don't try that, its sinful".....you see modernisation especially in Africa has really change peoples opinion and perspectives about "sex"......i just get confused, so many time i breakup with guys that are supposed to be my boyfriends just because of sex issues...then i begin to imagine "what does relationship mean to some guys or people ? is it the mere sex thing or what' i think i also need an advice......pls could someone tell me what age is reasonable enough to have sex?
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reader, Emilie +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Hey, honey listen i know you love him and i know how you feel as it has happened to me too. I am only 15 and i sed no to sex until i am of legal age, thankfully becuase my boyfriend (weve been together 1 year) was thoughtful he agreed we should wait. You should not be pressured into sex before you are ready. Keep your innocence a lil while longer hun, there are too many things that could go wrong you could end up with a child if the condom splits of something else complecates things. Seeming as you are quite young this could ruin you relationship with your guy and what will you both do if you end up pregnant? Talk to him about, face to face about what could happen if you do agree to go ahead if he caught unawares he may abandon you with the child, although if hes true to you that is unlikely but still possible. Its up to you hun but please be careful if you decide to go ahead. Remember your only innocent once.Please keep me posted via email and dont hesistate to ask me anything you may need to via dear cupid i will always reply :)hope this has helped! Best wishes xxx
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reader, saphira  +, writes (5 August 2007):
you shoudnt really be having sex yet, but if are you going to, use contraception. only have sex, if you feel it is the right time for you, and dont feel you have to just because he wants to. only have sex when YOU are good and ready, and dont give in to peer pressure.
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