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How can I help repair the relationship my b/f has with his son?

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3 August 2007 (F - How can I help repair the relationship my b/f has with his son? His son is 19 and in college and he just seems really disrespectful towards his dad, whom I love dearly. The kid is great otherwise but I think he has some anger issues stemming from their divorce, which was 15 ... (119 words

I'm so upset about his ex gf! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend met a year ago in the disco and we made out. Then he accidentally met some people I knew and he tried to reach me, added me on msn but I hardly talked to him. We only crossed each other a couple of times but it was very brief because he obviously realized ... (540 words

How do I get my bf to feel better about the size of his penis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6317 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - How do I get my b/f to feel better about the size of his penise? He doesn't obsess about it, but I know it's always in the back of his mind because he's made a few comments. When I first started seeing him, we would sometimes surf the web together on his computer and these ... (222 words

He blurts out things that upset me! How do I get him to stop and think before he speaks?

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3 August 2007 (? age 36-40 - Repeat Offender: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 1/2 yrs. We have a really good relationship. But when we do fight it is mostly about the same few things. Every time we fight we don't yell we sit and talk things out. The problem he has which Im sure most men... (274 words

Life troubles are really depressing me--can any of you help?

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3 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Im not sure where to start, Iv had the worst couple of weeks of my life-and although I have my health Im still feeling quiet depressed. To begin my week I had my birthday, I lost my job, its very tough to get a new job where I am but my bills, loans... remain the same so Im re... (336 words

I'm still upset over our breakup. Any tips on how to keep busy and remain distracted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am single and do not work during the summer. I am finding it difficult to keep myself busy and often spend time thinking about my ex-boyfriend and usually end up in tears. We broke up 3 months ago and I'm still not over him. I don't have a lot of friends but the friends I ... (124 words

What are the chances that our relationship isn't going anywhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi, im have been dating a 27 years old guy for one month who has a girlfriend of the same age, he spend more time with me that with her, whtas the chances of this going some where or getting hurt?... (41 words

My long-distance girlfriend is ready for commitment and I'm not; how do I let her down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am involved in a long distance relationship and im not sure if i should continue it...i feel like i want to be with other girls, and i know im not ready for a major commitment. The girl im with i see on the normal school vacations but i think she is ready for a life-time ... (82 words

Remarried but I am lusting after my ex-husband! WHat should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - How do I handle my feelings? When I was going to nursing school, I fell in love with one of our patients. He was 22 and had just been divorced about a year. We had a whirlwind romance after he got out of the hospital and he asked me to marry him. I accepted his proposal and ... (298 words

I moved away from my boyfriend and he wants me to see someone else as well as him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - HELP!! I have a boyfriend but I moved about 3 hours away.He says that I should anoher boyfriend to be there for me when he's not.He still wants me to go outwith him and I know that one of my friends like me here but I don't know if I should.Should I have 2 boyfriends?... (56 words

Want to give my wife the best night's sex.... Ever. How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi i'm planning on giving my wife the best night of her life and i need some help. I want to give her the best sex she has ever had! We don't use toys or anything like that but i want to make it really special and exciting for her. Full of love and passion, a really romantic ... (143 words

I want to wait a bit longer before having sex; what does oral feel like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I want to have sex but I want to wait a little longer with my boyfriend. I just want to know if I should do oral with him first.He says he has no problem doing it but I don't know if I should let because I don't know what it feels like.Does oral feel good??... (55 words

Upset over my brother's lack of loyalty! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - Family help needed pls! My ex and i split a month ago today. Never trusted him, so didnt fall for him, was with him nearly a yr. Admittedly stayed with him towards the end because my daughter adored his daughter, same age, 10. Anyway after i ended it, he admitted he had ... (493 words

Why does my fiancee still obssess over her ex bf's?

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3 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - My fiancee goes out of her way to do special things for me all the time but is still obsessing over her exes and when she ends up hearing from them over the phone, email, etc., she starts acting distant with me and sometimes it seems as if she is picking a fight. I do love her ... (66 words

He says his marriage is over! Am I wrong to be sleeping with such an old married man who is my boss?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been seeing an older man. He is very high up in the company and I am only an office girl. He is married with 3 children. He says it's over between them and when they sell there house he will be free. I'm 18 and he is 32. I have left my bf 4 him but we only sleep together ... (195 words

Met her online but worry about the dangers. Should I meet her in the real world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - We've all heard about the dangers of chatting to people online and the dangers of meeting them in the real world - but does it apply in this situation?? I've been chatting to this girl via e-mail for a month now, and she works for a radio station as a presenter who's ... (204 words

Have to get an abortion! So how do I deal with the emotion backlash of the abortion while being with your children on a daily basis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am a married mother of two who is having an abortion. I just found out that I am pregnate yet again, I just had my youngest son 5 months ago. It is too early for us to have another so we have made the choice to terminate the pregnacy. Is ther anyone here who has had an a... (91 words

How do I tell if he is into me more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6313 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I work at a place where there's no rule against employees dating co workers, even leads. But there's a rule against dating direct supervisors. I noticed that we look at each other for a few seconds before looking away. Once when our supervisor sent me to work at another stand ... (132 words

She has had a very, very promiscuous past and I struggle almost daily with negative thoughts about this woman I love. Any Advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend “Kate” (not her real name for obvious reasons) is stunningly beautiful, extremely intelligent, witty, fun loving and full of life. She’s also brash, facetious, confident, fiercely independent, and honest to a fault. Kate is a realist. And she has held true to this ... (546 words

I am soo jealous...how do I stop doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey I really need some advice I really love my boyfriend and absolutly trust him with my whole world. But i can't help feeling jealous of other girls, i knw theres no need to be, but i always think that the girls have something that i don't and maybe he prefers them to ... (80 words

What is up with my bf and his moodswings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend changes his mood all of the time. One minute he is being so sweet to me and being so loving, and the next he will just get mad at me for me saying something which in my eyes is not bad, he is just very sensitive and overreacting. Then he will stop talking to me ... (196 words

I like her soo much that things at work have gotten too intense. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi guys. I'm straight but ive fallen for a girl at work. It's gotten soo intense now, I cant say anything to her, cant speak to her. I feel jealous of other people she speaks to. i just think of her all the time. ALL THE TIME. Really need some advice as to how to get to know ... (88 words

Is falling in love with someone..a want or a decision?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Do you fall in love because you want to, because at some level in your mind you decide to do it, or do you fall in love exclusively because of the effect you think someone else has on you? ... (41 words

He's has problems since his wife died. He wants to date me but I am relunctant. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I work with people.. I've known this customer for 3 years. He is in his 60s, retired after a highly paid job, and we've always had a cordial relationship. He is a very nice man who's always had time for other people and he was one of my favorite acquaintances. Recently (6 ... (319 words

I'm married, she's married, we're having a baby.I'm lost, what do we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - I'm married, she's married, we're having a baby. We worked together and flirted with each other. I stopped in to work one night to ask her if she would like to have drinks, and a couple of days later she stopped in to work to give me her email address. I initiated the fi... (564 words

Is it normal for straight men to want to be masturbating, anally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - im definately not gay as i have a gf, but recently i have began anal masterbating. is this normal 4 straight men?... (23 words

I am sexually attracted to my half-sister, whom I just met recently. Am I mental or what's happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - I never met my real dad or his children. After 40 years.I met my bio father and his kids. I grew up with two other brothers from my mom's side and I never had a sister in that family. After several weeks, I am now very close to my half sister. She is 33 and I am 40. ... (152 words

I really love my fiancee but I don't think I am a priority in his life. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - well, I am engaged and the fact that i will be married has had me thinking that my fiancee is my #1 He is my all everything and for some reason i dont feel that he feels the same about me. I feel second to his family and all that. This is both of our first times being married ... (140 words

She's my only sexual partner, so I stopped using condoms, so will be both be safe still?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - I've been seeing this girl since we were both 11. We started having sex when we were both 13, we have also used condoms, for both vaginal and anal, but recently i have not been able 2 cum using condoms, even the very thin ones. so we have decided to do it unprotected with her ... (76 words

I heard if you try to shave all of your pubic hair, you get cancer. Is it true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - Girls only answer please! I feel really silly asking this, but can I shave my pubic hair? I am an early bloomer and I'm going into middle school where we have to shower in front of each other. I even think I have the biggest breasts besides "heavy" people who just have fat. So ... (73 words

What are trimesters in a pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My girlfriend is pregnant, I am so happy, however why is it called 1st 2nd and 3rd trimester.... (18 words

He has a gf, he doesn't know me and he left our school. But I like him a lot! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F - hey I was just wondering what to do. You see i really like this guy and he has just left my school hes 16 and I'm nearly 15. But the only problem is he has no idea who I am! I've never talked to him and now hes on msn and im too scared to talk to him cuz I'm really not good... (103 words

Should I give it another go and see if the 'chemistry' can be re-created or just walk away?

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3 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi Everyone. I've had loads of advice from you over the last few months. I split with my partner after being together for over 4 years last November but we got back together early in the New Year only to split again in March. We didn't live together or anything -I have a son ... (318 words

Scheduled to be married but now..my finacee has backed down! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - hi dear cupid, This time I am really longing for help. I was scheduled to be married next week but my fiancee tells me he can not make it. He said he has a fear, he has scared of the future but he said he will always love me. I am totaly down at this moment, I cant understan... (105 words

he is still going out with my best friend and she is in love with him. But he has been talking to me about breaking up with her. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have liked this one guy forever and a few months ago he started going out with my best friend even though he liked and still likes me. He has been calling me a lot lately and we are talking about an hour everyday. It has become very obvious that he likes me and I'm starting ... (123 words

I'm still bleeding, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm 18 years old and on Tuesday night I lost my virginity to my best friend, who I really love. we've told each other we love each other blah blah, and I'm really glad I lost my virginity to him as I could never imagine it being anyone else. The only thing is he'd ... (187 words

does this mean im pregnant?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am desprete here... i need help so badly.. im 16 years old. Ive had unportected sex several times over the past two months. my boyfriend NEVER came in me though, i also read that in order for sperm to be in pre cum he must have came earlier that day, is this true? he is 22,... (193 words

How long will it take my eyebrows to grow back?

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3 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - KO! I'm a male and shaved my eyebrows, just wondering how long it would take to grow them back.... (19 words

Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual partner in lieu of her ... (70 words

Really like this guy, but I lack confidence. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi there, bit of a juvanile question but here goes. Im 32 years of age and there is a guy I like he works in my building (large building) and I notice him on regular occasions in the canteen or in the lift etc, I have never spoke to this guy and just know his name for ... (238 words

how can i find a boyfriend fast and be attractive to men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi. i'm single and just cant find a guy. i'm a nice girl but even the guys in my life dont want me- even those i've known for a while. no-one ever hits on me or notices me. how can i find a boyfriend fast and be attractive to men? i want to get married one of these days too ... (64 words

Will I ever get over this or should I leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi I am 33 and have been married 11 years, we have two children and I am pregnant with our third child soon. I have found out that my husband who is the same age as me has had an affair with an 18 year old girl 'K' who worked a a telephone operator while doing her A-Levels. He ... (412 words

I lied about my age, what do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey !!!! I am confused. I met this guy on myspace. i like him, he sounds like geniuine guy. hes a virgin and everything so im not scared of him being a pedophile. I have lied to him about my age. I said I was 16 when Im 14. hes an up and coming football star. Hes going to... (94 words

Ex has emailed and now all the old feelings are back! What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I really need people's opinions on this, so please help if you can..... i went out for 4 months last year with this guy lets call him A. I was head over heels in love with him, even though we didnt have the greatest relationship, anyway i lost my virginity to him...and a week a... (183 words

Am I still in love with my ex? Do I love my classmate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - Ermm.. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4months a few weeks ago. Now, he's with one of my close friends. I really support them, and wish them the best. I thought I could get over him and I thought I did. I guess I was wrong. Whenever he talks to me online, I'll think to myself ... (211 words

Can somebody please tell me what she might be thinking?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi, it's just me. I'm still feeling fairly possitive today, despite the fact that I dreamt that me and my ex were getting back together last night. I woke up thinking: Right, a step forward.. What can I do to sort this o.... Oh, it was just a dream. Anyway. For those of you... (606 words

I desperately want to help my friend with his relationship but he won't let me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F - My friend wont let his gf go on the pill in case she gains weight *she a stick so she need a bit of weight* and they use condoms but only 60% of the time. He's 18 and shes 17 ive tried to explain to him that she wont become fat and if she did he should still love her.the thing ... (127 words

What do I do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - there is a girl in school.we made frequent eye contact but i never talk to her.recently she and her friends noticed that i like her.when we make eye contact i donot smile at nor gaze for longer time.when we meet in a cafe,road ,library i usually try to ignore her but her ... (73 words

Why has he never got in touch with me???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Sorry if this is long winded. I not sure where to start. I'm really hurting. I had been seeing a guy for 4 months and he said he loves me. We have been friends for 4 years before that. He always would text me every day and phoned me most and told me to not stop texting him but ... (419 words

I had a fight with my boyfriend and he behaved cruelly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - we had a fight.Feels like he doesnt understand me, he thinks he did nothing wrong but everything he said was hurtfull,when we went to bed he held me for 2 sec and then told me"sorry dont know what i did wrong but ja... in a cruel manner. I said nothing so he just turned his ... (106 words

He kissed another girl, said she came on to him and apologised.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I'd really appreciate some advice. I was going to go out with my boyfriend and some of his mates last night but decided I was too tired so told him I wouldn't be making it. He seemed a bit upset but whatever... This morning I got a text from him explaining how he screwed ... (327 words

Does body fat effect penis size?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Am I to fat? I am 165 pounds and is 5'5 foot tall I think. Well am I too fat cuz my girlfriend is 2 inches shorter than me and is 150 pounds sooo are we an obese couple? And does body fat effect penis size?... (52 words

So I'm not jealous about porn, looking at other females or anything.. is anyone else out there like that??

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I see that probably about 90% of females are really bothered by porn and I kind of get it but at the same time I don't. I know some of my friends are this way but is anyone else out there not bothered by it? or bothered by anything for that matter? For instance. I've b... (282 words

Is it possible that your boyfriend loves you but also wants sex everytime you're together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Is it possible that your boyfriend loves you but also wants sex everytime you're together? ... (15 words

My friend's cousin was abused and is now obsessed by sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a freind who's cousin is in trouble. She is 18 but she was sexually abused a couple of months ago and she liked it and now she is like obssesed with sex. All she wants 24/7 is SEX, SEX, AND MORE SEX. She is so obssesed with sex her whole family is worried about her. She ... (122 words

Me and my mum don't get along. What can I do to repair this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well me and my mum are not close. I mean like I don't want to tell her anything. I can never tell her anything and I am starting to hate my mum. She doesn't know what to do cause I lock myself in my room and don't talk to anyone. All I want to do is have freedom to do what I ... (80 words

Can I ever find happiness in a relationship, when my feelings always seem to dig me into a quagmire?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Can I ever find happiness in a relationship, when my feelings always seem to dig me into a quagmire? Is there anything wrong with me for always getting stuck with guys who are not marriage material? I am 28 already and my last boyfriend was an alcoholic, verb... (244 words

I found out I was pregnant and I don't know how to tell anyone.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am 14 and I have been having lots of sex but with my boyfriend, we tried diffrent things and I like them all. I found out I was pregnant, I don't know how to tell anyone, I feel so sick no one knows but me. How do I tell people oh and I think I love oral sex what do I do?... (65 words

Where's my girlfriends clitoris, how do I find it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - how do i know where my girlfriends clitoris is or when i find it ?... (15 words

How can I stop being so jealous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - This is my problem. My boyfriend swears up and down that he would never cheat on me, but he has done a lot of things to make me jealous, it has gotten to the point where it seems all that all I am is jealous. We fight almost all the time now. It is really sad because I love him ... (92 words

I don't want to be too clingy and lose her over my insecurity.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am 16 and my girlfriend (16) of 9 months now recently went on a a weeks trip with two of her friends. I trusted her fully with her friends as she was staying with her grandparents. All was well, when she got back I asked her how it went. I found out her two mates (who alr... (279 words

We fight all the time. Do I need to just leave this mean man, or continue to try to make it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am so confused right now. My live-in boyfriend of about 1 1/2 year and I have been fighting quite a bit. When it's good, it's truly the best I've ever had, and he says the same thing. He's a bit younger, 33 to my 37, and never been in a 'serious' grown-up relationship ... (196 words

My cross-dressing boyfriend wants to become a woman

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3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend is a crossdresser and wants to get a sex change to become a female. he's told me time and time again that he'd keep his penis to keep me happy, but i don't want him to regret that later. he also has a bit of a temper and yells at me whenever i say something he ... (116 words

I got close to my closed-up boyfriend on a weekend away; now his heart has closed up again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - last weekened me and my friends had a sleepover up at her cabin. she brought her boyfriend and mine along with and it was really suprising her parents let us. well me and my boyfriend got really close... closer then i've even been to him. he let all the walls down around his ... (80 words

Should I give my boyfriend a 3rd chance to salvage our relationship of 7 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - My question is really simple. Should I give my boyfriend a 3rd chance to salvage our relationship of 7 years? We've broken up 3 times in the last 9 months, with the final time coming back in June. After our last break up, I met a really great guy, and was seeing him on a ... (177 words

I just want to move on and forget about him. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm finding it really hard to get over my ex. He broke up with me about a month ago. It was all very sudden and he didn't really give me any valid reasons. He just text me and said "I can't do this anymore." I was devastated, as he always said he loved me and I ... (211 words

I've always wanted to be a marine but my girlfriend says she'll dump me if I sign up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - so i've decided to stay with my current gf and just wait. love is more important to me than sex. i do have some what of another problem though. i kinda do and kinda dont want to join the army (marines) but my gf said she would dump me if i did. i've always wanted to, but for ... (107 words

How old should I be before I get a boyfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - I'm going into middle school. How old should I be to have a boyfreind? Not to kiss or anything, but just to talk to and hold hands.... (27 words

Do you think it is advisable that I voice my suspects to her? I don't want it to be an accusation, I want it to show her my solidarity. I really want to enjoy the evenings when it's the three of us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6313 days ago

3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I started dating my boyfriend in February. He has been living with a very close friend (girl) ever since last summer. I get along with her very well if we're alone but sometimes if it's the three of us it gets a bit awkward. Lately I found out by chance from a document on her ... (223 words

Is it too soon to ask her to marry me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

3 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - i have been dating my girlfriend for a little more than six months.we both love each other and get along great,and have so much in common.i want to ask her to marry me but is this to soon.... (38 words

I'm attracted to her, but don't know if I should tell her...

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3 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - So where to begin... There's this girl, let's call her erm...Rosie. I have been friend with her ever since I start High School. We get along well in this smallish circle of friends in school, 3 guys (me included) and 2 girls (Rosie included). We hang about in school and often... (196 words

He has a girlfriend, but we constantly talk and flirt. What should I do?

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3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Okay so there is this guy that i like. I've liked him for a while, and we've been talking alot lately, on the computer, and I've hung out with his friends a few times. Last night for example, it was me and 9 guys. The problem is that he's seeing someone right now, but he's nev... (161 words

Should I just end it now to stop further pain and before we get more close or should I stay with her because I do think she is worth it?

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3 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been in with my girlfriend for about 4 months and she has a 2 year old child. She takes the child to see his dad a few times a week and I am fine with that, it's just that my girlfriend is very close to her x because they went out for almost 10 years and sometimes when ... (215 words

Should I instead write a note asking him round?

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3 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am keen on a guy but he's very shy and doesn't go out socially so I don't know him well. I'm not sure if he likes me but would like to ask him round for dinner. Would phoning him up put him too much on the spot? Should I instead write a note asking him round?... (60 words

He said he was testing himself to see if these women appealed to him, and said they didn't. He said if anything he loves me more and realises what he has. Is he lying?

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3 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi I looked in my boyfriends email account and although there were no emails (all deleted, even the trash) on the contact list was several email addresses of girls and an email from [a website]. I logged on and had a look and it's a sex chat site. I confronted him tonight a... (187 words

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