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Am I immature or is he being dumb?

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Question - (5 August 2007) 13 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *razyone writes:

Help me here guys.

OF course I'm 13 and so is my boyfrined. He thinks I'm inmature just beacseI don't want to have sex and becasue I watch cartoon network and disney channel everyday.Am I really inmature or is he just being dumb?

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A male reader, Ivan0x Mexico +, writes (12 September 2007):

I would say you should do what your hearts tells you to do, but you're 13, I think you should wait for the right time, because if something goes wrong at this age, you will regret it later. And if he keeps on puttin pressure on you because of that, dump him. If he really loves you, he'll wait.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007):

Definitively dumb and inmature, it seems he just want to get what he really wants

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A female reader, crazyone United States +, writes (7 August 2007):

crazyone is verified as being by the original poster of the question

crazyone agony auntHey thanks guys I'm gonna have a little talk with him now!! :D

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A female reader, x_goddess_x United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2007):

x_goddess_x agony aunthe is totally DUMB ello your still young theres no need to rush into sex and i no ppl tht r 16/17 tht watch cartoon network ect it not immature and you have dne the right thing to sayin no you should never do stuff ya dnt want to

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2007):

DrPsych agony auntDump the loser boyfriend...he is being immature for pressurising you into doing something you are not ready for. You stick to your guns and show this guy the door as he is so not worthy! I watch the cartoons at 36!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007):

Yes, he is being dumb and a jerk! He is not worth your company when saying dumb things like that to you! As if he would know how to do it anyway! Dump him and find a guy with same interests, you will have much more fun together, I promise.

Don't take crap from the guys.

Best wishes

p.s: I'm 30 and I love watching cartoons.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007):

you're 13, he's a jerk. its really quite simple.

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A male reader, GreenTea United States +, writes (5 August 2007):

your not immature. your 13.

He is just gonna keep pressuring you for sex. My advice is to leave him.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2007):

love-him agony auntHey bbe, your bf is being mean and trying to push you into sex. Dont let him do this, tell him, you dont want to, and you believve you are too young, or whatever your reason is. Dont let him push you into anything..

I hope i helped & good luck,

Mail me if you would like to talk x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2007):

kenny agony auntI agree with Dr Pete, i think he trying to push you into having sex and trying to belittle you.

Don't give in to him, you are both still far to young to be having sex. And don't let him make you feel bad about watching cartoon network, or disney channel, you are only 13 for heavens sake.

And no i don't think you are immature, more like he is being dumb.

All the best x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007):

he's just bieng dumb. plenty of time for stuff like that when your older

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007):

It sounds like he is trying to encourage you to have sex by making you feel bad about yourself. This is never a good sign. A boy who loves or cares about you would not say hurtful things like that. You should ask him if he cares about you he would say things that upset you?

By the way, you can never be old to watch Cartoon Network or Disney Channel. I'm twice your age and still watch cartoons. :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007):

yes hes being dumb and dont let him talk you into doing anything you dont want to do your to young for sex or to even be talking about it tell your boyfriend to keep it in his pants. wait until your both legal to even be having sex and know what your doing and if you even want to be doing it. your just a kid so enjoy it dont worry about sex have fun being young and NOT PREGNANT

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