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writes:I'm an 19 year old girl and I'm interested in dating someone who is 35. I think he likes me but I'm afraid that he'll say no if I ask him if he feels the same. I think this because of our age difference. Should I still ask? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): Hey I am going through the same curiosity right now. I am 20 and I have recently stumbled across a 36 year old that I am interested in. I think it depends on how mature both of you are and if you can handle that kind of relationship because you have to know that people will always be judging and its up to you to disregard that or take it in ( I don't suggest taking it in). Make sure that both of you are okay with the age difference too and def. make sure that he isn't trying to get in your pants, unless you want to be handled like that than more power to you girl. Older men know how to work a girl though so make sure your a woman and handle yourself.. don't let him play you for a fool. Go for it though.. whats the worst that can happen? You only live once and love doesn't have an age limit.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 If you're happy being with eachother, age should not be a problem what-so-ever. I'm going out with a guy who's quite a bit older than me but I wouldn't change him for the world. If you both enjoy being with eachother, why not ask him?
You're not gonna be able to find out any other way, it's worth a shot! If he says no and acts all weird, it's his loss and he's not the one but I reckon the only way you're gonna find out is if you ask.
Good luck hun!
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reader, helping hand  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 he is too old for you the besty thing to do is to is go out and find someone of your own age you will have much more fun with a younger guy
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (5 August 2007):
This potential relationship will only work if both of you want it to work. You may meet with a little resentment from peers, parents, his children if he has any. What I am saying is that you may have to face one or two minor difficulties from outside sources but this should not influyence how you would both feel for each other.
Go for it and see how it goes - you have got nothing to loose.
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reader, kenny +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Age only becomes an issue if either of you have got issues with it. If you are both comfortable with the age gap then there is no reason whatsoever why this could not work. Ten years is not a great deal really, so ask him out and see how it goes.
Good luck x
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reader, DanBing +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Do it! Age is only a number!
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (5 August 2007):
What does real love have to do with age? Not much, If you are say within ten years of each other. And in his case he is older and should be emotionally settled in his mindby now. Also as a woman's logevity being longer than a man's, but I see that as a big plus in the relationship. So go for it, I say. What have you got to lose?
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