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41-50,
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writes:hi i am 24 and have been married for just under 1 year i love my husband to bits and cant imagine being with out him. but there is a guy i would like to be friends with he works round the corner from our house and he always smiles and says hi. i would really like to become friends with him as he is lovely a bit shy like myself but how do we become friends with out either of us thinking the other wants more? he knows i am with someone as the other day he asked if i was single or with someone i said i was but did not say i was married as this should not matter as i just want us to be friends can we?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
You're playing with fire here, sweetness! I think you need to make it VERY clear that you are married so that this gentleman doesn't get any ideas. You don't want to give the wrong impression or else that could make some serious trouble in the future.
I think that "blueberry" was right on. Maybe you should invite this guy over for dinner with you and your husband... or you could invited him for drinks with you and your husband. Let your husband know, at least, if you're going to hang out with this guy on your own. Otherwise, your husband could feel like you're sneaking around behind his back - and you don't want any drama in your marriage!!!
Be very careful. Maybe you and your husband could BOTH make a new friend!
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, blueberry  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 why did nt u tell him u are married? I think this has danger written allover it! Only talk to him if your husband is around (other than a quick hello) and tell ur husband theres a nice neighbour and maybe invite him over for a drink IF your husband will be attending. at most! This way its out in the open and ur husband will think nothing of it and u should feel better as well. But really there is no reason to make a new friend...lol
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