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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriends giving me the cold shoulder and i dont know why???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi folks my girlfriend came home from classes today kinda distant (or so it seemed) When I asked her about it, she didnt respond until later, phoning me to give me some cold shoulder sandwich. I overreacted, said how i didnt deserve that out of the blue. She's not talki... (89 words)

His family say i look like his ex wife from 13 yrs ago, he says he took 5 years to get over her and I dont want to be someone elses shadow!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I had a bf (he's 35, I'm 26) that I had been dating for about five months. We got along great and were very much inlove. When we were getting to know each other we had talked a little about our exes. He had told me that he had been married and had only been in love once in ... (573 words)

We have an age gap and his children dont approve. What to do???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 24 and my boyfriend is 51 with two teenage boys. This past weekend we both had said to eachother that we are 'forever'. Well last night his sons had sat him down and expressed how they do not approve of the age gap. Now for him and myself, we are torn. I care about how his ... (109 words)

Can anyone explain impotence????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been reading about ED (impotence), i would like to hear some general opinion on how to determine if one has it. would it means unable to achieve an erection at all, or only at times, or persistent, if so, how often is called consistent? would it means unable to ... (168 words)

I asked her to the cinema but she hasn't called or txt? Why not???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked a girl to the pictures. She's a good mate of mine. She said she'll tell me next week. She said she'll ring otherwise i should ring. It's thursday and she hasn't! Why not? She seems happy and up for it, but i'm unsure whether i should call her. I always think why cant ... (78 words)

I feel so much need to sleep with a woman nowadays, should I go get a prostitute?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please ladies and guys out there, I feel so much need to sleep with a woman nowadays, should I go get a prostitute?... (23 words)

He's a major flirt! It's very frustrating!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6290 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What to do? Should I ask him to leave? We've been married for nearly twenty years and have two doting children. But you can bet that almost every holiday we have ends up in frustration and near separation, because of his prolonged eye-contact with a woman over my shoulder. ... (102 words)

Does a man that loves a woman normally want her to be beautiful, well dressed etc, or doesn't care at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My question to everybody here is, What do you think, the man that Loves you wants you to be beautiful, well dressed, shining or He doesn't care at all? Yes, i'm quite disturbed by this guy, he seems not to care of how i do look... I can go to him anyhow dressed, in any show... (191 words)

I hadn't seen him for 12 years. I like him. Does he just see me as a friend???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey dearcupid.. I am 14 and met up with this guy today and have known him since i was born as our parents were really good friends. Today was the first time i saw him in 12 years or so. At first it was slightly awkward as i fancied him and was shy. After about 30 minutes... (162 words)

How can you tell if someone is cheating? I suspect my dad is, on my mum!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you tell if someone is cheating on their wife...i suspect my dad may be cheating on my mom with a close relative. ... (24 words)

What is normal behaviour when it comes to "friends," not to be misinterpreted with "lovers" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and one of my closest friends is 15 and i've known her most of my life. But now people are starting to think something is happening between us (which it isnt), or saying we're acting like a couple. However much we deny this people still say we're acting "unacceptable" ... (114 words)

We had sex. I'm his agony aunt when he has problems with his girl. But i have feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll try to keep this short, a few yrs ago, i became friends with this guy when he was going though relationship problem (his gf messed around with his brother) we became very close, and we had sex a few times,, Then he softly let me down by letting me know were were just ... (182 words)

My husband senses the closeness I have with my cousin. We are both married, should we pursue a relationship together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married twice. The first, was very short at a very young age. The second, is my current husband. We have been married and together between 5-10 years. We share several children. He has a child from a previous relationship and we have children together. ... (206 words)

I like this guy, but I dont know if he likes me!....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya :) ermm if u can give me anyyyyy advice i'd reallllly appreciate it because i'm really conufused and i don't know what to do :( well i'm 17 i really like this lad who's 18 :) i've known him along time, bout 6 years actually :) we've both always been fond of eathothe... (284 words)

Is my ex trying to make me jealous by calling my mate????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well...most of you know my story from past posts...the guy i love and i go to different colleges and after a great summer where we saw each other almost every day we are now both back at school and not seeing each other exclusively. Everyone on this site thought that was a ... (103 words)

My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is so much love and he is ... (179 words)

My wife has lost her dad and I want to help her. Anyone know how I go about this in the right way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, i was advised to come on this site by a friend who said you lot where very good so hope you can help me out here. Well my wife has recently lost her dad to a liver failure, this has hit her and her fmaily very hard, infact its even made her mum quit smoking just... (393 words)

How do you get someone to accept a relationship is over and deal with depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you get someone to realize a relationship is over and start taking healthy steps to put their life back together. My ex is still severely depressed. He won't go out and socialize, meet new people or do anything to create a support system since our break up. It's been a ... (152 words)

I'm worried i could be pregnant! Is my mind giving me the symptoms???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I don’t know if I am pregnant or my mind is playing with me. I had sex on August 19 (unprotected), my ovulation days were August 20, 21, 22 and 23. I started felling weird last week, cramps, my breast hurt and this week not only they hurt but they look bigger (even my boyfriend ... (110 words)

I fancy my mates guy. She doesn't want him anymore so should i go there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this boy I fancy.But hes going out with my mate. Though she recently told me, she wants to dump him.If she dumps him should I make a move? HHEELLPP!!... (31 words)

I want to be casual with my ex but she's made it clear that would hurt her. How can I deal with this???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, ive recently become mates which my ex girlfriend, after a year and half relationship there were plenty of arguments after, but it is all good now. The problem i'm having is I feel like I'm having sexual attractions over her which in one half I want in the other I do not. ... (125 words)

My girlfriend ended the relation as I went to a festival unaccompanied by her, now she regrets it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a problem with my Girlfriend of 4 years. I'm 21 now and we've been together for 4 years... We've had arguments before, but who hasn't... Our relationship was stressed by me going to university but we have managed to get through it until now, mainly by me c... (321 words)

I virtually met my ex after over 37 years, without our spouses' knowledge, and we love each other again...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age - I found my ex-girlfriend after 37 years, she in Denmark and I in Canada. We e-mail, MSN and talk (hours every day) without our spouses knowledge. We are both happily married. Now we tell each other how we love each other agin and plan to meet. Any advice ?... (49 words)

Has he gone off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I need help, I don't now if I should start talking to him again? You know when you get that feeling that pokes you tell you do it well this is that feeling. I guess I should start from the beginning - my mum has a best friend who has a step son (name is Jay) who is at ... (456 words)

Would it be wrong to have a gay relationship with my ex-teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm a 16-year-old bisexual female, turning 17 in November. Anyway, I've become very attracted to a 28-year-old female friend of mine. She's actually one of my ex-teachers, but we get along great and have loads in common. I geniunely think there might be somethi... (91 words)

I talk to this guy as a mate but he has a girlfriend. She sees me as a threat. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my best friends introduced me to a guy. He claims he has been trying to talk to me for a long time. And I know he has but I never gave him the time of day. Now we've been talking for about a year... He has a girlfriend. He claims he likes me so much and wants to be with ... (218 words)

We fell asleep together; the other competitors from the sporting club told me it's wrong, I could never have taken advantage over it though and it worries me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and theres this girl who's 15. We've known each other for years now and have always been really close. We went away with a sporting club a little while ago, and on the last night there, all crowded into one room. Her being much younger and having had a lot hard... (226 words)

My married life: lacking romance, lacking friendship and just plain lonely.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been married 2 years and have a child who is nearly 1.My problem is that my husband doesnt want to spend time with me to take me out,He just stays at home,eats and uses the computer to do stupid research.He doesnt do anything romantic like bring me flowers or gifts,doesnt ... (152 words)

How do you re-program yourself to trust someone you love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

- How do you re-program yourself to trust someone you love? I am seeing a wonderful guy but I have never trusted men easily. I've had a few knocks it's true, but my trust issues do not seem to be based entirely on past experiences or my childhood. I just get these "gut" feel... (519 words)

I moved in w/ my gf and her family. All I do is clean for them! My gf notices my attitude. What can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have a serious attitude problem. I have had one all of my life I think?....Atleast I've been this way to my mom and my brother for as far back as I can remember. My mom always tells me, you'll be lucky if someone actualyl stays with you, cause its so bad sometime... (372 words)

I said I would move to her town, but I don't think I have the money! I am very afraid for our future, IF I even have one with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am just a normal guy, almost hitting 30, and looking for my better half. I have been in two serious relationships so far, never married, though. First of all, let me start by mentioning that I came to this country only about a year and a half ago. I had this transla... (1656 words)

My mother hasn't spoken to me in a month and has been telling my children lies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A liitle confused. My mother hasn't been speaking to me for over a month due to the fact that I went back to my ex who she doesn't like. Mind you I have two boys ages 12 and 6 who she has been putting stuff in their heads which I think is not right at all, before this all ... (119 words)

Pleasuring myself makes me feel disgusting, but I know I shouldn't and that it's completely normal!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

- Hi, i'm 15 years old and im not in any relationship, i've never been in a relationship before and i've never had sex, but the one thing im addicted to is masturbating. At first I always try and tell myself to stop but I end up doing it anyway and after masturbating I feel ... (108 words)

How much weight will i loose walking 3km a day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how much weight ,an average ,wil i lose if i walk 3km a day for two week and eet only 3 times a day? plus drink lots of water? thx. xxx. im 16 if thatl help any.... (37 words)

How do i tell her that i have snuck out of the house to go to jazz concerts and play in a few jazz concerts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - This really isnt a life or death question but ive been playing the trumpet for 5 years now and ive been told that i am really good at it. However my passion is jazz and my mom wont let me join a jazz band only a classical band. She actually becomes enfuriated when i even play ... (114 words)

Should i be concerned about my guy and this girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

- Okay what should I make of this? My b/f said he had to go out on a field trip with a female co-worker today. He had her come by our house and pick him up at 7:00 AM. This was a little weird, as he usually drives to work and employees take a field truck from there. But when he ... (208 words)

Boyfriend's family party has got me worried. how should i act?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and abit, and recently i have become close with his family! i am 16, his sister 20 has invited me to her 21st birthday I am scared because her friends will be there, who are quite different and because of the age difference too..... (132 words)

How do i help her and get her to open up to me more and relax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Right, when your wife/gf is a teacher obviously its a stressfull job how can you help her through the stressfull times when shes tired out and getting herself upset and worked up. Because thats how my gf, soon wife to be is at the moment. Shes not one to show when shes upset or ... (152 words)

I want to move in together and he doesn't. how do we get around this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to move in together and he doesn't. My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year and 7 months. This is my first serious relationship. We both live in the same city but in different apartments. I spend about 3 quarters of my time at his house and he barely stays ... (299 words)

I just want to know if I was wrong to ask my BF to leave for about and hour while she was there, or was he just being an inconsiderate jerk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I moved in together after being together for 10 months. I have yet to tell my mom. But it is not just me and him, one of my friends is there as well as my guys bro and his friend. The thing is, my mom thinks that I live with 4 girls. She is coming to the ne... (267 words)

I like 2 lads but don't think im pretty enough for them. what should i do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hii, well i like 2 guys that are sort of friends.. but i dont think either of them like me because im not very pretty and im sort ..fat. im quite shy too but i want a boyfriend and the are really god boys! what should i do/? thnx for your time... (54 words)

Any tips on how to spice up our sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my gf have been going out afew yrs now and want to spice things up abit. We both fancy trying sex in public-obviously not where people can see but the risk of getting caught just makes it really exciting, we also want to make it really passionate. We would like some tips ... (57 words)

Partner of 11 years dumped me cause i'm fat and i've taken him back but i cant forget what he said. what should i do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ok help my ex broke up with me said he dont love me. and im to fat. he moved out. we were together 11 yrs have 2 kids.but he only moved out for couple of wks then came back as he broke up with his new gf.but now his here sleeping in my bed and i cant seem to stop loving him i ... (78 words)

If you like someone but are unsure how the land lies how do you pursue them without being too obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A question for all the guys and gals out there....if you like someone but are unsure how the land lies...how do you pursue them without being too obvious??? AAaggghhrrr..for almost a year now I've been good mates with a male colleague. We email each other everyday, normal... (159 words)

How can the man I love truely of done this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Am so down and hurting. How can the man I have love truely do this to me. And for my stupidity and low self esteem, I couldn't break up with him. It hurts my somuch. I have tried to forgive him but I always remember and that is . I remember going to his end one day and met ... (374 words)

I like her, she likes me but i'm too nervous. what can i do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys i need some help their is a girl i like and she likes me, i think anyway she asked me out today. but i got so nervous i made an excuse to leave and never anwser her. should i text her and say yes and say im sorry for running away. but if i do go out with her will my ... (91 words)

Is it normal not to come from sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been sleeping with my boyfriend for about six months, he was my first and so far I haven't been able to come through sex. I don't really mind as it still feels really good but I was wondering if you had any tips, is it normal not to come from sex??? ... (52 words)

What if she is playing me the same way she did her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I ain't proud of what I'm about to divulge but it was great, now I seem to be tormenting myself. A couple of years ago, I was dating a girl after a year or so, we were going thru a break up. During the break-up time, I met another girl and we became 'fuck buddies' This a... (505 words)

Have any scorpio men out there that have cheated and been dumped or been in relationships where you've been down right wrong and been dumped, and then realized that you made a mistake and will change? or have you changed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I am a very paranoid and superstitious person! i think that because of my past it has made me less trusting in alot of people i always read horoscopes they have always given me a certain path or idea of what tomorow is goin to give. as far as i'm concerned and studied... (138 words)

How can I get through to him that this episode makes me uncomfortable without sounding insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for three months. Recently while at his place his Messenger popped up with a loud kiss inviting him to a falling hearts chat room. Her e-mail starts off as Hey babe. I asked him about this female before and he said she was just a girl from ... (122 words)

Not sure if I'm making my bf happy...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Am a mother of three..going on four. Am living with my boyfriend for 8 years..but been going out for 11 years. Not married. Still waiting for him to propose. Anyways he is 5'3 tall weight 170lbs and I'm 5'5 tall and weight 272lbs. I did all a mother and a wife should do. But i ... (94 words)

Girlfriend has bipolar and now wants nothing to do with us. what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend and i recently seperated after 2 half yrs.she suffers with bipolar.we laughed and talked for hours.her reasons for splitting are that i'm to blame for a bipolar incident that happened when we were on holiday in scotland.i can't understand why.i've always looked ... (156 words)

Every time I see something that reminds me of my ex girlfriend I break down into tears. Please help...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf has just broken up with me and i'm not handling it very well. I feel as if i'm slipping into depression and nothing seems worth doing. I truly loved this girl and was convinced that i wanted to be with her for life. When I used to tell her this she used to tell me that ... (226 words)

Caught genital herpes from a cold sore... now it has rocked my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my fella for nearly a year and a half. Early on in the relationship I contracted genital herpes from a cold sore. Needless to say this hit me quite hard, but my boyfriend stuck by me and did everything he could. He treated me like a princess, and ... (363 words)

Met a girl at a club and swapped numbers but unsure if I should text her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl in a club at the weekend, and i'm not sure whether i should text her. I saw her earlier on in the evening, and was attracted to her, however i don't think that she saw me, and she was with a large group of friends so i didn't approach her. Later on in the even... (152 words)

We slept together and I like him, now. He's a lot older..can anything come of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, i slept with a guy i really should not have, never thought anything of him before, but now i think i like him. nothing can come of it, but i dont know if i should talk to him about our encounter. He is alot older than me, and can be quite intimidating.... (53 words)

He's baffling! He's loving one moment and not the next..what is he up to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 38 and divorced with 2 children Met a man 4 months ago who pursued me with great gusto. He is also divorced with 2 children and is working through his grief at having to share custody of his children. I have grown close to him. One week he is all positive and talks about a ... (221 words)

My husband has been txting an ex from years ago. I'm not handling it well....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age - My husband has been sending text messages to the girlfriend he was seeing before we met ten years ago. I found some of them yesterday. Up til then I thought we were happy and he was very loving and intimate with me. But in the text messages to her he says " I love you to bits ... (195 words)

The girl i used to like now likes me. But I've got a girlfriend now. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - okay well my problem is as follows Im 17 and theres this girl 14 going on 15. i used to know her very well and we went away on tour together, i was, lets say madly in love with her but nobody knew as they all thought i was just playing with her as a friend/big brother.... (256 words)

I'm obsessed with looking up skirts! Yes i know, sounds strange, whats going on???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - not sure if you could help me.I supose its an addiction.I am obsessed with womens knickers and constantly try to look up womens skirts,even schoolgirls.I know its wrong but i love to see the secrets.one day i will be caught and arrested,am i a pervert? when i saw your nam... (95 words)

We have an age gap. He's got children. He wants to marry me. What should i do???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 yrs old unmarried girl and I will be 27 yrs in Jan 08. A 40 yrs old married man with 2 kids (wife no more) loves me a lot and even I also like him ) he wants to marry me. But I m afraid whether this mrrg will be successful or not as there is a difference of 13 yrs in ... (91 words)

I'm wondering if my guy is cheating with my friend..what do you think???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with an old old friend of mine. we've been together for about 2 years and he has cheated before (dont give me shit about it, we're all abit deluded when we really love someone...) thing is, i am not up for another heart break! sooo... h... (510 words)

I've taken the morning after pill twice, can i take it again? Is this safe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex just as i was coming off my period, but the condom split, am i stil able to take th morning after pill. also iv taken th pill twice before. is this safe? would it affect my babies later in life?... (43 words)

I wanted a wife and she has never seen herself as anything other than a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (M)

age - I have been with my partner for 10 years, it has not been easy as I work away very often, leaving her with our 2 children. We seem to be always quarrelling about stupid things, mostly my insecurity in thinking she is giving out the wrong signals to other men, and why can't she ... (711 words)

Can I get pregnant if let's say I touched my vagina right after wiping my hands off my boyfriend's cum with tissue and wash my hands with water only??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Can I get pregnant if let's say I touched my vagina right after wiping my hands off my boyfriend's cum with tissue and wash my hands with water only?? I'm getting paranoid lol help me thanks! =)... (41 words)

How can I show him I care through the phone? How can I tell him how I feel without a fight and help him understand??????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, First to let you know a little about the situation, I've been in a relationship with my fiance for 2 years going on 3 years, engaged not too long ago, we're getting married in October. The thing is he's been 5 hours away by car for the last month, I haven'... (566 words)

I'm in the last stages of getting married and my parents don't like him. How can I get them to see him the way I do?

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for three years and on the verge of getting married. My boyfriend's parents approved but my parents are hesitant on the grounds that they aren't comfortable with my boyfriend for no apparent reason. What should I do? We are at our final stages ... (59 words)

Should I embrace my romantic feelings and wear my heart on my sleeve or should I try to hold back and keep myself a little guarded in case things don't work out?

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy I really like for about six weeks. We've known each other for years and it's the third summer in a row we've hooked up. This time, it feels more serious than ever before, and we've agreed to be exclusive and have a proper relationship. We live in ... (263 words)

When in a relationship is it right to become sexually active?

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - When in a relationship is the right time to start becoming sexually active? And does an age difference from say 17-23 would make any difference?... (25 words)

How do I tell my parents the guy I'm seeing is 6 years older than I am? I'm 17.

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this guy is 23 and I'm 17... I'm ok with it, and he's ok with it. My parents? yea no, they don't even know we're dating. What makes it worse? He lives about an hour and a 1/2 aways drive from where I live, and I always have to make excuses to go up to see him (which is ... (151 words)

Is it worth continuing to talk to her or should I just give up and move on?

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29 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 years and she never introduce me to her parents. I kept asking her when and she keeps saying not now and making excuses and such. Early this year we broke up for no apparent reason. She was talking to this guy (I know cause ... (231 words)

Do you believe that "single" people are more inclined to mastubate on a frequent level or vice versa with those in relationships?

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so earlier today a friend and I got together at my place for our routine coffee talk. We discuss everything and anything, today's topic somehow became masturbation. At this point in time we are both currently single. My friend (let's call him Trevor) being a male and me ... (259 words)

What should I do if I have come to a stage were we dont talk, hold hands or anything besides trying my best to clean the house etc and none of it gets appreciated?

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have never had a child before, my partner has a son 3years whom we care for everyday, we all live together and the ex only wants my partner. She doesn't want to see her son. It was okay I guess at first only because I love the kid... but now my partner is treating me like ... (194 words)

I've never felt so deeply in love before, I'm going crazy faking the smiles and hiding the tears...

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now and I love him to death but the initial butterflies are gone and it's deeper, he's more like a family member. His friend and I became really good friends over the past 5 years too and I can't figure out whether he ever liked me. ... (184 words)

What is wrong with me and should I worry?

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I get cold chills sometimes. Even if it is not even cold and I just get it at random moments for no reason. That never used to happen to me and my blood pressure is fine. Someone told me I might have some kind of infection. What is wrong with me and should I worry?... (56 words)

Is it okay to be in a serious relationship where it is near perfect, but to still wonder/dream/occasionally hope that the "wow/breath taking" love will happen someday?

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes I believe in an amazing fairytale love, in which although circumstances can never be perfect, the two people feel an amazing love, in which passion and etc is all included. Other times, I believe people should be realistic, and realise that passion in every relatio... (91 words)

Any advice as to how I can arouse him without touching his male members would be greatly appreciated.

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I am having problems. I am in a fairly new relationship and he knows just what to do to arouse me sexually, but I don't know how to arouse him. He is a little inexperienced and doesn't know what he likes. Any advice as to how I can arouse him without touching his male ... (65 words)

I do have a loving passion with my boyfriend, but I have never felt this so sexually charged for a person in my life.

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my 20's. I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I love an undescribable amount. However, when we were having problems, we broke up for a month. In this time, I dated a male friend. We stopped dating because I knew he wasn't someone I wanted long ter... (153 words)

I have been married to my husband almost a year now and things have just been going down hill.

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have a problem. I have been married to my husband almost a year now and things have just been going down hill. We have a daughter together and we are expecting another one. I just cant take this marriage any longer there is no respect, understanding, or romance in ... (145 words)

Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome?

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29 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome? I have had the fantasy of seeing my wife with another man for 2-years now. I have asked her about it and she always said no. I make little comments and suggestions all the time. Finally getting a craiglist ad jus... (822 words)

It seems as though he does not care anymore.

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for 15 months. Lately it seems like he is so comfortable with our relationship that sometimes it seems like he does not even care about me or what is going on in my life. I always want to know whats up with him or how everything is going but it just seems ... (152 words)

How can i step it up a notch?

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29 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Well there's this girl i like, i see her every weekend and she is interested in me because we always talk and are around each other when we are out. The people around us know we like each other including her mum, and keep dropping hints in front of us which is a little u... (345 words)

Should i try again?

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been broken up from my ex for 3 yrs in Oct. I am still madly in love w/ him and I don't know if he is w/ me. We only dated 5 mths but we lived together and broke up really badly. It was just sort of one phone call and me saying I'm done and that's that. We never ... (288 words)

I lose my erection when trying to penetrate!

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29 August 2007 (M) age 36-40 - i have a problem which has been troubling me for a long time, about 3 years. i have no problem having sex, but there are many, and i mean many, occasions where i lost my erection while trying to penetrate, the moment i went in i would slowly lose it, but then i would be ... (134 words)

Shouldn't we just 'get over it' if we break up with someone? Anyone believe this?

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29 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there..i know this is a pretty random question..but id like to know.... Who belives that when you break up with someone .. or when someone tells you the truth and its not what you wanted to hear .. that theres no real point sulking and feeling sorry for yourself.. becau... (86 words)

She is scared to hug me or be affectionate with me in front of her parents!

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29 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have like the worlds greatest girlfriend but i am getting really annoyed because she is scared to hug kiss or do anything with me because she is scared fo her parents who i have known for a long long time and they both like me. how can i breakher of this bad habit? its ... (118 words)

I desperately want to love her as much as she loves me! Help?

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29 August 2007 (M)

age - hello, this may sound obsurd but i have a partner whom loves me all the time i on the other hand feel love for her sometimes them sometimes not. she is really a wonderful person and i dont want to loose her and i desprately want to love her as much as she does me. we are both... (171 words)

She's very affectionate with her male friend..trying not to jump to conclusion but struggling here. Any advice?

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29 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my g/f for 3 years and although we're currently living 50 miles away cos of my work, I hoped she could move to be with me soon, We get to see each other at only weekends, I haven't been pushy asking her to move as I know it would mean leaving her friends. ... (214 words)

She's cheated in our past, so is her recent behavior making me paranoid or was she just teasing?

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29 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend cheated on me while she was on vacation. I forgave her because of certain circumstances. last night however I got the vibe she was sending mixed signals. she wouldn't let me touch her like I usually do and accused me of being "clingy" but she usually does thi... (76 words)

I thought that going to live with him would help our long distance struggles, but things are worse now!

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29 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i use to live in miami and i decided to go to school in gainesville, i had a long distant relationship with a guy from gainesville i thought when i moved up here things would get better they have just gotten more intense and fights and we cant stand eachother i wish i could be ... (162 words)